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Due sept 08 - will the last person to pop please turn out the lights

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carrieon · 24/09/2008 21:12

Thought I'd better start the thread since a) I've never done it before b) I'm not actually in labour right now c) it'll take all the 9 remaining posts on the previous thread to get the link to this one done correctly!

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Pidge · 06/10/2008 21:34

Thanks for the pep talk ninja. You know I am having a lovely maternity leave. Can't quite believe I might get another day to myself tomorrow, with a nice swim, and maybe a bit of time to do some knitting. I am making the most of it and just enjoying myself! I know what is to come is going to be wonderful, but very, very hard work.

CONGRATULATIONS to Munkimom and PlusOneMore. Brilliant, brilliant news. Looking forward to joining you before too long.

I am sneakily hanging out in the October thread too, just to have some company, but I promise I'll be over to the postnatal thread just as soon as I can.

The most exciting news here is that our kitchen worksurfaces got installed today. Never did I imagine they would beat the baby to it!

sagecat · 06/10/2008 21:51

Pidge never fear i'm still here!!!

Well really i've just got home from hospital. Well waters broke at about 7.45 this morning - really gushing and very mild contractions approx 6 mins apart but sometimes a bit irregular. Phoned hospital and they said come in to see how i was doing. got in about 11.30 very quiet, just me, but rather old snippy MW she examined me and said she did not think waters had broken!!!! explained again to her about waters that morning and how this was not 1st child and I remember waters breaking before and everthing else. She really was not convinced - so after i kicked up a bit of a fuss she said to have a scan and see if waters were depleted. Scan woman said there was still average water around babe but since she had nothing to compare to it was fairly meaningless. Anyway back to MW's and new MW who said come in tomorrow for induction since waters broke this morning - snippy MW then appeared and said that wasn't going to happen as still did not think waters had gone (since no longer gushing). I think the 2 MW had words and eventually spoke to consultant. Anyway eventually admitted to see if i was leaking anymore etc and they would see how things went. So had to show my pads to Ward MW all afternoon and evening. Eventually she was happy that yes it was my waters that had gone and therefore i could go home but need to go in for induction tomorrow morning at 8.30 as then it will be 24hours since waters broke - what a day - stressful. So home for night and hoping it will start off itself so don't need the drip tomorrow.

Long post but its been a long day! So hopefully i should have the babe tomorrow - fingers crossed .

Congratulations to Plusonemore
Pidge you could still beat me yet

MoonlightMcKenzie · 06/10/2008 23:32

sagecat Are you happy to be induced? NICE guidelines state that you can wait up to 72 hours with monitoring if you wish!

ninja · 07/10/2008 08:23

Good Luck Sagecat

Pidge, I meant to say I've found the best thing to clean granite with is microfibre cloths without detergent - anything else seems to smear. Enjoy them!

Pidge · 07/10/2008 08:39

sagecat - brilliant to hear from you, good luck for today if you decide to go for the induction.

ninja - thanks for the granite tip! I keep going in and just looking at the kitchen, it really is nearly there now. Just tiling and touching up the paintwork. Amazing.

Still no sign of labour here [whistles merry tune to self to keep spirits up!!]. Actually I do still feel very cheerful, am only 10 days over date, and won't start to get seriously twitchy until 42 weeks at least. And even then, my homebirth team seem happy to wait a bit longer. No talk of inductions yet, and I'm keen to let things take their course as long as baby and I are well.

Today dd1 will be in school and dd2 will be with the childminder, so I'm already planning a lovely time getting my swim in, and maybe pottering round the shops to pick up a couple of things.

Leoloopydoo · 07/10/2008 10:37

Hi Pidge, we are doing great thanks! I have resigned my job and will be a SAHM from next month! DS1 doesn't go to nursery until next year so its going to be a really tough year home alone with all 3, but I'm really looking forward to it!

Your patience amazes me, 10 days overdue and still cheerful! Enjoy your relaxing day!

L
xxx

plusonemore · 07/10/2008 10:38

hi hope you slow coaches are ok

had a tricky night last night, Alfie fed from 3am almost constantly til 8!

Sagecat, don't be scared of the induction, hopefully you'll be like me and not need the drip, my timed labour on the notes is 4 hours 10 mins!

Pidge · 07/10/2008 11:44

plusonemore - see that makes my position look a doddle, at least I am still getting some sleep!

leo - wow, that sounds like an exciting year ahead! One of the things I'm most looking forward to about my maternity leave is time with my other kids before I have to go back to work. I'm going to take a full year this time.

I still don't feel in any way that labour is imminent - the only weird thing today is that I'm very, very breathless. Lungs must be super squished or something. Plus I do feel slightly sick - again probably baby just taking up too much space.

I'm off to get a mid morning snack, then persuade myself to fit in a lunchhour swim whilst I still have a chance.

blimey · 07/10/2008 12:57

pidge great news about granite work surface - I think you will now be truly free to have this baby!
did you see my qn about horniman? if a woman called Margaret still does friday singing and story telling? I ask cos we used to go to one of her classes and I was singing one of songs to ds2 and he was very curious about where I got the song from - he remembered the song but not the woman (he was probably under 2 at the time)

good luck sagecat with induction decisions!

Debs75 · 07/10/2008 13:18

Sagecat Good luck with induction or maybe congrats on baby, hope everything is ok.

Pidge Come on sweetheart can't believe you are off for a swim. It looks like you will indeed be the one to switch off the lights. Can't wait to see you in the postnatal club.

Pidge · 07/10/2008 14:19

blimey - missed your horniman question!! Yes, I remember Margaret too. She was certainly up there until fairly recently, but the last couple of times I've been it's been someone else, so maybe she's moved on. On Friday we were at the stories and music and it was a woman called Zoe with a lovely Irish accent, there was a funny moment in Old Macdonald when she pronounced the animal as "coy", and all the toddlers looked baffled until the "moo moo" revealed it as a "cow"!

Debs75 - Thanks so much for not forgetting us over here on the 'still waiting' thread. With sagecat going for her induction I really think it is just me left. I did my swim - and got several comments on the size of my bump and a few gasps when I revealed when the baby was due .

Looking forward to hearing JennyL and Sagecat's news, not to mention getting myself and this bump OFF this thread! Whispers to baby bump "you can come out now"!!

blimey · 07/10/2008 22:50

thanks Pidge, had hoped she was still there for a revisit for ds2, good luck again!

MunkiMom · 08/10/2008 09:07

Morning Gals.
haven't really found that much time & energy to post since coming home on monday so luckily, this thread doesn't move at super extreme pace any longer! ((makes catching up a doddle!))

I do hope everyone is doing well. and that work surfaces/kitchens are that much closer to completion. hehehe

sage hope the induction/waters breaking went well!! and you have your end result!

righty, i suppose i should say a little something about my birth experience. well, i got to the day unit at 8am....nerves were in an incredible muddle. i was checked in with another gal i had met the day before. and i was put first on the list to go to theatre. ((of course, i was a little happy that it was to be done & over with early on this time, instead of having the day to become increasingly nervous!))

just before i was to be taken down to theatre, an emergency c/s arrived so i was bumped...but maybe for only an hour. so no worries. Got changed and waddled down to the first part of it, getting the spinal block and all the drips inserted. the gal who did my spinal was a trainee, i suspect. and i have the multiple hole-marks on my lower spine to prove it)) so far in both c/s's i' have found the spinal to be the most uncomfortable of the entire procedure.

anyways, i'm finally moved to the next room. the doc is waiting to cut, all is going fine. ((except i could REALLY feel the weight of the baby belly this time around, even though i was on the "tilt" table)) the assistants in the room are keeping the atmosphere chilled and a bit "funny-ha-ha" which is what i wanted. i have my mixed cd playing in the background to take the edge off the experience as well.

at one point, dh looked over the sheet at what was going on. and the look on his face terrified me!!! ((dont think he meant for me to see his expression!)) he said he looked over right as the surgeon had the baby's head in foreceps trying to get him out of the womb! i was a bit surprised at first...and a little irritated about the use of foreceps. anyways, all went well, ds2 was here just 3 songs into my mix cd . i was still quite chilled. he was weighed, and when they said he was 11 lbs 4oz, you could hear the giggles and ooohs & ahhhhs all from everyone in the theatre!! i said to the Mw: you must've had your elbow on the scale when you weighed him! that can't be right!" heheheh no one knew i was having such a whopper! it's the one time you will hear me say: I'm sooo happy that he was c/s!

but no, it was his true weight!! i think i laid there for the remainder of time in theatre, in shock. he's a biggun, but wow he's oh so luvely!!! Instant 3-month old!!

since i'm breast feeding, i'm ALWAYS knackered because of having to keep up with his feeding demands. it's non stop at the moment. i swear my nipples are going to fall off. the sting of early-stage-Bfing is present...and slowly dying off. and so i can get some sleep, i am topping him up with aabout 40-70mils sma with night feeds. otherwise, we'd all be up 24/7. i make PLENTY of milk for him, but i just can't keep up with him, physically/emotionally. ((i never thought there'd be sooooo much difference in feeding an 8lb baby (ds1) to an 11-lber!))

but all is well. ds1 is slowly warming to the idea that the baby is staying put! And of course trying to involve ds1 as much as possible.

MW came around yesterday to remove clips/staples but decided they needed 1 more day...so coming back today. not sure what she's done but since she put on the butterfly stitches yesterday, the cut is burning like mad!! i'm really really loooking forward to it being sorted and sealed very soon.

ok, so that was my novella for the week. (( terribly sorry that its sooo long))
i can hear the baby stirring so better be off for now!

Pidge · 08/10/2008 11:11

Munkimom - brilliant, brilliant story. Wow what a size baby! Unbelievable! Wishing you much happiness and a speedy physical recovery.

Me ... I'm still here ... but .... there has at least been some action. I had two hours of very mild contractions from 4am to 6am, and a bloody show. Of course everything has stopped now it's morning, but dp has decided to start his paternity leave anyway (he'll get 2 weeks from now, then 3 days back at school, then half term hols). And although this baby might still be several days away from coming, I'm hoping it might be a bit sooner.

We're off for a walk to jig it about a bit .

Can't wait to hear sagecat and JennyL's news

MoonlightMcKenzie · 08/10/2008 11:26

'Come on Pi-yidge! Come on Pi-yidge!'

'Woooo hoooo, woooo hooo'

ILikeToScareYouScareYou · 08/10/2008 11:27

Good luck Pidge

Leoloopydoo · 08/10/2008 12:39

Munkimom (just dropped into see how Pidge is doing but was distracted by your story), wow, congratulations.... your ds was heavier than the combined weight of my twins (born at almost 37 weeks)! I breastfed both exclusively until they were 5 months when they started solids so hang in there, you can do it if you want to - tips are to drink more water than you think possible (I was drinking about 4-5 litres of fluid a day at the peak of breast feeding) and eat, eat, eat!

Pidge · 08/10/2008 16:14

Shucks thanks for the cheerleading folks!! No further regular contractions to report, but the baby is sitting sooooo low that it feels it will almost just fall out of its own accord [wishful thinking!]. And walking is very, very ouchy.

Anyway, my pattern has been to start up contractions at night, so maybe tonight ...

Meanwhile I have to go to the overdue clinic at our local hospital later to get scanned to make sure everything is ok, and assuming it is my homebirth team are happy to just carry on the waiting game.

I WILL make it to that postnatal thread one day soon!

mamamufin · 08/10/2008 18:45

Go Pidge Go pidge !!! Sending you lots of labour vibes

Loved your story munki what a whopper! .

We are soon to be reunited on the post natal thread together. Its The end of an era on this thread . I have loved this thread and am really going to miss it.

Take care guys xx

MoonlightMcKenzie · 08/10/2008 20:25

How did it go Pidge?

I have a question? If you get to the end of this thread, - will you start a new one?

sagecat · 08/10/2008 20:34

Hi gals,

BIRTH ANNOUNCMENT - Well i'm home and just about in one piece. starting off where i'd left off - watersbroken and to have induction on tus morning if nothing was starting...

...bounced on ball all evening, went to bed at 11.30pm - nothing happening. 1200 first contraction and very sore. 20min till next, then 15, then 12, 8, 6, 6, think f**k better move quickly. 15mins later we were in car contractions 2 mins approx apart. arrived at hospital straight to labour suite, no assessment first. contractions 1min apart, gas and air, only 2cm dialated! so ok for epidurl, told get one in 20mins soi didn't have morphine (as sick with it before). anethitist arrives 4.20am tried 6 times to get needle in right place couldn't manage, 4.45 wanting to push - examined - 10cm - baby born at 4.55am with only G&A. 7lb8oz. little girl we have named her Jessica Rose.

So didn't get the drugs i wanted but at least it was fast, tore a little but far better than 1st birth. best of luck Pidge.

MoonlightMcKenzie · 08/10/2008 20:49

Wow sagecat - congratulations

Pidge · 08/10/2008 21:27

MoonlightMcKenzie - if I get to the end of this thread talking to myself about the non-arrival of this baby I will be in TROUBLE .

Sagecat - brilliant, brilliant news. That is soooo quick. Please can I have one of those!! Many congratulations.

I'm back from my trip to the "post dates clinic" - scan was all fine, baby well and good, but am feeling a bit stressed by their insistence on booking me in for an induction (despite my homebirth team supporting me in just waiting). They said they would book me for 42 weeks, which is Saturday, but in the end the only appointment they could find was for TOMORROW. Anyway, it was agreed I would talk to my midwife in the morning, and cancel the appointment if I didn't want it and she is happy (I'm sure that's going to be fine, but I could do without the hassle).

So .... I'll report back tomorrow

Meanwhile - lots of pressure low down, some painful, but short contractions, but nothing regular or sustained. Plus I'm wide awake having slept this morning after being awake in the night. So need to somehow wind down enough to sleep.

MoonlightMcKenzie · 08/10/2008 21:44

FGS you can't have a baby earlier than even NICE thinks in necessary simply coz of them not being able to fit you in at the right time!!!??

Can you argue for Monday at least?

BTW there is a world of difference between booking you for an inuction and you attending. What they gonna do arrest you?

And, it sounds like the lo is on its way anyway!! BTW you do know that stress can slow thing down?

Arcadie · 08/10/2008 22:16

Hi all - total interloper here - I was Carrieon's cheerleading chum. Just wanted to sympathise with the beautiful Pidge. Sounds like by now you'll be on your way - but rest assured - if this had been my antenatal group I'd have hit -14 on the list so you wouldn't have been alone Thanks for all the lovely messages you posted back to me after Carrieon's labour online. Whatever else she says in the postnatal - she makes it look easy.

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