September 2019 babies?

[abi2790]

Do we have any September due dates yet?

This one came as a big shock for me. I had my coil out on 30th November and must have conceived pretty much straight away. Considering it took quite a long time to get DD, the BFP was a big shock!

This one will be my third!

Started bleeding this afternoon and haven't stopped so far. Red blood with clots and have filled a pad. Terrified I'm having a miscarriage 😭💔
Been told I can't be referred to EPU till I'm 7 weeks (next Tuesday). I'm sure it's a miscarriage but will be a long wait till it's confirmed 😭

@wingingit09 I am so sorry, keeping everything crossed for you x

@WingingIt09 so sorry! Look after yourself xx

@mrss2018 I'm finding it hard trying to keep myself busy. I flit between feeling excited and then terrified. Something that has helped me is having some counselling. I was offered some following my mmc and had my first session today. Was very helpful.
Thinking of you all and sending positive thoughts.

Thanks @Mumtobe89 you too!
I'm going to sort some crammed draws this week and paint them that should take a week or so....I'll probably end up decorating the whole house!!

@wingingit09 I'm so sorry, I know it won't help but it's all I can say. I hope the bleeding stops x

I'm very anxious, feel like we can't possibly have got this lucky and caught straight away again. Just want to POAS every morning!

@WingingIt09 sending you love...take care of yourself x

@WingingIt09
Thinking of you, everything crossed that it is ok. I’m a nervous wreck so can imagine how hard this is

I’m sorry @wingingit09 Fingers crossed for you. I’ve been quiet keeping my head down but feeling so sick every day now. EDD is 1st September. Welcome to all new people!

So sorry @WingingIt09 Let us know how you are today? Hugs xxx

Thinking of you @WingingIt09 xx

I'm so sorry @wingingit. Thinking of you x

So sorry WingingIt really is so shit.

mrss2018 and Mumtobe89 certainly case of keeping busy helps the day pass quicker. I think what doesn't help is I still have the crib and all the baby bits I bought during last pregnancy before the MMC in my room so bit of a constant reminder

Thanks for all your replies ladies. Still bleeding today and it's now sinking in that it probably is going to be a miscarriage. I just phoned in sick to work which was awful. Our procedure is we have to call our manager and admin team, which is a general number that can direct you to any of the admin workers across the county so I ended up speaking to a complete stranger. Admin asked why I'm sick, I requested not to tell her (saying that it was personal and I would inform my manager when I called her) to which she replied you have to tell me as I do the sickness forms. When I told her she then said at the end 'hope you get better soon'. What a stupid response. Probably overreacting but just really upset me. Still waiting for my manager to call me back, hopefully she'll have a better response as she actually knows me.

Hi everyone, feels very strange to say that I'll be joining you in having a baby!

I'll add myself to the sheet, but I'm 33, this is #2, but my elder DD is 15 next month so there will be a massive age gap- still not sure how I feel about that! I had her at 18, I've spent all of my adult years being a parent, and now I'm adding another 18 years onto it, so I feel a little bit crazy! It's DPs first child, he is absolutely overjoyed.

EDD is the 19th by dates (LMP started 14th December, 26/27 day cycle), although the stick said 1-2 weeks yesterday so I'm a bit confused by that- doesn't that put me at 3+6?

@WingingIt09 So very sorry to hear that thinking of you and sending lots of thoughts and positive vibes your way.

Woah lots of newbies! I've been really quiet as I've got HG and I'm feeling awful I've got a reassurance scan tomorrow.

So sorry to those with bleeding.

Could someone add me to the list?

Edd is 5.09.18 and this is dc3.

So last night I had some proper symptoms I think - sort of stitch like pain on the left side, quite low down. Lasted quite a few hours and this morning had a funny full sensation.

All gone now though and only sign is very slightly sore boobs and they are really soft and quite hot and I feel quite bloated.

I am still completely terrified - terrified of something being wrong, terrified that I might actually have a baby.

Had a chiro appointment last night and plucked up the courage to tell her - first person that knows apart from DH. She was lovely about it but it left me even more terrified about a loss and I felt like I was talking about someone else rather than me.

It's only 4 days since I tested - feels like a lifetime, how the hell I'm going to cope until we can do NIPT I have no idea. 5-6 more weeks of this will send me crackers.

I am resisting re-testing as I worry I could get obsessive about it - going to allow myself a weekly test, so again on Sunday before Drs appointment on Monday - just so hopefully I can say to GP I have had 2 positive tests a week apart.

@Megan2018 I'm getting completely obsessed with symptom spotting- mine have eased off so worried about that!!

Im also obsessed with testing!! Forget the 5-6 weeks it's the 8 months I'm worried about!! Haha!!

Mine seem to come in waves. Woke up this morning thinking I felt very little apart from the massive (for me) boobs and then nearly threw up in the car.

I’m constantly worrying too but trying hard not to. My sil is pregnant and a month and a half further along and I can’t shake the thought I’m going to lose my baby and then have a constant reminder in hers. It’s what happened with a friend first time I was pregnant :(

Trying hard to keep a lid on it and relax!

@mrss2018
I can't even think beyond getting past the NIPT, being almost 41 I am convinced this will end in MC or termination. At the moment my odds of MC are so high. My anxiety is in overdrive.
I am sure if I get to 12 weeks I'll worry the same to birth - but the odds right now are so stacked against me!

Really sorry @WingingIt09 - I hope you're ok and getting all the support you need from DH xxx

Hello ladies 👋🏻 Can I join please (tentatively!) I got my BFP last Sunday but have been POAS like a madwoman ever since. AF is only due today so am still quite nervous but we’ll see. EDD is 20/21 September and this would be DC#2 if it sticks. We have a DD who is 21 months.

Go between joyous and cacking my pants! Also cacking my pants as had high blood pressure in the last few weeks of last pregnancy (and then for 6 weeks postpartum) and I’m terrified I’ll get full blown pre-eclampsia this time. I assume whatever happens I’ll be considered high risk now for future pregnancies?

Not many symptoms yet (although hardly had any in the first/second tri with DD) other than that winning combo of fatigue and insomnia

@WingingIt09 really sorry to read your post. Hope you’re getting all the RL support you need (and your HR sound like total knobs - who asks why you’re off sick anyway? )

Thank you all. Unfortunately DH is away with work and not back until tomorrow evening. Getting support from family and friends. My best friend is coming over tonight to bring me take away and keep my company so not on my own. Xx