OMG can?t believe how much you lot have been chatting over the last 36 hours! Dh and I got a babysitter and had a night out last night so no time to post. We had a lovely time ? we went to have a massage together (which had been a Christmas pressie from bil and sil) and then for dinner. So a very late night of 11pm for me! A lovely time though?.
Unfortunately this am when I woke up I felt really really sick. Even lying down didn?t seem to settle things so I?ve not gone into work. Had hoped after a couple of hours I?d feel well enough but still feeling grim so back to my pit with laptop!
Floria ? sorry to hear you can?t contest the coroner?s verdict. Nothing really I can say to make it better is there? Big big hugs winging there way to you instead and hope you are feeling OK?..
MrsFish ? sorry to hear you?ve been sleeping so badly. Sounds like you need a big hug too!
Muppet ? think that?s a great idea about ds?s book. You?re right that he might want to read it before he is old enough to be able to understand but great to that he will get to keep to original for later when he is old enough to understand what you went through and to know that it bears no reflection on how much you love him now.
I wake with dead arms too ? I thnk with my enormous belly I don?t roll over without waking anymore so wake with dead arms instead! I wouldn?t worry about it.
LOL at all you and your porn food! At the mo the thing I miss most of all is cheese. Really smelly blue ?feet? cheese as I call it! When we were out last night I spent a large amount of time salivating at the food I COULDN?T have on the menu before making my choice? I have been eating prawns but chicken livers, pate and pink steak all got me going!
Welcome Charlie!
Welcome back inzi!!! Jealous as hell about you being off work now! Enjoy it and don?t go too mad with the diy!
Db ? your Cornish hol sounds like a dream and a perfect holiday to have before lo arrives as it probably won?t be the sort of thing you?ll do so much after! Dh and I are away in a week ? mostly staying with M&D but we have 2 days off in the middle on our own with no ds! So looking for similar types of places in and near to Herefordshire if you (or anyone else) knows of anywhere?
Don?t think you?re being selfish about the sex either. Dh and I could probably have counted on 1 hand the amount of times we?ve had sex since ds2 was conceived until relatively recently. Luckily for me he is as shattered and not up for it as me at the mo (variety of things with work and stuff) so its not a major issue and we both know it?s a temporary thing that doesn?t reflect how we feel for each other. Am with you too on the feeling freaked out by the lo moving! How we have got round this to some extent is to have Sat lunchtime ?dates? when ds goes to bed and we?re not exhausted. Wee both feel a bit more up for it when we?re not tired so this has worked well. You may find you feel better on holiday when you can get more sleep. Try talking to him about it before you go though ? he might well have been trying it on so often because he wanted you to feel attractive and now he knows this doesn?t help you might lay off a bit. It certainly sounds like you hve a fab supportive relationship so things will be fine honey ? just chat about how you both feel and try to come to a compromise which works for you both. But you are certainly not unreasonable to be feeling like this. I think most men would be prepared for the fact you wouldn?t be up for much after the baby arrives but don?t realise how being pregnant makes you feel?. Thinking of you!
LES ? sorry you?re having a tough time with your dp?s ex and you feel free to rant away! Can I ask why you have to call his ex and talk to her about money? I would say it was unreasonable of yor dp to expect this of you and that it was for him to sort out. Not sure that helps how you feel now though but remember she is probably bitter about how they split up and certainly not the right person to listen to about how he is likely to treat you!
Ejt ? hope you have a fab night out for your wedding anniversary!
Big hello to everyone else and will be back in a min to respond to the million cross postings that have no doubt been made while I have been writing this mammoth one!