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PurpleLostPrincess · 24/07/2007 09:13

I did it (slightly adjusted the wording - is it OK?)!!! Now all we've got to do is a link from the old one to the new one - I'll leave that to somebody a bit more competent!

By the way, I just go laalalaalalaaa when you guys talk about epidurals/pain relief etc. I really didn't enjoy having one when I had DS but I had to as they had put me on a drip and all sorts and I had lots of complications. Ended up with even more severe migraines for years afterwards too. Didn't have one with DD1 and much preferred the whole experience. If I can get away with it this time, I'm going to try and avoid having one (obviously can't predict how things will go!). Gas & Air me up all the way!!!

PLP xxx

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laksa · 02/08/2007 19:50

Hi guys,

Haven't been on for ages now, so much to catch up on.

Mrsfish, your post cracked me up. Glad I'm not the only one with babybrain

Sorry to hear about your husbands purplelost and hwbb, its just not what you both need right now. Will be sending some positive vibes your way.

Mrsmar, I have a similar obsession about my teeth, I am a bit weird though as I luurve to floss, its just so satisfying! I am finding that my gums bleed now that I'm pregnant so that does freak me out a bit. My rings are also getting tight and ankles a bit puffy, my hot tip is to go swimming as this seems to bring the swelling down for a few hours and makes you feel really fresh.

Tina, I have watched birth programmes before I got pregnant but find them really gory and offputting now that there is a distinct possibility I might experience the same thing. So I am burying my head in the sand and refusing to watch any more. Don't know what I'll say when my nct class gets round to showing one.

Holly, have a really good holiday. I am also really excited about meeting my baby for the first time, it blows my mind everytime I think that in less than 8 weeks I will be a mother I am feeling very gooey at them moment and kinki's post made me well up!

Spangly, hope you are not too stressed about the move. It is so frustrating not having a firm date isn't it.

Well, I had a bit of a mishap today. I was in a furniture shop and took a fall and twisted my ankle. It caused a complete spectacle as a firstaider leapt into action ordering people to get me ice. I was unceremoniously lifted onto a sofa which happened to be stuck right in the window...for the next half an hour people kept coming in asking if I was for sale Was very embarassing, will serve me right for wearing 2 inch heels when heavily pregnant

Am very annoyed with myself as I have so much to do and can't afford to lie around with my foot in the air. I have all this energy and am now missing my nct class tonight.

Sorry to whinge, I don't make a good patient it seems.

xx

Oh, hope everyone gets a better night's rest. Get your dps to massage you before bed, I find that often does the trick.

Hopeitwontbebig · 02/08/2007 23:04

Evening everyone,

DH went down for surgery at 4pm and he came out at around 6:30ish. Neither DH or me have spoken to his surgeon so we don't know what he's done. DH was in very good spirits. He seems resigned to the fact that he will be staying in hospital over the weekend. The plus side is he has the room all to himself. DC went down to Somerset with their Grandma today. Missing them terribly, but it wouldn't be much fun for them hanging around the hospital every day. Spoke to them both on the phone just before their bedtime and they were feeling homesick and wobbly....how bad do I feel??? Well, they're being taken to the cinema tomorrow, which they wouldn't have been doing if they were still at home.

Holly hope you have a lovely time in France.

PLP hope things get better for DH, keep strong love. x x

Seamonster, hope you're on the mend and you too laksa.

spangly sorry to hear about your stressful house move, I do hope things get moving quickly for you.

dal, glad to hear your bathroom is all finished! I'll keep you posted on the progress of my kitchen.

LoopyLouLisa · 02/08/2007 23:36

Evening HIWBB,

do you want to borrow my ds seeing as you're missing yours so much? He's been having an 'i will not give in and go to sleep' tantrum in his cot for the last 45 mins and he is getting so hysterical that I have to keep checking he hasn't vomitted. this is becoming a regular occurance and i'm dreading it if he doesn't improve by the time lo arrives in 4 weeks.

glad to hear your dh is keeping his chin up. it does seem that he has had a really tough time and obviously the knock-on effect on you and dc cannot be good. here's keeping everything crossed that some progress has been made today. thinking of you and sending big hugs and get well soon vibes xx

Vicx · 03/08/2007 00:06

Evening All!

HIWBB - great to hear that your DH is in better spirits and really hope his surgery went well. Wishing him a full recovery.

Chattyhan... Fab you're due same time as me... i'm in North London and due to give birth in edgware Birth centre. Where are you?

Also have the low fundal height prob and can't help but rant about it.... when i saw MW at 18 weeks Fundal height was 20cms. But at 27 wks it was only 24cms.
MW said it was a bit low but might be cos baby lying sideways and will send for growth scan if needed. Saws them again at 31 weeks and was only 28cms but baby was def lying upside down. Gave me some crap about me being tall and so baby has more room to grow and then took the measurement 5 more times until she bumped it up to 28.5 so it's just inside the norm and won't have to refer me for the scan.

Seeing MW on monday. Have had 3 weeks to work myself up about it so will be pushy and insist they give me a growth scan this time!!!

Spangly... the housemoving all sounds so frustrating and stressful. Hope it resolves in time for LO's arrival.

Laksa, sorry to hear about your fall. Hope you're recovering well. Although am glad i'm not the only clumsy one around!

Went out for dinner last night and made sure i got up v carefully cos of SPD only to crack my head on a really low concrete ceiling beam!
Half knocked myself out and was walking around in a daze for the rest of the evening. V embarrasssing as the whole restaurant turned around to see the clumsy pregnant lady standing next to the PLEASE MIND YOUR HEAD sticker!

Vicx · 03/08/2007 00:10

p.s. So proud, have been telling everyone.... My DD2 started walking properly yesterday and cut 4 top teeth last night (which explains a lot of recent rattiness!) xx

EdieMcredie · 03/08/2007 09:13

Had a great birthday yesterday, apart from there being a postal strike on. Feel a bit down today but think it's post bday blues. Hi everyone...

spangly · 03/08/2007 09:37

Morning all

Edie - happy birthday for yesterday. Hope the postal strike didn't prevent lots of cards falling through your door.

Dal - it must be great to have your bathroom finished. Hopefully you'll be able to enjoy some time pampering yourself now.

Laksa - hope your ankle's feeling better today. I bet you couldn't wait to get out of the shop

HIWBB - glad to hear your DH is out of surgery and in good spirits. I hope they've fixed the problem this time. I'm sure your DC will love staying with grandma and will get thoroughly spoilt. Make sure you get some time for yourself while they're there. It must be hard with your house in turmoil too. Hope the kitchen's moving on nicely.

Vicx - hope you don't have too sore a head after your bump last night. Sounds like the kind of thing I'd do Cogratulations to DD2 on walking and cutting teeth in one go. She has been busy

Well my brother came back from Australia yesterday for a few weeks to collect his visa so I have a welcome distraction from moving and a willing person to chase DD round the park

Hope you all have a nice day. Enjoy the sunshine.

xx

Chattyhan · 03/08/2007 10:29

Vicx - i'm in fleet j4 M3 so not a million miles away! I'm having lo at Frimley Park Hospital.

Hope you all have a good weekend i'm off the the in laws for a rest! I'm hoping to sit and read Harry Potter while they chase DS round the garden and be waited on hand and foot! I'll let you know whether it lives up to my expectations on monday!

EnormousChangesAtTheLastMinute · 03/08/2007 10:32

him all, glad you all well, and pleased your dh is ok hiwbb. i haven't been here for ages but thought it should check in to see if anyone had had their baby! it's not long now to sept. people at work keep saying to me 'what are you still doing here'. I don't think i'm THAT big - am i?!
finally got round to stocking up on mat pads and horrible horrible disposable pants yesterday so feel teeny bit more prepared if things do start to happen.
i also bought a bikini trimmer on recommendation from this thread - sorry can't remember whose tip is was - so am about to try to tidy up before dh and dd get back from park... wish me luck! x

EnormousChangesAtTheLastMinute · 03/08/2007 13:24

Dal21 - thank you. feel much better now after new bikini trimmer. should have bought one a-g-e-s ago!

kinki · 03/08/2007 15:02

hello everyone! I'm having a funny old day today. First thing was a trip to the docs, apparantly I've another chest infection - but I feel ok, not unwell or anything, I just sound bad through the stethoscope, so I have to have another lot of antibiotics. Spoke to the diabetes nurse and today I have to start the insulin. Wish me luck! I'm a bit nervous because dh is away with ds1 tonight. I'm SURE everything will be fine, I'm just an ickle bit worried that's all.

So then I go to work (I only work Fridays, but every 2-3 mths I'm rota'd not to work). So I get there, settle at my desk and a colleague comes in to say that I'm not supposed to be there today. What a wally. Teach me not to look at the rota. Does this put me in your league Mrs F? Anyway, I used the time to go into town and get lots of little jobs done that I've been meaning to do for ages. So that made me feel good.

So now I'm at home relaxing, dh and ds1 having just gone off on their male bonding camping trip. They've only gone for one night, because we've got a christening on Sunday. And then I've just realised that we're going away for a week on monday. (I knew we were going obviously, but its suddenly just a couple of days away.) Guess I ought to pack.

When they were leaving dh gave me a cuddle (the first one in about 2-3mths) and said he's going to miss me. He was also quite nice when I had a little wobble giving myself the first injection. Maybe this week away is what we need to get back on track. God, I hope so.

Ecatlm, I got a trimmer too, following the recommendation on this thread. (Sorry, I also can't remember who put the link there, but cheers anyway.) In the last few months, my otherwise neat, well contained, little woodland has transformed into a sub tropical rainforest (well, without the rain anyway). Talk about the wilds of borneo. But on a plus note, for the first time in my life I have impressive set of talons!

Hope everyone is well. Did everyone sleep better last night?

kinki · 03/08/2007 15:57

oh sh1t. So much for my relaxing afternoon.
I've just remembered that I was supposed to have a blood test today at the same flippin hospital where I went to work this morning - but didn't stay, because it was my off-duty. So now I have to go back there to get it done. What a prat. My brain is soooooo mucking fuddled at the moment.

Pennypops · 03/08/2007 17:46

Hi everyone,

It's all been happening hasn't it? Edie happy belated birthday - I hope you are by now over your post birthday blues!

Welcome VicX!

Hopey - wishing you and dh all the best for the hospital stay this weekend. I just hope it means that he can start to recover and doesn't face anymore of these set backs.

PLP - I hope your man has sought some help as well for the way he has been feeling. It must be very difficult for both of you to deal with.

MrsFish - I did have a laugh at your story. We've all had our "why have I turned into a space cadet?" moments. I just hope you have a good time when you do eventually get away!

Bigsea - hope you are on the mend also.

Kinki - you've just made me cry with your words about holding lo for the first time. Thanks

So many posts to catch up on! I've been reading for about the last hour. I finished work on Tuesday so have spent the last few days adjusting to maternity leave - which is fab. I've been washing and cleaning and still managing to fit in a fair bit of reading anf general relaxation so all in all I'm a happy bunny.

Had my 35 week check up on Wed - fundal height now at 36 weeks and apparently my lo is tall. In all fairness the rib kicking karate baby had been indicating this to me already. Tall baby and short mummy is a bit of an eye waterer but its a lot easier to deal with now I'm at home and can rest more.
No sign of engaging yet - I am quite looking forward to that happening, although a friend of mine has recently broken the news that her 1st born didn't engage pretty much until labour started. Hey ho.

Anyway, wishing everyone a superb and sunny (but not too hot!) weekend. xxx

dal21 · 03/08/2007 20:50

Hi everyone!

am shattered, what a day! got the bedroom painted today so now we have lovely shiny bedroom to go with our ensuite. am very happy.

HIWBB - fab news about your DH. positive get well vibes coming his way! How goes your kitchen? how much longer are they going to be in?

Edie - belated happy birthday!

Enormous changes - soo glad the trimmer was worth the money. Makes not having a wax not so bad i think.

Kinki - LOL at your pregnancy brain. I write everything down and make lists now otherwise I will forget! And yes, last night slept so well. I have been doing an experiment and the nights i go to sleep listening to the hypnobirthing cd - both DH and I sleep much better. We are amazed!

PLP - how goes it with DH? did he go to the docs? Is he feeling any better?

PP - exciting that your mat leave has started! I have another 2 weeks left, cannot wait to be at home DIYing full time. My skirting boards and doors need painting....so thats what i plan to do (well for a few hours a day)! rock n roll huh?

Have fab weekends all - DH and I are sloping off out of london tomorrow for pre baby escape. Hoping the weather doesnt get too hot!

PurpleLostPrincess · 03/08/2007 21:04

Hiya all!

HIWBB - So glad that DH is in good spirits and hope you get more specifics about what they've actually done. How lovely that you have the opportunity to visit him without worrying about DC's being with you - I'm sure they'll miss you but they'll love time with the grandparents. Hope you get some rest in between hospital visits!

LoopyLouLisa - hang on in there with DS and keep persevering with what you're doing, it'll all be worth it in the end! I found it took about a week or two for my DC's to get the message when it came to that sort of thing then they finally gave in...

laksa - Sorry to hear about your ankle and having to sit in the window - did you get any good offers from people?

spangly - I really don't envy you having to deal with a house move! Hope all turns out well and goes smoothly!

Chatthan - I live in Basingstoke so I'm just a few junctions down the road from you! My best friend works at Frimley but she's in Intensive Care so I doubt you'll come across her - I've heard its a really good hospital if that helps? We're off to Aldershot Lido tomorrow - have you tried it there yet? We love it!!!

ECATLM - hiya!!!!! I'm about the size of a small country now and get some very surprised looks when people ask how long I've got to go LOL!

kinki - bless you about work - are you blonde too by any chance? That's the sort of thing I would have done LOL! Hope the bloods went well? Hope the preparation for going away goes smoothly and that you have a lovely restful time! xx

pennypops - glad your check up went well

Well, DH went to the doctors today and I went in with him. He said he'll do whatever it takes to get better and they have referred him back to the local clinic so he has an appointment in a few weeks time. Hopefully they will have found him some CBT as they were struggling last time. He's signed off till next Thursday (but I secretly want him to go back to work sooner as the DC's are away with their dad and I was looking forward to having the house to myself!!). The doctor gave him some tablets and I guess we could get more done with him being around . The doctor has called it an 'anxiety/depression episode' which indicates that its a temporary blip so there's hope!

On top of dealing with all that, I've had an argument with my mum about the house and getting everything ready - its such a long story so I won't bore you but it has really stressed me out!!

One good thing is that I bought a bundle of girl baby (newborn) clothes off ebay back in May but it never arrived. I sent all sorts of e-mails etc but never heard anything back from the seller... Today, DS was mowing the front lawn and went into the front shed, only to find the bundle had been there all along!!! I've tried putting positive feedback or at least e-mailing her but they don't store old stuff on there... Naughty postman never put a card through telling us it was there!!!

Going through all the tiny little clothes has made me all the more broody and I can't wait to hold this one in my arms and feed her and talk to her!!!!!!

PLP xxx

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PurpleLostPrincess · 03/08/2007 21:06

Hiya dal21, sorry crossed posts! Glad you got the painting done - you get some rest now and enjoy London! xx

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Hopeitwontbebig · 03/08/2007 22:57

Evening all, I have read everyone's messages, sorry for not replying individually

DH update... spoke to surgeon today. During DH's physio session last week the physiotherapist attempted to straighten his arm only to hear a massive bang, she was worried, but hoped it was just adhesion coming unstuck. Well, what actually happened was a bone in DH's elbow split all along a line where the screws had been placed during the previous surgery. Would describe it as a piece of wood splitting when you put a nail through it. Apparently in theatre his surgeon called another surgeon in (who was on a visit from London) to have a look, and this surgeon said something along the lines of 'thank goodness that's not my patient' then walked out!! Fortunately DH's surgeon is fantastic. Poor DH is getting rather fed up and stir crazy now and is desperate to come home.

I'm finding the emptiness of the house very strange.

Kitchen is coming on really well. The fitter starts on Monday, so that's really good.

Well I'm going to attempt to get a good night's sleep tonight, been surviving on 6 hours a night! Getting some practice in I guess!

Hope all are well and hugs to those who are suffering (hope your chest is better soon kinki x)

Night night lovely ladies x x

toadstool · 04/08/2007 10:20

Oh no, HIWBB, how awful for your DH. This being said I'm v anti physios just now, I think they don't get briefed enough about individual patients' notes. Kinki, sorry about the infection. So many crises for people right now, it doesn't seem fair. The leg is now out of plaster and in a Robocop boot contraption that weighs a ton. The pain of that hospital visit was so appalling I just lay around dozing most of the next day. They can't do an x-ray on the leg because of the PG so they're assuming there's nerve damage in there, or maybe I hurt my knee when I got the fracture... but I know it was those physios letting me fall that did it, as both knees took all the weight. Rant over, maternity hospital visit on Monday for the long-awaited scan. Just dread leaving the house as it takes 15 mns, and the ambulance crews don't "get" that pregnancy balance thing. Happy week-end fun for all of you!

thomcat · 04/08/2007 10:30

Blimey, it's been ages since I checked in with you guys, you promabably don't even remember me now!

Been catching up with your news anyway and wanted to say hi.

All good here. Orderering the pool as soon as I get my paypal thing sorted. very excited about that and met my fabulous doula yesterday and me and DP loved her so feeling very excited about the birth. I've been onto JL and ordered the new crib mattress and breast pads and other bits and pieces and basically as prepapred as one can be for somone who still has 2 months to go (due 25 Sept).

Had a 3D scan last week and that was fab, took the girls along to help prepare them. Not sure if it did any good but was nice to have them there anyway.

Love to you all. TC x

kinki · 04/08/2007 11:25

Hi toadstool and hopey and everyone else. My chest infection is nothing to worry about at all, I'm not unwell, in fact I feel fine. Apparantly it sounded bad when the dr listened. She probably gave me ab's to nip it in the bud, before it gets worse.

Toadstool, I'm glad that your leg is out of plaster, but it sounds a struggle with the boot contraption thing. I wanted to offer a bit of advice about x-rays (diagnosing x-rays is my job so I know a bit about it). If you need an x-ray there is no reason why you can't have one. Here's the reasons why: [technical and boring, skip if you want!]

1, During the first trimester cells are being formed and so there is a potential that cell damage could occur. But these days the amount of x-rays used is very small, so the potential risk (even in the early weeks) is very small. I had several x-rays in the first few weeks of this pregnancy (the most potentially dangerous time) and believe me I wouldn't have if I thought the baby would have been harmed. In the 2nd & 3rd trimester, cells are dividing and growing, and are therefore at much less risk of damage by x-rays. Basically the further along a pregnancy the less harmful it is. So at 30 something weeks your baby won't be at risk.
2, the further away something is from the x-rays the better (x-rays disipate over distance) - your leg being about 1m away from the baby is good
3, the radiographer can wrap a lead coat over your abdomen - at this strength x-ray, the x-rays won't get through lead coat, so the baby won't be exposed anyway
4, the lower leg is relatively small, so will need only a low dose anyway, especially if not in plaster.

So there really is no reason why they can't x-ray you. The dose is small, away from your baby, which can be wrapped in lead, and you're late in your pregnancy. If you think you need one, and the dr says no because you're pregnant, tell him x-ray can get medical physics to do a risk assesment. Its very important that your leg gets fixed properly and quickly, and you may well need x-rays to facilitate that. I've x-rayed many pregnant women over the years, even ct'ed a few which is massive dose, and there was never any harmful effects reported. Hope all this makes sense and reassured you a little. Btw, I'd be tempted to complain officially about the treatment by the physios - you too hopey - not so much for compensation etc, but so bad practice can be highlighted and staff retrained. If patients don't speak out about bad practice from us so called professionals, we get away with it time and time again.

Good luck with the scan, hope it goes well, it'll be lovely to see lo again. Healing vibes are being sent your way, and to hopey's dh, plp's dh, vicx (how's that head?), laksa (bet the embarrassment was worse than the pain!) seamonster (recovered yet?), and anyone else in the wars lately. Nice to see you again TC, you're a lot more organised than me!

toadstool · 04/08/2007 15:12

Kinki, thank you so much for your advice - I'll definitely insist on an x-ray next week when I go in again (they were saying not for 3 weeks, and were arguing that because I've had 3 since the break it was 'too much'). I tried to get the physio incident reported on the day it happened, but a nurse (unofficially) said that incidents often don't get reported because the ward sister gets into trouble - it seemed absurd, but I have to respect the pressures the nursing staff felt, so an official complaint from me to the physio service is probably more helpful. I've been given details of 3 private physio clinics locally and am contacting them, because it's probably best to go to someone who has the time and specific expertise to deal with long-term cases. Thanks again!

canadianmum · 04/08/2007 19:50

OMG - so many messages again, I guess I will just add one more!

HIWBB - I am feeling so sorry for your DH and you, what an incredibly difficult situation. His surgeon sounds wonderful though and I really hope you get this all sorted soon -

laksa - - oh dear, that was a bit unfortunate wasn't it, but a good story to tell your lo when he/she is a bit older!!

plp - I hope your DH feels better soon, CBT sounds like just the ticket. and I hope you get the break you need soon.....

Re: breech babies - is it just me or do there seem to be a heck of a lot of breech babes on this thread? One of my books says only 15 percent at 32 weeks and around 3-4 percent at term. Mine is definitely either breech or transverse and I have been too lazy or tired to adopt the all-fours, bum in the air position twice a day. I am going to try some homeopathy at 36 weeks if my scan shows bubba is still breech. worth a try?

Now where can I find a TENS machine........

sophus · 04/08/2007 20:39

Hello all

Haven't posted in ages - well i did twice but wireless connection had gone so i lost my posts and didn't have energy to redo them.

Have been reading and lurking and keeping up with you all and thinking about all your ups and downs - esp. MrsFish's muppetry - that had me smiling for days.

Have finished work now - wasn't due to finish unti 38 wks but because of my mum being so poorly i took the decision to finish work early so i can spend time with her before the baby arrives. She is still in hospital but we hope for her to be home in two weeks. Unfortunately the prognosis isn't good at all, but i think in our heart of hearts we all knew that. So we just do what we can for her and make sure she is as happy as can be.

I go and sit with her in the hospital and tell her about my pregnancy and she tells me all about giving birth to the four of us, so don't think i'll ever forget these times one way or the other.

I am nearly 36 weeks and i can start to feel the hormones surging, getting very excited by the thought of the baby actually being here and being a real person.

DP came back from business trip to US absolutely laden with presents for the baby - very good Dad-to-be. Didn't get anything for me but i explained that he can shower me with gifts when i have presented him with his PFB.

As i now have oodles of time on my hands - am sure i will be posting much more.

Although was prevented from logging on for a few days as Bert the World's Feistiest Kitten had chewed through my power cable.

Hope you have been enjoying the sunshine this w/end.

Love to you all

S
xx

Hopeitwontbebig · 05/08/2007 09:48

Sophus, I am so so so so so sorry about your Mum. That is such sad news. You do think she will be here to see your LO born don't you? I DO hope so. I think you're right to leave work early and spend as much time as possible with her. You will treasure every conversation you have with her. FWIW my advice would be to keep a diary, and write down snippets of conversation you have. Especially when LO arrive, you could make a note of all the things your Mum says/does with the baby, then when your LO is older you can show her. The reason I am saying this is because my dear Nan died when I was 3 months pregnant with DS2 and I wished I had written things down so DS1 could see all the things she did with him. My Nan was more than a Nan, she was more like my Mum. Again, Sophus, so sorry love. Sending you huge hugs and lots and lots of sympathy. You sound amazingly strong, look after you.

EdieMcredie · 05/08/2007 10:45

Canadianmum-I ordered my TENS from Tens-hire.co.uk for £23 for 6 weeks hire.

Pennypops-Im another small person with a supposedly tall baby inside! My ribs are just so sore im now taking regular paracetamol. She feels jammed in bless her!

HIWBB-Sorry to hear about DH, hope he is back soon and his arm gets better. How stressful. Glad you have your kitchen coming along well.

TC-Good to see you again!

Sophus-Sorry to hear about your mother, you sound incredibly brave. Glad you are off work too, ive been off for ages it seems!

Im feeling better now im over my post bday blues! I get it every year! Had a lovely day, had makeover in House Of Fraser, bought some benefit make up (how expensive, lucky I had vouchers otherwise it would have been rimmell). Then me and mum went for lunch, then I had hair done (paid for by DP) then in the evening we went out for swanky meal. No wonder I was feeling down the next day!

Oh my god Norwich is so boiling hot! Have a feeling this thread title isn't going to apply for much longer. Hello to everyone, hope you are all well and not suffering too much in the heat!