theticklistqueen - i went to a private clinic for my viability scan, i arranged it myself. i think they are only offered as part of your care if you've had a series of difficulties before. i had a missed miscarriage in jan and couldn't bear the idea of still thinking i was going to have a baby weeks after the pregnancy had actually ended again.
due to my antiquity (39 when lo arrives, if we get that far) i am going for fetal screening at twelve weeks, but it will be a blood test and nuchal fold scan rather than anything as full on as an amnio or cvs, maybe you can organise this with your ob? i know what you mean about termination, but i think that getting a clearer view of the risk level will help me to emotionally prepare, if you know what i mean