Kate100 and Spacecadet, sorry to hear you still haven't been well. Twiga, I know what you mean about the worry of another m/c - my thoughts are with you for March 9th. When the due date of my first m/c came, I was very down. I had been promoted at work that day - that evening DH produced a bottle of champagne to celebrate and didn't understand why I burst into tears. Nobody, absolutely nobody, remembered the date, despite it being the birthday of my aunt (so I thought at least my mum would remember). It was a relief once the day had passed. With regard to this pregnancy, take comfort in the fact that we have got past by far the riskiest part of the pregnancy and will soon be able to feel the baby move, if not already. It's great that your DH is there for hugs and understanding.
Beachyhead, when DH told his mum last week about the pregnancy she said "oh dear". She was most concerned about how we could afford it. DH and I had a good laugh about it, as she is well known for saying inappropriate things. I'm sure your mum's main worry was you. There are still a few people we haven't told and I've been low-key about it at work.
I can't even begin to think about buying things until after the 20 week scan - call me a pessimist. With DS I was over 30 weeks before we got anything. OK, maybe we're just not very organised. I ordered some colder weather maternity clothes so am waiting for them to arrive. My clothes from last time are all summery stuff, which should be fine for later, although I haven't dared look at them yet.