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Due in May - W/c 21/05/07 We're not impatient at all, no not us...

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twelveyeargap · 21/05/2007 08:12

Morning.

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largeginandtonic · 21/05/2007 19:55

Just for you Lwatkins, i have not yet needed to be induced but i do know that babies who are not happy in utero tend to come out nice and easy. They seem to know they need to come out and oblige. Dont worry and just think of all the positives of having your little girl in your arms by Thursday

scootermum · 21/05/2007 20:28

Oh Lwatkins..but at least now all the wondering is over..and you know soon you will be holding your baby..try to get some rest tonight-easier said than done I know-I wouldnt sleep a wink probably..the end is in sight now hon..and look at it this way if you are nervous-the itching will soon be a distant memory!

largegant..felt sure the sweep would do the trick..well there is still time twixt now and Friday..here's hoping..

God knows how the estate agent managed to break my plant pot..knocked it over with his huge ego on the way out I expect..he is all of 20 and seems to think a cheap suit and directional specs give him the right to talk down to all and sundry..tosser...good on your DD for not letting your ones in when you were renting TYG-she sounds so sensible...
God that seems an age ago when you were renting..I remember you wizzing about on your scooter looking for places after work..and now here we all are, babies everywhere and more to come soon..
Must say that whatever happens all you ladies have been a great boon for me throughout this pg..dunno how I got through DD's pg without the same really..lots of love to you all

Gingerbear · 21/05/2007 21:04

thinking of you lwatkins hope things turn out well.

2 days to my due date, and still nada. I have aches and pains, and feel like a supertanker when trying to turn over in bed, but am trying to enjoy the calm before the inevitable storm of sleepless nights, comedy boobs that leak milk and trying to figure out which way up the nappies go.

Made a LDC this afternoon, so I am all set - Lulu and Mars, if you are reading: here - have a slab of cake and send me some labour starting vibes this way please.

Creena · 21/05/2007 21:05

hey there lwats - i was induced this time (my only experience of induction). they used prostin gel on me as cervix posterior and closed. took 2 doses to get things going - walking around after a dose really helps to kick things off; i did several circuits of the hospital car parks. it started off with mild 'prostin contractions' which aren't painful, just uncomfortable. once the proper contractions started, it all went very fast. 2 hours from 0 to delivery, in fact.

please don't worry - before you know it, you'll be holding your little girl and going soppy over her! don't be afraid to ask lots of questions and to ask for support and info from the midwives whenever you need to.

Good luck - lots of positive birthing vibes coming your way!

elkiedee · 21/05/2007 21:12

Lwatkins, I was induced at 8 days as my baby was overdue and I'm quite old as well (37, nearly 38) and the bank holiday was coming up.

They admitted me at 7 pm on Wednesday and had a first go soon after, contractions started at 2 am that night but dilation very slow in my case, in the end did go into second stage of labour but was given a time limit of an hour to push without further intervention.

They used a ventouse cup in the end but that worked well and quite quickly - much less than an hour - surgeon did put in some stitches but my mum reckons he did a very good job of it, they seem to have healed quite well. Everyone was astonished that I resisted any drugs beyond gas and air but the truth was I'm scared of injections. The drawback of the induction method used, and I'm a bit hazy about what it was, was that I spent most of my labour wired up to monitors and on my back, not the position I'd have chosen (it is apparently slower than other positions).

All was well in the end and I'm glad to have avoided pethedine, epidurals and caesaerian, not that there's anything wrong with these for other people in my view, just that they all scared me for different reasons. The ventouse cup seemed to me one of the least scary devices used to intervene in labour for some reason (I saw it at my sole antenatal class and on a TV programme), perhaps I had some premonition that it would be the way forward, literally, for Danny.

I hope all goes well for you and hope to hear what happens, is anyone on this thread taking on the forwarding of birth messages. elliekthepa has done this for April antenatal thread participants and I've found that really valuable, particularly as my experiences since the birth have been pretty tough going.

scootermum · 21/05/2007 21:58

Sorry to hear that you havent been having a good time Elkiedee..hope things are better now?Or anything we can help with?(All my dubious child rearing knowledge is at your disposal..or you could take anything I put as a guide on what NOT to do )

Have been reading a thread re MIL quotes-so funny!

Turning in now, night all..

Good Luck Lwatkins for tomorrow-let me know how you are getting on-or get your Mum to?Sending you lots of positive vibes for a short and pain free labour..

Oh Tam just texted me-and I got it bizarrely-despite NOT being up the hill-says her contractions have stopped for now and if they dont start up again they will induce her in the AM..So sending lots of love to you too Tam, if you dont get my reply before..

(I wonder if they have put up a phone mast somewhere near the village today!Scoot gets very excited at potentially joining the world of telecommunications...or actually a plane was over head at the time-could that have acted as some sort of conductor?)

Night all x

Sumsey · 21/05/2007 22:32

best luck to tam and LW.

BefnalBub · 21/05/2007 23:04

LW - if you are shakey and a bit jerky - thats part of the PE. I had it really badly on the day they induced me. They gave me the gel and I started getting contractions quite quickly. Baby wasn't happy during the contractions which is why they gave me a C-Section, but for the contractions I did have, I really relaxed into them and tried (?) to enjoy them - found it really helped.

Try and do the slow breathing (4 in, 8 out) and focus on it until you start feeling the contractions and then breath with them - the J breath Tam was talking about. You will be just fine and have your bundle in yours arms before you know it!

xx

cinnamontam · 21/05/2007 23:15

Hi guys,

Still not much happening. Getting period type cramps every 20 odd mins now but not much else so just had a shower, off to bed and then will decide what to do in the morning. Really don't want to be induced but the extremely wise Mars suggested I go in and let them monitor me intermittently through the day but otherwise let me go for the day to see if I can't kick off on my own. Will just have to be tough with anyone who comes at me waving IV's etc...

LW - you will be fine my love. So exciting to think our LO's will be out soon.

It's so lovely to get online and see people have been wondering about me . Made me feel all loved and warm...So thanks for all the good thoughts and vibes. Sending them right back to all of you and will keep you posted.

Tam
xxx

MKG · 21/05/2007 23:53

Lwat-

The bottom line with induction is "How is your cervix?" If it isn't ready to go, it can take a long time, and odds are that it may need a C-section (Not to scare you just being honest) If your cervix is ripe now, you may just need some prosteglandin gel, waters broken, a drip and it can all be done and over in a day or so.

I had an induction with ds and it was great. My cervix was softening up, so I had prosteglandin put in around 8 pm, waters broken and a drip at 8am the next day, and ds was born at 8:12 pm. It took me a long time to go into actual labor, but once I did it was pretty quick.

Most people will tell you horror stories about induction, but mine was great, and I had a great birth with no pain relief, and no other interventions. If it is necessary I would do it again in a heartbeat. I also have to say that as a first timer it was nice being told that my water was broken, being told I was in labor. The only thing that sucks is that with syntocin you need full time monitoring, but it really isn't that bad, and ask if they have a walking monitor so you can stay mobile if you chose to walk around. I didn't walk around at all with ds, just stayed curled up in fetal position. I hope everything goes well for you and will be thinking of you.

MKG · 21/05/2007 23:54

On my front, nothing new to report. I got the house clean and the laundry done, so this little guy can come out whenever he wants.

Lwatkins · 22/05/2007 00:36

OH thank you all for sharing stories and nice words, your all so lovely Feeling a bit more chilled out now after a bath, some sleep, scrambled eggs on toast and a long chat with my parents. Bp peaked in at 131/103 when I checked this evening, but after a massage from my mum it came down a wee bit. Just seems so high compared to my booking bp which was 105/70!

Trying to think positive, but still feel a bit shocked by it all. Still feels a bit sureal if I'm honest and I probably won't believe it's happening until I'm lying down having my internal done tommorrow lol

I'm sorry I haven't caught up with all the news but from what I can briefly see Tam it sounds like you and me are now level pegging! And LG&T sending you a big (((hug))) You must be feeling fairly fed up, I really hope todays sweep kick starts it all of for you lovely

Scoot I will try and keep you as up to date as I can tommorrow by texting, you may get a text from a slightly deranged (sp) woman keeping you informed - don't panic it'll just be my mum!

Right am of to attempt to get some sleep, doubt I'll be very successful but will try. Got my essay posted of today - could my timing have been any better. Especially now this induction things crept up, in my mums words - you jammy mer!

Keep well my yummy may mums, and lets have some more babies

LupinsBigLump · 22/05/2007 07:49

LW good luck for today, I was induced with Morgan it took ages for anything to happen I was so bored, my friend was with me we had a picnic and watch robbie williams,then it was all really quick, dont remember being in pain for long, and if you end up with section not bad at all (have had 2) my advice there is dont refuse any pain killers you will recover quicker if you can move about - ooooh how exciting looking forward to news, huge hugs to you, ohh and stayyyyy calmmmmm

aprilmeadow · 22/05/2007 08:12

Good luck and big hugs to LWatkins & Tam. Cant wait to hear about/see your little bundles xx

buffythenappyslayer21 · 22/05/2007 08:20

GATECRASH

hi ladies!just wanted to let you know that pebblemum has gone into hospital!she text me this morning to let me know her waters broke at 1.45am and she was going into hosp at 6.50.

she said its bloody hurting!!and she'll let me know when its all over!!will ask her if she wants me to let you all know,or she might want to break the news herself!!

twelveyeargap · 22/05/2007 08:37

You're probably already gone LW, but thinking of you. xx

Thanks Buffy! That's so exciting! We might have THREE babies today/ tomorrow. Pebble, LW and Tam. Hurray!

And me and LG&T, obviously!

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largeginandtonic · 22/05/2007 08:48

Not really here, am having baby (obviously)

Huge luck on the way to Lwatkins, Tam and now Pebble too! We do seem to go in a little flurry on here dont we?

Mmmmmmm Flurry.....Mc Flurry of the caramel kind

Right am off to do the school run, i mean have a baby...with TYG...of course....

AbbyLou · 22/05/2007 09:27

Good luck to the three almost-mums! Hope everything goes well for you all, hope to see some lovely news on here later!

juliewoolie · 22/05/2007 09:32

LW I really hope all goes well today, Peb good luck, Tam woo hoo get going girl.

Well the babies must have decided to wait for the sun to shine again.

TYG and LG&T hang in there girlsthey cant stay in there forever - can they :0

I have decided that the best way to get things moving is to plan loads of lovely things to do so am arranging to see friends and go get my nails done am even going to attempt the drive to my parents on Thursday eve, bet things kick off then if you hear on the news a woman has given birth on the M25 its me!!

madeindevon2 · 22/05/2007 09:37

wow more babies on their way into the world. good luck pebble, lwatkins and tam!! Cant wait to hear the birth stories!
comiserations to the rest of us just waiting and waiting....and waiting...
i was born on 22nd of the month so my mum in her infinite wisdom has predicited today is the day my LO comes too. Its all just wishful thinking tho. she told me to drink raspbery leaf tea yesterday....ive been quaffing it for weeks!!
im seeing midwife shortly so we shall see what she has to say.
got woken up twice in the night by dh telling me to roll over...i keep rolling onto my back and apparently waking him up snoring! feeling really bad about waking him up as he's still not well and gets up at 5.15. i had the luxury of being lazy and staying in bed til 9...
hes getting frustrated as not getting over his illness (chest infection) but i keep telling him he's not going to if he just keeps on going....he needs a few days rest to help body recover....i sound like my mum but its true isnt it!
and now hes getting into a tizz about being ill for baby.....

cameroonmama · 22/05/2007 09:50

Wow, looks like its all ahappening on here today! Sending lots of good luck to Tam, LW and Pebble and waiting for lots of lovely baby news.

Sending over some pineapple-flavoured labour vibes to LG&T and TYG and MKG.

Juicylucytoo · 22/05/2007 09:57

Gosh 3 babies on the way. How exiting. Ahem, make that 5 with LG&T and TYG's of course
Will MKG be joining them today???

Good luck MKG, Tam & LW if you're still around. Looking forward to hearing all the birth announcements.

Julie, would be good to try a meet up this week. BB is up for it too.

Have had another crappy nights sleep. Think it's too hot in our room. May be time to switch to summer covers. At least the weathers nice today, so we can enjoy a bit of sunshine.

SKYTVADDICT · 22/05/2007 10:10

Morning all

Just popping in to see how you are all doing. I am feeling a little more human today. Presume I have to go and find the post natal thread but as I've been feeling so crap I haven't bothered.

Callum doing brilliant - b/f going well and sleeping 5 then 4 hours each night (not always the same hours I hasten to add - last night he had his last feed at 8 then slept til 12 woke, had a feed then slept from 1 til 5).

I am just taking a while to get over the C section!

Good luck to you all.

largeginandtonic · 22/05/2007 11:30

No news yet then? COME ON.....it only takes 40 mins to pop a baby out dontcha know!!!!!

Im being very productive today, have hoovered and done the washing. Filled in a load of form for the police who are chasing me about a bloody 4x4 that knocked my wing mirror back in March! She was speeding past me, i was going about 5mph to turn in to the school FFS. Hey ho.

DD has an appointment at the hospital at 5 as she was up most of the night very unhappy with her sore, dry throat. She goes to see the consultant and may need some antibiotics in case of an infection. She is home again today torturing Hugs, he likes his own space

Right im predicting weights of all imminent babies, just for fun.

Pebble - 8lb 6oz
Tam - 7lb 10oz
Lwatkins - 6lb 2oz

Pinkjenny · 22/05/2007 11:49

When will I stop staring into the cot and wondering whether she has spontaneously stopped breathing? I can't sleep!!!!!