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Due July 2005 - part 2

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hoxtonturkey · 07/12/2004 16:12

Just for you pm :o.

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PamiNativity · 16/12/2004 16:59

Ooh, Aussiesim, you do move in high circles! Great to find a dress that fits. At the end of May I've got to go to SIL's wedding at a v posh hotel and I'll be 33 weeks pg....not looking forward to the outfit hunt for that!
12 weeks eh! I'm 10 today and willing the next 3 weeks to go fast so that I can start to tell people after my scan.

hoxtonturkey · 16/12/2004 22:03

i am going to be 7 months pregnant on my 30th birthday.... ah well, worth it. i went to ds' christmas show at nursery today, & they had special chairs reserved for pregnant ladies. so now everyone knows!

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kid · 16/12/2004 22:08

bet you are glad to be able to tell everyone now then. How about the in-laws, do they know yet?

Eulalia · 17/12/2004 10:05

Aussiesim - hope you have a good party - congrats on reaching 12 weeks...seems like an age till I will get there.

Got a family party on Sunday afternoon and hoping to keep it a secret - I think I might be OK as nausea isn't too bad - feel worse in the evenings.

BabyDot · 17/12/2004 10:44

I think it is this Christmas spirit I am just desperate to tell the world! But at 9.5 weeks I think I had better hold off.

Is it ok to eat christmas pud with all that brandy? Thinking no but am I being too over sensitive?

he he he how can you tell I am a first time mum.

hoxtonturkey · 17/12/2004 10:51

hi kid, yes, told the inlaws, very happy. so now i don't have to hold my tummy in when i see them .

i feel absolutely grim today, nauseous & exhuasted & very grumpy.... my mother in law came to pick ds up & gave me a lift to the bus stop i was so miserable. bless her. i'm almost 11 weeks now, wish time would speed up.

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pandagirl03 · 17/12/2004 17:16

hello everyone soz not been around for a bit, had a scan this morning babys doing well im now 12 weeks and due on the 3rd july. Third time i've had my due date change but this should be the last time coz it was my dating scan today.

OzJo · 18/12/2004 01:55

Babydot..eat the pudding! small doses of alcohol are OK..just best to avoid getting pissed. I can't get pissed when pregnant anyway, last time I'd been out a few times before I knew I was pregnant and couldn't work out why I still felt stone cold sober after all that alcohol. My bodies way of saying don't bother. We told everyone at the work do last night, which is a relief..plus being sober is a very good reason to avoid the bad 80s disco dancefloor antics.
Had the nuchal fold scan and blood tests yesterday, and have to wait for results..( told if I haven't heard anything by Xmas not to worry) got a midwife appt Jan 7th. Wish they gave you the results on the day. Do you have to wait in England? In Australia it depends where you live. Ho Hum, week today is Christmas day! Just to freak everyone out.

merglemergle · 18/12/2004 05:38

Thanks for the clothes shop tips. Topshop have flared cord trousers! That is fantastic, and exactly what I wanted. Unfortunately there isn't one near us and I know from experience that I need to try on trousers before buying, so I will have to find an excuse to go to Swansea.

I've had my due date put back! Its now 5th July. However, and I don't get this, my scan actually put me 2 days ahead of previous calculations (done by a properly qualified doctor) which put it at 1 July. It was 12 weeks on Thursday. I'm very confused. I suppose it doesn't matter too much, the baby will come out of there when its ready.

Eulalia · 18/12/2004 21:17

If you set the pudding alight like you are supposed to then it burns off all the alcohol but even so there is hardly any in one serving.

pandagirl - glad your scan went well.

Ozjo -Do you have the same sort of dinner as us on Christmas day? seems a bit heavy when it is midsummer there.

I am going to bed now even though its only 9.15, had a tiring day, long walk with the kids, wrapping presents for a family party tomorrow and cooking, housework etc. My nausea seems to have changed to the middle of the day now which is annoying for tomorrow and next Sat (Christmas lunch) but maybe it will all have changed by then. 8 weeks today, feels like I've been pregnant forever already.

hoxtonturkey · 18/12/2004 22:00

my nausea yesterday seems to have been a one-off thank god. i told everyone at work yesterday, we were all sitting having christmas lunch & it seemed appropriately festive. it was very embarrasing (pinkmama says it's because they all now know i've had sex ), & i blushed considerably whilest they toasted me.

ds is very into the idea of having a baby. told me he had one in his tummy too, & when it pops out (ha), he's going to pick it up & take it for a walk in his buggy. hope he likes the real one as much! i was trying to explain breastfeeding to him & he said "no, mummy, milk doesn't come from your boobs, the milkman brings milk" which shut me up....

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pinkmama · 19/12/2004 07:33

Hi Everyone, glad all doing ok, and sounding happy! I have made it to 8 weeks and no bleeding, which is a first for me!!! In previuos pg's all bled by now. Only down side is that I have usually had at least one scan by now, so it feels a bit strange and hard to get my head around that I am actually pg!
Got my first twinge of excitement as well, sadly don't know what it says about me, because it was when I discovered benetton did maternity clothes, dh thinks I am very shallow that not overjoyed at giving new life, but that I have reason to shop!
Very envious of those of you who have made 12 weeks, seems so far away.......

merrychristmasberry · 20/12/2004 16:05

Hi all, sorry for extended silence, have been lurking and not posting as anxiety over scan date approaching got daft.

Well, I am psychologically a million times better today, as I'm just back from my first scan. And yes, there's a baby there and it's heart was working away. It was fast asleep until poked one time too many by the sonography stick, when it waved a lazy fist at us.

I enjoyed looking inside at the rest of my gubbins too - there was my cervix, there was the uterus (looking like a grapefruit!) and much much smaller than my impressively vast and painfully full bladder:-)

I am rolled back 5 days in terms of foetal development - I thought I was 11+7 today but little B measures 46mm, or 11+2 days. However, they haven't changed my due date as they don't bother unless the difference is more than a week.

She couldn't get my nuchal measurement though, as it wasn't clear enough to view. Little B needs to be at least 45mm for the measurement to work, and 46mm didn't cut it. The lovely sonographer was ever so polite: clearly it's my flabby belly that made the picture hard to see, but she didn't say that on my notes and called it my 'maternal environment' instead. Bless her for sparing my blushes. I have a rescan booked for 4th Jan.
Good, another look:-)

Anyway, as we left I managed to stave of bursting into tears of relief and happiness in all the empty corridors until I was in a large lift with 6 medical students, a porter, a patient and sundry visitors. I exited sharply muttering 'i'm so happy, really'

DP and I had a lovely hot lunch and then I wandered back to the office in a haze of happiness past the London eye and drifted over Waterloo Bridge, smiling at strangers and clearly freaking them all out.

I will be telling the troops when they get back from our Xmas lunch...should be interesting to see their reactions...given they'll be well mullered by 4pm! Now shall I do some work...? MMmmmm? Nah....

PamiNativity · 21/12/2004 09:57

That's great news, MCB. I've also got my nuchal scan on 4th Jan, plus booking in appt on 5th Jan. Not much work for me that week! So I've only got to get to the end of this week without telling work (luckily we have no more Xmas dos) and then I should be able to tell them when I get in on the 4th, after the scan.
Still feeling quite nauseous most of the time - currently wanting to eat tomato soup and nothing else! Will be 11 weeks on Thursday so hopefully only 2 more weeks of feeling bad.
How is everyone else doing?

BabyDot · 21/12/2004 10:17

Paminativity!

Feeling the same about sickess yuk!

However it is my bday today 23 and 10 weeks pregnant. I could not think of a better birthday present. Lots of love to all you mums and minature babies out there!

MommyD · 21/12/2004 13:42

Ok, so I was wrong. There are NOT two in there! I am relieved. I have just got back from my scan - everything ok. Baby measuring 9 weeks 0 days. Exactly as I thought.
You'll all be glad that I will stop going on about twins now as I have seen the little bean fopr myself.
Think I might even begin to start enjoying the pregnancy now!
Still feel dreadfully sick all the time - hoping things will get better soon....
Will catch up with all your posts later.....

Eulalia · 21/12/2004 15:21

MCB - glad your scan went well and you are feeling happy

MommyD - that's great news about your one baby!

Happy Birthday babydot

I am feeling much the same, just mild nausea but really tired. Got to go and cook something for dinner now, what a thought. Roll on Christmas so dh can take over the kitchen.

lovinit · 22/12/2004 06:29

Scan Report : All A-OK !!!! Very happy to see the heartbeat and legs and arms and as suspected I am more pregnant than was last predicted. I am 12 weeks tomorrow .. so due date now 13th July !

I began to tell a few people and just in the nick of time as now trousers are beginning to feel tight and also waistline is spilling over the belt ! Some noticed my growing bosom already .

I am now so excited to know whether DD will have a new sister or brother and I daydream now of our new family ... Happy Days !

So glad that all other scans went well ... and sorry for all the poor nauseous Mummies . Maybe if I was then i would stop pigging out so much !

Christmas is jsut round the corner ! Good luck July Due-er's in all the perparations !

AussieSim · 22/12/2004 11:00

Just a quick note before bed. I had my scan today. My due date has slipped out to 8 July - no biggie. My risk of DS is equivalent to that of a 15 year old girl, so how happy am I. It was a better result than with my DS nearly 2 years ago.

Congratulations to all other happy scanners, and sympathies to those still suffering 1st trimester side effects. It will all be over soon - the nausea not the pregnancy - we've got ages to go yet .

merglemergle · 22/12/2004 16:09

Great news on all those scans guys. MommyD-I remember being quite relieved as well to find there was only one in there.

My due date is the 1st still. I went back and checked it on my notes. I probably just can't read very well.

I have had the longest day with ds. Up at 6 and he's just had his 1st nap of the day. And I'm going to have to wake him in a minute otherwise no presents will be wrapped tonght. (Dh and I plan a romantic takeout meal with no wine to wrap all the 2345 presents we have bought ds).

I'm realising that having two close together might be a little bit tiring...

OzJo · 23/12/2004 09:19

Dear All,
finally got the scan results, all OK, in the very low risk catagory, after several days of fretting at home twas good to hear. Wierd because I didn't worry with Dd at all, I think the slap cheek thing freaked me out, and I never quite recovered a chilled out composure before these tests. Anyway, good to relax.
Merrychristmasberry...loved the description of post scan reaction. It's always good to cry on medical students..as for grinning at people on Waterloo bridge, they'd have just thought you were on drugs,it's the same as trying to talk to someone on the tube, seriously freaks people out.
Good luck for the festive season everyone, weather permitting we'll bugger off to the beach. No big cooked dinner, perhaps a light beer to live dangerously. Ho Ho Ho...

Lolasmum · 23/12/2004 12:54

Congratulations to all who've had their scans. I've not got mine until the 4th of Jan.

I'm going to be spending Xmas with the in-laws. Apparently my Mother-in-law thinks its 'uncouth' to announce a pregnany early on. I'm going to have to pretend to be permanently hung-over to explain away my sickness. But surely being hungover is 'uncouth' also.... Mmn. Wish we were staying at home.

Won't have access to a PC for a while so HAVE A HAPPY CHRISTMAS & A GREAT NEW YEAR!

PamiNativity · 23/12/2004 14:41

Congrats on all the good scans.
Looks like there are several of us with scans on 4th Jan - hopefully we'll all have great news to report back too.
Lovinit - one of us must be mistaken - I'm due on 14th July and have only reached 11 weeks today....off to check the due date calendar!

MommyD · 23/12/2004 17:19

Just want to wish all July Mums a Happy Christmas!!
We have Christmas at home this year, with no visitors until 27th - bliss. dh and I have bought loads of gorgeous, extravagant food and lots of pressies for the boys (1 and 2) and each other.
I still feel sick a lot - but am not going to let it spoil the festivities. It's great that I feel better when I eat - so guess what? I'll be eating solidly through Christmas to keep the nausea at bay. Coming up 10 weeks at the weekend and hoping the nausea might start to subside...?

lovinit · 24/12/2004 00:53

PNativity ... you are right, I am 11 weeks according to the pregnancy calender but my Dr told me that I was starting my 12 weeks yesterday ... who knows ... I am anally retentive abt things liek due date but he is not and says "relax, it will come when it is ready !" Also, hard for me to gauge when i did conceive as I didn't really have a proper last period as I was doing funny things with taking and stopping the Pill and so cycle must have been all over the place anyway.

Very excited abt Xmas Day especially with so many presents for DD to open ! We are going to a beach restaurant with a few other families so something different !

Have a wonderful Christmas All !

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