Morning everyone.
Hugs to your dd1 lollopopz.
I think I am going to have to go back to work fulltime after this bean is born - I'm currently working 4 days a week and this is my day off. With dd I fully intended to but once she was born the thought of her being in nursery all week horrified me - think I was a bit pfb as I definitely don't find it horrifying now and she seems to love it!
I am lucky in that my mum and dad look after her one day a week - but they are not getting any younger so I am not sure how long that will last with 2.
If it hadn't been for the bl**dy recession our ISA's might actually have been worth something and would have paid the mortgage while I'm off (I go from a lawyer's salary to statutory maternity pay which hits us hard on the mortgage front - and there isn't even any point in trying to sell our house and downsize because nobody is buying......aaaagggghhh - rant over)
Dd's nurery is quite small - I went to see about 6 and picked the one that had the best "feel". It hasn't been without problems, but the girls seem to genuinely like dd and she likes them. I provide nappies and tea and the nursery provide wipes, snacks and lunch. But it's £520 for 3 days a week! Yikes!
Jollyjoanne - girls are lovely. We don't mind if we have another dd (though it woudl be lovely if the bean were blue...........maybe we'll find out at the 20 week scan........!)