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Due in December 05

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HappySecret · 14/03/2005 14:09

OK, it's way too early to test yet, and I'm probably tempting fate here, but I've got classic morning sickness, the dates are just about right, and I'm pretty sure I'm pregnant. And I've always wanted to start one of these due in threads .

And if the blue line winks at me in 10 days time, then I'll come clean and post under my real nickname.

Any one else?

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golds · 17/04/2005 12:11

Thank you for your reassurance, I am not bleeding now so am feeling a bit better, had a nice soak in the bath and now not doing much.

Feeling a bit more positive about tomorrow now and thankfully its first thing so I haven't got to wait all day, will obviously let you all know the outcome.

Melanie I hope you are OK too

ChaCha · 17/04/2005 13:28

Hi Golds, I'm Chacha, i'm on the November thread but as I am on the stats here too am posting between both. I also have a scan tomorrow so fingers crossed for both of us. Melanie's post was reassuring and hopefully you'll feel much better this time tomorrow.
Thinking of you all x

goldenoldie · 17/04/2005 19:06

Good luck for tomorrow Golds - I had a bleed last week, but scan the next day found two babes, both with heartbeat - that was at 6 weeks and 2 days.

I've also been getting the lower back-ache and pulling sensation that comes before af on and off for the last month.

scully · 18/04/2005 08:51

Gosh lots to read since I last checked on Friday. Good luck Golds, hope the scan goes ok.

Nemo1977 · 18/04/2005 09:17

golds good luck for today hun

i have my gp appointment at 10 and feel absolutely petrified...dont know why..lol I am asking for an early scan so fingers crossed she grants one.
Hope u are all well
take care

quietlycautious · 18/04/2005 09:41

This will be my last post on here - well under this name anyway. We told our family and friends at the weekend and I can now reveal that my real MN name is..........

sweetheart · 18/04/2005 09:45

DA NAH!!!!

Not that most people hadn't guessed anyway - I'm totally crap at hiding!!!

wow it's been a busy weekend.

Just wanted to say sorry to hear about all the bleeds. A friend of mine had quite heavy bleeding throughout her pregnancy and she has a lovely little boy now.

Melanie, congrats on your BFP - fingers crossed for you. I'll add you to the stats.

I understands everyones feelings of nervousness - I too am terrified of going for a scan incase there isn't a heartbeat - and I am one of the unlucky 3% I'm afraid. We told everyone because they had already guessed and it was killing me trying to keep up with the lies - they were all asking me lots of tricky questions to try and catch me out - buggers!!!!!!

Papillon · 18/04/2005 09:46

((Golds)) I passed a little blood with dd1. First thing in the morning for three days.

Hope the appointment goes well and helps to reassure you.

Glad you are able to come out of the pregnancy closest now quietly cautious

Nemo1977 · 18/04/2005 11:39

hi all
have been to gps and been given date of 16th dec. She has made me an appointment with midwife in 3 weeks and is sending a letter to the hospital about an early scan. If i hear nothing by midwife appointment then i will ask mw to arrange one.

Qc or SH nice to meet u..lol

LipstickMum · 18/04/2005 12:12

Sweetheart

Big congratulations on your wonderful news! Fingers are all crossed for a successful pregnancy, we miss you on the June thread!

A 'little bird' spilled the beans to us at a June lunch this month, although I had my suspicions!!!

Warm wishes to you and your family xxx

golds · 18/04/2005 12:32

Well this is the end of the line for me girls, went for scan this morning and there was nothing there. The Doc in A&E forgot to check my HCG levels on Saturday, so had blood taken today and have to go back again on Wednesday for more, should know result on Wed evening.

The nurse said that if I had been due when I said, then she would have seen something today.

I wish you all the luck and love in the world and I look forward to hearing of your new arrivals in December.

I'm OK honestly, just annoyed I'd told the kids.

Nemo1977 · 18/04/2005 12:33

((((golds))))) I am so sorry hun. Hugs to you and all your family. Is it possible your dates are a little out????

golds · 18/04/2005 12:53

Well, I really don't know, I had been on the pill which makes with 28 days on the dot. When I fell PG it was in my first month of not taking it. My period was due on the 4th (if 28 days) I tested on the 11th and it was a faint positive.

I passed a little (I mean very little) blood on Saturday which made me go to A&E, they did a PG there and it was positive. They said today I should be just 6 weeks and if that were the case they would have seen something.

The nurse was puzzled as she believes I should have bled more if I was miscarrying and the neck of the womb was still closed on Saturday. I didn't bleed again after that first episode.

I forgot to mention to the nurse that it was my first month off the pill and maybe my dates are a little out. I really don't know, the HCG test on Wednesday will show the truth.

Does anyone know at what stage of the PG you can detect something, say if I was only 4 half weeks would that show or not ????

I know nothing and am totally confused but totally believe its gone.

sweetheart · 18/04/2005 13:25

golds, so sorry to hear you having such an awful time. Has the hospital not given you the name of someone to contact with any questions you may have - or could you perhaps try phoning your gp or mw.

It's very puzzling that they just can't find anything!?!?!?!

My thoughts are with you - hope you feel better soon.

Spacecadet · 18/04/2005 13:29

i hope you dont mind me gatecrashing i lurked on here to congratulate dm who has graduated from ttc, we were both on aug thread together, golds please dont panic yet.honey, honest, with my dd2 who was born in July last year, I had a bleed at what should have been 7 weeks preg, quite heavy too, was rushed to hospital and scanned, was convinced of my dates too, but scan showed nothing, not a sausage, they did an internal scan and that showed atiny full stop sized sac, had I got my dates wrong?? no I tols them I am convinced, even if I conceived late in my clycle I should have been at least 6 weeks, preg was positive, I was throwuing up everyhwere, hcg levls suggested a preg of about 7 weeks so they said, there is no baby, you have a molar preg or an ectopic, ectopic was ruled out so they sent me home to be rescanned in a week. they told me it was def a mole where you have no baby but just a placental growth which can become cancerous, they give me info on it, told me it caused abnormally hcg levels, i went home heartbroken, dh and i told everyone there was no baby, 2 days later hcg confirmed a supposed abnormality as they hadnt doubled as they should, we prepared for surgery etc and I spent a week crying and just wanting to be rid of the monster I thought was inside me, i week later scan......low and behold...a tiny 6 week and 6 day old fetus , was just visible!!!!!!!!!everything looked normal, the baby had been just a bit to small to show on the scan, my dates had been out by about a week and a half!!!!!!!!!, I had lotsof scares during my preg and didnt really relax but shes fine, healthy and happy, sometimes medical science does get it wrong, I have said this to others and they have lost their babies sadly..I lost one a month ago, but it isd possible that if you are just a day or so under 6 weeks your baby will not show on a .scan. I still have that precious first pic of emily when she was a peanut!! i will keep my fingers crossed that it is just that you xonceived a few dayslater, good luck honey.

golds · 18/04/2005 13:32

I have just spoken to them again, because now my mind is going mad.

At 6 weeks you should see something on the scan, at 5 weeks its possible not to see anything. Still no further forward - will wait to hear outcome of blood test.

Spacecadet · 18/04/2005 13:33

by the way hcg levels are not an exact science either, they tell you that they should double in 24 hours, this is not strictly true as it can take up to 36 hours to double my consultant told me and the level can vary depending on the woman, some exhibit high levels in early preg, others dont initially.

Spacecadet · 18/04/2005 13:35

golds did they give you an internal scan?? also the heart does not start to beat until 6 weeks, so even a day or so out would show nothing, poss a tiny sac, as it is the initial heartbeat that isspotted on scan at 6 weeks as opposed to a fetus, my 6 week scan with emily showed a barely there fetus.

golds · 18/04/2005 13:38

Thanks spacecadet, I think its time I stop speculating or feeling negative, afterall I don't want to make anyone else feel miserable on this thread.

Thanks for all you support so far, I will let you know if I have some positive news to share soon. Fingers crossed

sweetheart · 18/04/2005 13:39

golds,

Please feel free to come and chat - we are here for you.

If you need a sholder to cry on please feel free to CAT me

golds · 18/04/2005 13:39

I was offered one, but I didn't want one, maybe I should of. I had a awful one on Saturday and just didn't feel up to it.

sweetheart · 18/04/2005 13:40

golds, I had a scan at about 9 weeks with my last pregnancy and they couldn't find anything!!!!

I had an internal scan which showed the little bump!!!

Spacecadet · 18/04/2005 13:44

do you still feel preg, i will look out for your news, fingers crossed, sometimes the scan does missthe baby honest, i had the same scenario with ds 2 aswell, i had lost him!!!!! and was sheduledfor d and c!!!! something made me hang on and i was right too, hwas fine, i obviously conceived late in my cycle on both occassions, my hydatidform mole is sat on my lap and my lost baby is playing in his room!!!!!!!!! good luck best wishes to everyone on here.

Melanie75 · 18/04/2005 16:09

Hi Golds

Sorry that your hospital trip has not been conclusive.

As spacecadet had asked, was it an internal scan? Per my earlier post, at my 6 week scan, I had a normal 'belly' scan which showed nothing. I then got the internal scan on the same day (which was not uncomfortable at all), which showed the sac.

Unless you have had the internal scan, I think you are really in the same position as you were before you went to the appointment.

I agree that the small amount of bleeding you experianced is unlikely to be a miscarriage.

Lets hope you get some peace when you get the bloods back on Wed. Will you get another scan soon?
Take care

golds · 18/04/2005 16:27

Thanks melanie, no I didn't have a internal scan, wish I had now.

I'm starting to believe now that maybe things are OK, I did another PG test today (had one left over) and it was a definate + that could be hormones left over or that I am still PG. I'm still feeling tired and sick too.

Hearing your stories and experiences have given me a bit of hope.

If you suffer a m/c at this stage (6 weeks) do you bleed for a while, the nurse says I should be experiencing more loss than I had if I was. Roll on Wed evening