Are your children’s vaccines up to date?

Set a reminder

Please or to access all these features

Birth clubs

Connect with mums-to-be with similar due dates to share experiences and support.

Due in May - W/c 21/05/07 We're not impatient at all, no not us...

306 replies

twelveyeargap · 21/05/2007 08:12

Morning.

OP posts:
Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
twelveyeargap · 28/05/2007 11:17

I think I've frightened most people off minipop. I haven't had one of those calls in a few days. Hehehe.

Despite the weather, we've decided we HAVE to get out of the house today. Going to go for a late lunch on the South Bank somewhere and hopefully fit in the Cabinet War Rooms too. Slightly ambitious imo, given the state of my feet, but hopefully it will help move the baby down. Things currently depend on whatever project DH is doing in the kitchen. There's a workbench and jigsaw in there. He appears to be making planters for his tomatoes out of scrap wood.

I did some reading about "post date" pregnancy last night. To begin with, the chap who decided that a pregnancy is 40 weeks, did so around 1850, so as you can imagine, things have changed since then; mothers' nutrition for starters. I've read that caucasian women with good nutrition can add 15 days to that due date if on their first baby and 10 days if not on first baby and still be within "normal" parameters. Apparently black and Asian women tend to have slightly shorter pregnancies.

So that made me feel better and also I found a graph showing roughly when babies are born in the US versus their "due date" of 40 weeks.

The approximate numbers look like
Before 37 weeks: 4%
37 weeks: 5%
38-39 weeks: 10%
39-40 weeks: 20%
40-41 weeks: 35%
41-42 weeks: 20%
Over 42 weeks: 10%

So there's a good 50% chance that your baby will be born after its due date and for me, a 20% chance she'll come this week. That's pretty good IMO. And given that my induction isn't booked til I'm 42+2, that's a little more chance again that I'll go spontaneously.

OP posts:
twelveyeargap · 28/05/2007 11:21

Scoot, if you have a plan for DD (with CM) for when you go into labour, then personally, I would prefer not to have people in the house.

Remember that women tend to go into labour when they're happy and comfortable in their surroundings, so if your mum is driving you barking and messing up the house, then it might not be such a good thing. Just a thought.

I mean, once you're in established labour and gone to hospital and it's all definitely happening, then couldn't your parents get themselves sorted out to come and collect DD from CM? I know they're a few hours away, so I guess it depends on availability of the CM.

OP posts:
MarsLady · 28/05/2007 11:22

12yg.... don't make yourself exhausted darling. Lots of rests. Walking doesn't bring on labour, it simply makes you tired. Have a good day.

Oh and thanks for the stats!

twelveyeargap · 28/05/2007 11:30

Oh Mars, I wasn't thinking it would actually start things. The registrar I saw during the week told me to do some walking to help shift the baby's head down as it's not fully engaged yet. Won't it work? (Am still doing my crab-walking up the stairs, btw.)

Personally, would prefer to be carried in a sedan chair, but I can't see it happening!

OP posts:
twelveyeargap · 28/05/2007 11:35

Forgot it was Monday. New thread.

Could this be the last one?

OP posts:
scootermum · 28/05/2007 11:36

Think you are right TYG..she would drive me crazy and the cm is very accomodating..

I too am going to HAVE to go out in a bit..going to put my Sowester on and go to Tesco..

Have a nice time down the South Bank..Very good stats BTW..reassuring really..

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread