Due in Nov 2005??!!!

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Hello!

I'm starting a Due in Nov thread! A bit early maybe, but hey! By my calcs(!) I'm due Nov 3rd, are there any other ladies out there around the same time? I'm sure loads for Nov haven't even missed their period yet!

Anyway, I'm 27
pg no 4, dd1 born ar 26 weeks, sadly didn't make it, but now happily have dd2 age 5 and ds age 3 next week. And 1 lovely dp of 7 years!

Sorry if you've read this for a 2nd time but was advised by sallie to post on here!! x x x

Craving sleep here at mo. Been up since 4am and going for a nap as dp is home today! Ahhh bed.
Talk later girls. Take care xxxxxx
Think I'll dig out maternity bras as normal ones are tight! Yay I have boobies again!

HellKat, feeling very jealous of you at the moment, i long for a nap, wish i had time. I think having a house full of children while I am carrying my own is going to kill me off.

Just been double checking my dates and have realised that the last baby i lost was at 7 weeks not 8 and as I am comin upto the end of my 7th week, have started getting very worried. Fingers crossed it will be okay. Hopefully all will be well right up until the end.
hope everyone else is feeling ok, and not too sick or tired.

Tex did you have your youngest in the old hospital or the new one? I had ds in the old one so I think I'll need a hospital visit before I pop so that I know where I'm going - it would have been so much easier in the old hospital as everything would have felt familiar. I've only ever been to the new hospital once to visit a friend after she'd given birth.

Diddle try not to worry too much, we've all got everything crossed for you and just think in a few days you'll be past this date and you can hopefully then start to enjoy being pregnant. Take care of yourself & get as much rest as you can, this is the time for vegging on the sofa and stuffing your face so make the most of it while you can

feel guilty, about vegging although i feel like i need to. DH hasn't really acknowleged the pregnancy much, think he's waiting till we're a bit further on, so i;m not being pampered as much. Plus he is working late and feels just as knackered after doing a lot more than i have. So i feel guilty for putting my feet up, it hasn't stopped me much though.

Hi all......
I think history is repeating itself for me. I have started to bleed a little this evening. I can't beleive this is happening again. I can't understand it. My boobs still hurt and there is no pain like before. HB has been on the phone and is trying to convince me to go to dr's. I caan't bare the thought of going through a m/c again. I think I am just going to leave it and wait and see. Life is sooooooooooooo cruel!

Oh Peepee, cannot imagine how you must be feeling, our thoughts and best wishes are with you, I hope it's just a cruel false alarm and everything will be ok x x x

I hope it turns out to be a false alarm too. Praying everything will turn out ok for you, can't begin to imagine what you must be going through.

peepee, my fingers are crossed that it will be a false alarm and that all will be fine. Get some rest and try not to stress too much, I know it is hard having been there myself, but stay positive. Love and hugs xx

Well, i got my bfp on monday, unexpected, not planned, already have a 13month old little boy, dp is not happy, he wants me to have a termination, but i cant, ive had 4 m/c's before my son and i cant do it, he thinks im being selfish wanting to keep the baby, i couldnt live with myself if i went through with it, so im keeping the baby so long as the pregnancy continues sucessfully and we may be on the verge of a break up as he does not want anougher baby yet and doesnt know if he will stay with me
sorry just needed to get that off my chest

wowbeen away just 2 days, and people have been chating so much in here.It took me ages to read all this
Still feel great, only hormones make my mood change to often, and it drives my dp crazy.he really hopes it wont stay like this for next 9 months....ha ha i'm quite shure it will.To be honest it is very annoying, cause everything makes me get angry, cry or just misarble
Good thing is that at least at work i feel fab, cause i have so many babys and new parents around( i work in Mothercare), and i'm always the first to know whats new in stock, or what offers are on.
By the way...is anyone else liveing in Southampton area?

G'day girls can i join please???? I have come to join you cp3,texx and yingers.

OMG i cant believe i am finally on a due in thread . I only just found out today that iam pg

My Stats

Me 27
DH 30
DS 2.4 naturally conceived
TTC naturally 1 year
found out after a lap in Dec that tubes are badly blocked and we had to do IVF
First cycle of IVF and BFP wooohooo
EED 22nd November 05 4 days b4 DS 3rd birthday.

Looking forward to chating with you gals.
LOL Tania

Peepee - How are you this morning? Here's hoping the bleeding has stopped and that you are taking it easy. Fingers crossed!

Busyalexmummy- Why does your partner not want another baby?

Flowerlady- I wouldn't say I am emotional but I am definitely more ratty and less patient with the kids I teach! Oh Dear!

Good morning ladies.

Peepee - thinking of you and hoping everything has settled down.

Congrats and welcome on board busyalexsmummy and tania2.

Busyalexsmummy - sorry to hear you having a hard time. this should be the happiests time of any womam's life. do you have a good support system (ie family) if he decides to leave. i have a few friends who are dying to have babies but whose dp/dhs refuse. can't help thinking men can be so selfish and depriving us of children is the cruelest thing they can do. hope your dp comes round.

Enthusia - small world. don't worry don't know anyone at your school and even if i did i wouldn't say anything because it is your happy news to share and not anyone elses. hope you have a good day. don't bite too many heads off.

How is everyone else do?

I need sleep, please!!

catch up later.

Welcome Tania Whoopee how exciting. First docs appontment today so we can try and work out a definate date for me.

Could not sllep last nght with trying to figure out when i was af free. Do you think he can tell just by feeling my tummy or will i need an early scan whci he will prob offer cos of previous problems. Im sooooo impatient i need to know now.

Another question. My boobs are leaking already, is this normal. I stopped breastfedding over a year ago???? Is it just the pregnancy, its just it didnt happen this early before??

Pee Pee, my thoughts are with you, I hope that the bleeding has stopped, I ave read that at around 6 or 7 weeks you may have a little bleeding as the baby burrows deeper into your uterus wall, it may just be that. I'll be thinking of you, having gone through a m/c recently i know exactly what you're thinking, stay positive, its out of your control now, what ever will be will be.

Busyalexmummy - I have never been in your situation so I can only imagine what i might do if I were, have to say after m/c it made me realise how precious life is and i couldn't imagine terminating my pregnancy. You need to do what you feel right doing. Maybe your partner just has major fears that you could sit down and work out, and maybe convince him that your decision is right for you.
I hope you sort it out and we will all be here to support you if you need it. Stay in touch

Well i'm feeling like i have slept on the floor all night, my back is aching like mad, and my breasts are killing me now. My mom is visitng us today and she says saw me last sunday and says my tummy has grown even more since then. I'm going to be huge!!!

Peepee, how are you doing? I know what you're going through. Do check in. I know we're all thinking about you.

Tania2, Great news!! I'm so pleased for you! How are you feeling?

BEKsmum, DS was born at Chelsea Westminster as we were living out that way at the time. This will be my first baby in Bromley. I did have my D&C at the new Farnborough and they were wonderful. Very caring and kind. I hope that bodes well.

Feeling a bit better here which is a huge relief. I just want to start enjoying being pregnant but I've been so ill I've felt nothing but miserable. Think I might even manage a shower today - woo hoo!

Peepee, how are you feeling today, couldn't believe it when I read your thread this morning, I can't imagine what you are going through, I've got everything crossed for you, please keep posting as we're all worried about you.

Busyalexmum, congratulations, great news for you but I'm sorry your partner feels as he does, you can only do what's right for you and hope that the nine months gives him time to get over the initial shock. Had you as a couple always planned to have more than one child? Don't forget he's as much to blame for you getting pregnant, I'm sure you didn't drag him off to bed and force yourself on him! he could have used protection at the time as well, so as they say it takes two to tango. Keep your spirits up, we're all here for you.

Congratulations Tania, welcome to the club! Hope you have a good pregnancy.

Diddle I'm glad it's not just me having a crap nights sleep, I was awake most of the night again last night, but then at 7am when my husband got up I could have slept for hours, needless to say ds got up half an hour later - mother nature sure has a sick sense of humour I'm sure she's really a man

Hope the rest of your girls are feeling well, have a good day.

Tex glad to hear you're feeling a bit better, must be good if you can muster the energy for a shower!

Farnborough is a nice hospital and the staff are great if a little stretched, last time I didn't have a midwife with me until it was time to push, so was very glad that my mum was with me!
I now know one of the sisters on the maternity ward and she's also the anithesists assistant so if she's on when you deliver you'll love her, she's from New Zealand and is an absolute star, she'll really put you at your ease if you need an epidural or a c-section. As she's one of my best mates, I'm not sure I'll need her to know that much information about me though!!

I go to Frimley Hospital which i loved twice before and will again no doubt. Really well looked after.

Anyone help on my leaky boobs. ??????

I can help with you leaking problem, I have been looking it up on the internet for you, and it is quite normal for your breasts to start leaking colostrum already, it does say that it is even more common between 4 and 6 months, but it is nothing abnormal. nothing to worry about. perhaps the fact that you have breastfed or been pregnant before and it wasn't that long ago really, may mean that you are leaking early.
Don't panic

morning everyone,
peepee my thoughts are with you. Enthusia when were you due??? is anyone else having a c/section for there delivery??? i know i will be having one as i have already had 2 sections (an emergency and then a planned cos DD was breech) Planned was much better than emergency!! just wonder if anyone has experience of section 3 and how long it took then to recover???

Thanks guys......
I am trying to stay positive. It is such a lovely day here the sun is shining and am lounging around in the garden. The bleeding seems to have slowed down. It's not red but a brownish colour so I am hoping it is old stuff. I daren't go to the EPU as on previous occassions they have carried out internal scans found all to be OK and then within days I have had my m/c's. I can't help to think they helped in some way. I know it sounds ridiculous...... Oh well i am going to get on with some reading and try and enjoy the day.
Thanks again. I wish I had found this website before as the support is touching.
Wishing you all well. x