I definitely want to know. I want to be able to tell DS whether it's a brother or sister so he is prepared (I think he's having trouble getting his head around the fact that he's getting one or the other but we don't know which at the moment -- he's at a stage where he's very fixated on whether people are boys or girls (cue lots of conversations that go
Narrator: Once upon a time, not so long ago, there was a little girl...
DS: She's not got a willy.
Me: That's right.
DS: Cos she's a girl.
Me: Mmm-hmm.
DS: Only boys got willies.
or vice versa for boys)). And, well, I just want to know. I don't like the idea that the person doing the ultrasound knows something about my baby that I don't (and given all the measurements they need to take, they are going to have a pretty good idea even if they don't specifically look).
I find giving birth pretty exciting by itself , plus there's always the possibility that they've got it wrong at the scan so still an element of suspense... We don't firmly decide on a name until we've seen the baby either (although, to be honest, DS's name was probably 95% set beforehand, but we weren't entirely sure until we saw him) so we still get that discussion.