Morning all, feeling much better today Thanks for all your lovely messages. Got over my angry ranty mood! Edie you were asking about DH's prognosis, well he had neurosurgery about a wk after the accident to re-attach some severed nerves. The nerves that were ripped from spinal cord could not be re-attached, too risky. Basically we've been told that it'll take about 3 years to reach any sort of recovery. The nerves have to completely re-grow down the arm, and they grow at 1mm a day! We've been told that he will never regain fine motor control and at best he will be able to bend his elbow and at very very best his wrist. Kinki he's a naughty boy and he's sitting upstairs in bed making phonecalls and working on laptop. There's just NO telling him
emj23 - I too had a back to back (or posterior) labour with DS1. Have to echo Loopys opinion really, sorry, it does makes things a bit tougher. Unfortunately with me, they didn't pick up that he was posterior until half way through my labour, the midwives were really mean to me up to that point because they thought I was just being a wimp. When in actual fact I was labouring a massive baby who was flippin posterior . What I would say it don't be brave, and make sure you ask for pain relief early on. Also, try not to give birth lying on your back.
Helen - welcome on board! Sorry about your pregnancy worries. I hope it all turns out ok for you. You'll get lots of support and advise here. It might be worth you starting a thread over on pregnancy, you may get some really good advise there.
Toadstall, what a nightmare for you. It sounds SOOOOOO painful. What a crappy ward it sounds like you are on... bet some of those patients are getting right on your nerves! What a coincidence that other pregnant lady being in the same situation as you! Sending you healing thoughts Good luck with your surgery.
dal, your Mum sounds like a superstar!! Well done on the painting!
MooMar, thank you so very very much for the kind offer of your dog, I've thought long and hard about it but NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Filbrit, great to have you back!! Glad the move went well.
Well I've got a very busy weekend planned. We need to completely pack up the kitchen because it's being ripped out on Monday!! My Mum thinks I'm mad, we did this when I was pregnant with DS2! SO, we will be living in the lounge, cooking with a microwave, steamer and if the weather behaves, the bbq! Only for 4 weeks . It's all good fun! I'm going to pay my boys an hourly wage to help do all the packing! It's amazing how willing they are to help when there's a bit of extra pocket money involved.
Love to all x