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turtle23 · 08/10/2007 11:58

New thread for you!

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MerlinsBeard · 17/10/2007 21:41

just letting you know i am backonline, not that you noticed but anyway...am back

MarchMum · 17/10/2007 22:13

M of M...welcome back. hellybelly - did you have first ds1 at UCH. must discuss!

piggyp · 17/10/2007 22:33

Is anyone else nervous about scans? Mine's tomorrow (thurs) morning and I'm really anxious about it. What a lot of boys from the scans so far! We don't want to find out. Don't think i'll sleep much tonight!

monthlymayhem · 17/10/2007 23:36

Congrats hellyberry on your scan, and good luck for those with scans tomorrow.

CL - it sounds like you've got your head round things, so best of luck x

I had my first antenatal class today with the physio, it was nice to speak to other mums (in RL!) around the same stage and compare emerging bumps. I still feel as if I'm pretending to be pregnant sometimes, I don't think it will really seem real until I've got a proper baby bump. I am feeling lots of regular movements now though which is lovely

9 more days until my scan and it seems to be dragging.....

hellyberry · 18/10/2007 10:24

prisci, its so hard to relax about our choices. word of warning re: a&e: when we went to whit a&e at 0830 saturday there was NOONE on reception. i was kneeling on the forecourt while my mum and dp tried to get a wheelchair. took 5 minutes to rouse some help. obviously busy sleeping off the hangover inflicted by the friday night drunks i actually live closer to whit than uch once trsffic taken into account, but will always chose uch over whit. they also have dedicated kids section & emergency paediatricians (dreams of george clooney) in UCH a&e for when baby comes.

however, seemed to dp there was no choice on sat, as camidoc emergency gp service operates only from whit. if god forbid there's a next time i've instructed we skip gp and pitch up at uch a&e. can't tell you how sick i was of staff on ward telling me i was a uch booking and scarpering off. well, excuse me, but YOUR PCT's emergency service, of which both UCH and Whit are part, forced me here. Don't tkae it out on me!

but my choice doesn't help much if you are already choosing say between north mid or the whit. frankly if i was younger and fitter it would edgware birth centre for me and no discussion! if i was richer, john and lizzie's or the portland.

MoM, welcome back to the lovely online world.

marchmum, had ds1 at tommy's, but he was readmitted day after discharge to uch NICU for 5 days. uch has it faults, but more strengths than most. like yesterday - wow. no waiting, very skilled and flexible sonographer, antenatal clinic let me walk-in to sort out a few bits and bobs. you also need to talk to my canadian mate M who had both hers there in the last 6 years. we'll have to try and arrange that sometime. or i can pass on her experience.

have also worked at all these hospitals in the past 10 years, and much more recently had very close ties to their microbiology and TB depts so have kept up with general morale issues/ funding/building/mgt priorities.

HolidaysQueen · 18/10/2007 11:04

oooh hellyberry you just made my morning tea break even lovelier - i'm sat here with steamed milk (calcium for baby so i can feel healthy!) and chocolate brownie (okay, not that healthy...) so already feeling quite happy, and now you've got me reminiscing about dr doug ross so i'm feeling very very happy indeed...

I will now have to go on Amazon and buy the box sets of early ER for when I'm on maternity leave in the middle of a wet, windy February

e14mum · 18/10/2007 11:11

HQ, that is such a good idea! Want to set up a swap for when you're done watching them?

piggyp, we aren't finding out the sex either. Anyone else? (Like I've said before, dying to know but want to wait!)

Really sorry, but tmi... anyone had thrush yet? What do I do about it?

gingercat12 · 18/10/2007 11:19

Good morning to everyone. Just back from ultrasound. It went all right. Turns out it is a little boy (It would be the same grin, if it was a little girl.)

ClaphamLauren · 18/10/2007 11:22

Congratulations gingercat! ANOTHER little boy... Wow!

Quick question all, ante natal classes and pregnancy yoga, I'm guessing it's best to do this in the area that I'm going to be living in when the baby is born? (The third best place to live in the UK I might add ) If I did it in London would I miss out on the social element? Is it taking the piss to ask to finish a bit early to attend classes?

Brazilianmum · 18/10/2007 11:48

Hello all, had my scan yesterday and it was all very emotional. We're happy to announce it will be a little boy. It's what we wanted from the begining. His name is Samuel.

DP and his mum were there and the little one was happy liying on his belly. The sonographer wanted him on his back but he wouldn't co-operate. So funny, the sg kept prodding my belly and I could see it all moving on the screen.

E14 - my dr said it's ok to use cannesten thrush cream during pregnancy.

I'm 21 weeks now and have been feeling movements for a week. It's really nice, but he seems to like wriggling around very early in the morning or in the evening when I'm watching TV.

CL - hope everything works out with you and J. We are here for you, vent all you want.

HolidaysQueen · 18/10/2007 11:48

e14mum - only problem with sharing box sets is that george clooney is so gorgeous that i might need ER on permanent loop and might be unwilling to share...
CL - you are legally entitled to time off for antenatal classes. My work are fine about it (I have an antenatal class at the hospital next week about back care and exercise and my boss doesn't bat an eyelid when I tell him I need to go early) but if your company wants to see proof that it is an antenatal appt they can ask - you would probably just need to get a note from your midwife or GP to say that they recommend you do this antenatal course on particular days at particular times.

Another boy, gingercat! My DH told me the other day that he is convinced we're having a boy, as am I, although I think we both were slightly more keen on a girl at the outset. We're going to find out as we're not really ones for surprises and think we'll actually prefer the excitement of knowing and planning for a particular flavour of baby, and start using his/her name, rather than having a surprise at the end. I think it might also help me in labour if I can think "one more push and I'll see X" rather than not knowing who they are or what we'll call them.

Brazilianmum · 18/10/2007 11:50

Also forgot to say I got a horrible cold and my lovely dr signed me off for a week. It's nice to be at home and just concentrate on recovering.

MarchMum · 18/10/2007 12:04

The boy streak has officially been broken - it's a GIRL for us! I was so sure it was a boy so am having to readjust. I went to Oxford Street afterwards and immersed myself in the girly clothes sections as a first step! The more important news is that all is perfectly healthy and in the right place and she has a cute nose!

Speaking of Oxford St, I did a drive by of the coffee shop in John Lewis - I think it will be perfect so I'll start a new thread re: meet up.

hellybelly - definately want to hear more about yours/friend's thoughts on UCH. Def think it's the best of my public options. Care wise has been good so far (and I LOVE the A and E if that's possible. I've had two really good experiences there - one pregnancy related and the other not) but I am horrified at the facilities.

Thrush - had it bad about a month ago - vagilsil and no pants at night nd when I could get away with it in the day...remember I work from home ! :.)

I think by Feb we'll have to organize group Clooney sessions - it'll be wet, we'll be huge and we'll need company!

preggersagain · 18/10/2007 12:04

blimey is anyone having a girl yet?? ah well the more of you guys that have boys the more chance that i may be having girls i don't mind either way but living with 5 men might drive me up the wall especially if they all get man-flu together (i'll admit that personally think i'm having boys- just a hunch i guess!)

HolidaysQueen · 18/10/2007 12:04

Oh crossed posts with you Brazilanmum - yet another boy, and such a lovely name! I think we need a prize for the first March 08 daughter (won't be me as I've still got 5 weeks to my scan! Sigh...)

preggersagain · 18/10/2007 12:05

x-posts- congrats!!

HolidaysQueen · 18/10/2007 12:06

Marchmum gets the prize! Maybe that should be an extra slice of cake at the Christmas meet up?

barrowclaire · 18/10/2007 12:09

another boy wow! its def seeming like a blue room.

just back from aquanatal feeling all tired kinda wishing pip did too lol but still loving the weird feeling

e14 we're not gonna find out the sex either, wanting to wait for the surprize. What sort of name ideas has everyone got yet?
oh, on the thrush subject i have no idea if it helps but my mum swears by natural yoghurt

almost the weekend yay!

imjin100 · 18/10/2007 12:28

such exciting news all round and delighted to know that all is well and everyone happy to see their beans. Marchmum...I know secretly you were hoping for a boy so I hope you'll find yourself chuffed to be having a girl, given the time to adjust as you say. Whatever you do dont' look at the pink clothes, if you ask me most girls clothes are enough to put everyone off having a girl...however, do remember what I'm told by my sister (who has one of each....) at least girls don't pee on you when you're changing their nappies!! Sorry to all those of you with that to look forward to!
My scan in a couple of weeks and we're not going to find out....keeping the surprise and the guessing from people who are already convinced I'm having one or the other...so far it's about 50/50 I'd say!!

timmyinatizzy · 18/10/2007 12:37

Congrats to Brazilianmum and gingercat on their little boys and to Marchmum on her girlie. Maybe this will set the trend for girls now. I was hugely wavering towards finding out, now I'm swinging back towards waiting. Its not easy being pregnant, all these decisions you have to make!

piggyp · 18/10/2007 12:38

Congrats on all the scans so far! Just had my scan, all okay. The doctor made a mistake plotting headsize on the graph - way off the scale! I nearly had a heart attack - then she realised she had plotted 92 instead of 192! Don't know the sex but dh thinks he saw a little willy - I think it may have been wishful thinking on his part!

MarchMum · 18/10/2007 12:51

Thanks imjin! Needed a little pep talk. I am not really upset but feeling guilty for not being excited as I should be, especially when healthy. And you are so right - I HATE pink! I did buy a mauve and purple outfit with really cute velvet shoes which I can show her one day and say I bought these the day I found out you were a girl. Am sure I'll be fine by the time I hit the baby show tomorrow!

New meet up thread re: Dec 6 here Sign up if you are in....

preggersagain · 18/10/2007 13:23

what do you mean you don't like pink

(you'd have a fit if you ever came to see me barbie pink kitchen, bubblegum pink car- you get the picture!!)

3madboys · 18/10/2007 14:38

wow, lots of news congratulations everyone who has had their scans, all these boys and one girl
marchmum i know what you mean about pink, i hate it with a vengeance and i always said if this baby was a girl that no one would be buying her pink as i would go mad, tis a boy tho so i dont need to worry

but there are loads of lovely girls clothes that arent pink, hennes is good for clothes i find, a niggly bit of me things ooh no girly clothes but i have been bought some cute boy bits from hennes (cos obviously this being my 4th boy i am really short of baby boy clothes.....) i have had to hide them away tho as dp and i are the only ones in rl that know, we have decided to keep it our secret for now which is really nice, but its a good job no family etc know that i post on here and bmc

take care all and good luck to those with scans coming up.

littleducks · 18/10/2007 14:42

my brain is going and it is not good.

i went out just before lunch and when i got to shed to take buggy out, realised i had locked my keys inside. so was locked out with no buggy to go anywhere. went to sainsburys to buy lunch while a friend of dh couriered his keys to me but have made myself feel ill as dd not in a walking mood so i was carrying her and she is HEAVY.