MsSparkle, having two dcs is great but I'll not lie and say it's not hard work at times. When ds was tiny it wasn't as hectic as I'd thought mainly because he was a much faster bfer than dd had been and slept a lot so dd didn't lose too much of our time initially. We've tried to involve dd as much as poss at each stage which has helped. The most hectic time so far was when ds hit around 4 months and wasn't so easy just to leave down. AT the min I'm having to be on my toes a lot too as ds is now crawling and into everything - dd loves being "chased" around the house. The great thing is that they entertain each other and are good pals already - I think once they start smiling and babbling they really charm their big siblings. Don't worry if initially dc1 isn't too fussed by the baby as I think they like their siblings at this stage but it's a bit boring when they just sleep and cry. It's really nice watching that relationship grow, my two are really good together and really make us smile - not sure what's so funny but often they are in fits of giggles in the back of the car just looking at each other. I think in a few years they'll be ganging up on me - just recently when I told dd off she went to find her brother to tell him all about it and that "Mummy is very grumpy today"! I worried a lot about dd and how she'd adjust but it was fine and I think this time it'll be different again because they'll have each other so a new arrival won't be such a shock.
Couple of things just to look out for don't panic if dc1 gets really clingy towards the end of this pg my dd got very protective of me and it was impossible to move without falling over her the last few weeks but from talking to friends this is common. Also don't take it personally if dc1 sulks with you a bit once you get home from hospital, dd prefered dad for a few days but then softened - I think she was a bit shy and unsure as I'd gone away then reappeared with an extra person. Oh and don't feel bad if dc2 doesn't monopolise your time the same way dc1 did, they've got an extra person to entertain them to make up for it! HTH
kidsfromfame, I should have mentioned that I'm on a namechange too for the same reasons.
Hope everyone is well today, I'm off swimming with ds this morning, he does waterbabies classes.