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May Mummies, w/c 14th May, What a lovely day to have a baby! Are you listening babies?

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Mrsjaffabiffa · 14/05/2007 07:42

Morning............

It a bad day! Lg&t I want to be in your gang, I liked being 29.

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LupinsBigLump · 15/05/2007 10:06

LGT hope your lo arrives soon - cant say i have ever made it to the stage of pg but i feel for you anyway - sending you a virtual kk and a hug

Pink my carpal tunnel is still playing up in one hand altho nowhere near as awkward and no longer painful just tingly and stiff, grrrr at your mil - who does she think she is

Sky lovely pics, beautiful abay and cute kids

SOH OMG hun what an epic adventure - poor you, defo send those men to hell, glad your all doing well and Matilda is a beauty

Julie - I was charging my mobile so i dont think ghd's will be a problem - just dont burn down the maternity unit - I didnt get time to pack mine but they were on my list origanilly - deffo need bigggg pants the bigger the better, I am still wearing mine altho they are starting to fall down now as i have no bump to keep them up, however cant face going back to mini knicks yet

Right off to be a drowned rat in town, poor dd has gone on an outing today - she will be soaked by the time she gets back to preschool will have to take her dry clothes to wear home

twelveyeargap · 15/05/2007 10:41

I just refused a sweep. I must be mad. I'm mad, aren't I? I mentioned it, in relation to you LG&T about your story of going for the sweep and being 5cm whilst we were chatting. Anyway, midwife said she'd normally be offering me next week, but would do one if I wanted and then I felt funny about it and refused and said I'd wait until I'd gone over.

Oh well. Baby happy and healthy, BP perfect, midwife says I seem lovely and calm and relaxed to her so she's happy. She's off Thurs to Mon though. And then on holiday from the following Thurs. Would like to have her deliver. ARE YOU LISTENING BABY TYG? TONIGHT OR TOMORROW!

twelveyeargap · 15/05/2007 10:49

It's such a bugger when you have a bad night hun. It's no wonder you're in a mood or a "yoomer" (humour) as we bog-trotters say.

cameroonmama · 15/05/2007 10:53

Morning all, J is asleep, which seems only to happen during the daytime, he hasn't got the hang of this sleeping at night business yet. I have downloaded a couple of photos of the cutie for you to see and hopefully to get those hormones moving.

I'm thinking of investing in a pineapple plantation the amount of pineapple that is currently being munched!

Pink, I promised you my c-section lowdown, so here goes, sorry if its very long...it was all very calm, they prepped me just beforehand with a dry shave, but it was an automatic razor and not painful at all, and actually it was best she did it cos she made sure it covered all the bits where the dressing was stuck to. Then in theatre I put my CD on and everyone was very friendly and jokey and the spinal was v v easy and didn't hurt at all. The anaesthetist was lovely and talked to me all the time about what he was doing and the surgeon too. J made his appearance with the most enormous yell the minute his head popped out before the rest of his body followed! It took them about 15 mins to get him out, but that is because I'm a scarred old lady of 3 operations! They put J in a dish and showed him to me straight away, with all the comments of 'hes a bigun, isn't he?' then took him to the babyunit thing to warm him and check his apgar. Then he and dh went to a warmer room to be weighed and dressed and they closed me up which took about 40 mins, I suggested a tummy tuck at the same time but she laughed and said I didn't need it, yeah right. Anyway we all recovered in a room until 2 ish, me pumped full of morphine but with J right beside me and dh too.

At 2 they moved me to the postnatal room and I had some visitors at 3-ish, but frankly i was so dosed up from the morphine they could have been anyone and anything! I personally hated the morphine and it made me throw up by the end of the day (the being sick wasn't as bad I had feared!!) and so i told them to change me to something else and so they took me off and gave me codeine, ibuprofen and paracetamol and it was MUCH better.

Peppermint tea is really helpful, take the lactulose they give you too and don't worry about going to the loo, it is fine. Get up and walk around with the mw help after they take out the catheter, have a shower if you can, makes you feel so much better and ask for help all the time, to move, pick up baby, more water whatever. What nobody tells you is that the baby sleeps for almost 24 hours afterwards and feeds little so use this time to get some rest. Also he will be mucosy and cough it out, sick it out at some point as he hasn't been through a vaginal delivery. Big cotton pants from Primark have been great and elasticated waists, quite high or skirts, have all helped. I am moving around with no problem a bit slow and fat but getting there! Just don't forget, go at your own pace and don't be scared to ask for help when you need it.

Here endeth the lecture

Mrsjaffabiffa · 15/05/2007 11:04

Morning all... No babies yesterday then. I was counting on sharing my birthday with a very special beautiful May baby.

lg&t, I'm so sorry you have had such a bad night, it's no fun anymore.

TYG, you want your bubba tonight yet turned down a sweep??? I hope your wish comes true it is time for another baby.

Pink J, huge good wishes for Thursday. can't wait to hear your news.

I'm off to the midwife in a bit. Going to get another sweep but also going to talk about induction. I don't think my body is capable of starting things on it's own so I might just as well let them get on with it. Not in desperate hurry though if they want to schedule for next week some time thats fine by me.

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twelveyeargap · 15/05/2007 11:13

I know, I know. Though to be fair, I didn't know the m/w was off until after I refused it. Plus, DD arrived on time, so I keep thinking this one will. Ho hum.

I hope Charleymouse is ok. She hasn't posted for a month or so.

scootermum · 15/05/2007 11:25

(Scoot lets out an evil laugh)Caramel Mcflurries are the new KK's!(not so easy to post I guess but more readily available so everyones a winner..plus at this rate DH's sales related bonus will buy me my post baby tummy tuck no problem )

My hair is inexplicable largegandt, thats the only word for it..plus washed it this morn then DD and I went back to bed-you have to take your chances when you get em) and it has dried into a charming afro..am thinking of wearing it as thus to toddlers group this aft and frightening the bejesus out of all the other Mums!Sorry you had such a piss poor night hon..look on it as practice for when the new one arrives?(have you thought of another name yet, or are you sticking with Beau?Which I think is lovely BTW!)

Must say DD has been great this morn, she didnt wake till 7, instead of normal 5am, and has played nicely, fed herself all her breakfast and then come back to bed and slept another hour and a half..plus the real Scooter didnt get up till 7 either-he usually starts miaowing after his breakfast around 4.45am so I have had it very easy...pains let up during the night but have kicked in again now with a vengeance..DH back at about 10 tonight though so not too worried..might get my TENS machine out in a bit though, as I always get in a tangle with the wires by the time the pains are requiring me to use it..

Hope some people have some babies today..how much more waxing can we all do?And curry/pineapple eating?

Were they going to come and do the sweep at home TYG?(Just out of interest?Or would you have had to go in?)

Not long till Thurs now Pink..how exciting..

Make sure to post a pic of you in your outfit Drk..bet you will look smashing..and also I expect it will be very comfy..you might start a trend for BFing ladies everywhere!

Better go and try and sort hair and dress DD [blush), before toddlers and then Midwife, hopefully for the last time, this aft)

Have a nice day all

scootermum · 15/05/2007 11:28

Was wondering about Charley too..and Anemne..she was going in last week to have the baby wasnt she?Hope they are both ok..

Is it the 19th you are due TYG?

scootermum · 15/05/2007 11:29

hope it goes well at the midwife Mrs JB..

canyoukeepasecret · 15/05/2007 11:30

I was due last wednesday so getting pretty grumpy now. i went 2 weeks over and had to be induced with DD1 so rather wanting to go into spontaneous labour so i can go to my birthing centre this time! got a sweep this afternoon. let's all be grumpy together! is there something wrong with my body that i cant seem to spontaneously start the whole thing off???

twelveyeargap · 15/05/2007 11:42

Yes, due 19th Scoot. And yes, she was going to do it here at home.

Just trying to stop iTunes 7 from skipping in the tracks. Driver update needed or some such techie thing. Back later...

aprilmeadow · 15/05/2007 12:00

Morning lovely pg ladies - hoping that this week is the week where lots of you get to hold bundles

Cam your little man is gorgeous!!

MrsJB - hope your sweep does the trick!

SOH - what an amazing birth story. Sorry you didnt get your home birth. Mathilda is beautiful - well done

All this talk of Caramel McFlurrys is not good for my waist line! Some on nice weather i need to get walking!

Ella was weighed yesterday and is now 7lbs 14oz! That's what my ds weighed at birth!

twelveyeargap · 15/05/2007 12:24

I'll be relieved when your DH is back Scoot.

Ella is thriving, April! Great news. Mmm, McFlurry. Maybe I'll go for one later.

Itunes fixed. Didn't realise how much I'd missed having music on around the house. When you start listening to repeats on Radio 4, it's probably time to turn it off for a while. Poor baby has got to listen to me warbling along with songs now. She's escaped for the last few weeks.

scootermum · 15/05/2007 12:41

So will I as have started to feel distinctly odd..gone a bit shaky and pains are a bit worse..fed up of this now as sure its not labour, just body playing tricks..

Great to hear Ella is doing so well April..

Am going to take DD to toddlers group as planned and must get to Tesco as we dont have anything for her to eat tonight or tomorrow..so hoping nothing happens whilst am out..

I have been mainlining radio 4 too, TYG..Babies will be very well informed and up on current affiars when they emerge..have also had Lily Allen on quite a bit, so hope baby isnt paying too much attention to that or she will come out a potty mouthed little madam!

twelveyeargap · 15/05/2007 12:54

Call me if any probs Scoot. I can come over if you need me - REALLY. Text me with your home number if you'd like me to check up on you a bit later. x

juliewoolie · 15/05/2007 13:37

Can any of you recommend a good sling. Have been given one of those baby bjorn type things but it needs a degree and alot of hands to get it on properly would any of you think that this is a good one

cgi.ebay.co.uk/PADDED-Baby-Carrier-by-Freedom-Slings-Cool-Soft-Fabrics_W0QQitemZ290115613508QQihZ019QQcategoryZ137725QQtcZphotoQQcmdZViewItem

Pinkjenny · 15/05/2007 14:01

Thanks all for your thoughts and to Julie and cam for your advice - all taken on board. Am currently in denial.

Went to be waxed, legs stuck together after I walked out, god, as if walking wasn't farking hard enough! I had a LARGE McChicken Sandwich meal and a caramel McFlurry. Beaoooooootiful.

twelveyeargap · 15/05/2007 14:05

DH bought a baba sling. Baba Slings Seems very pleased with it. Obv haven't tried it yet though!

When I had DD, years ago, I bought a piece of fabric from an African lady on a stall for use as a sling. It looked a lot like this and I found it great.

Juicylucytoo · 15/05/2007 14:11

Julie - I have a bjorn, but I'm planning to try out something like this one, as they're meant to be the most versatile:

didymos

Try this link for a selection which will blow your mind!!:-

the baby earer

Juicylucytoo · 15/05/2007 14:13

that should have read Baby Wearer!!

BTW I'm finishing work tomorrow so could be up for a swim (or cake from Thurs. Where do you live again? I'm in Whitechapel.

I'm sure we could convince BB to join us for the cake part by next week. She's hoping to get home today.

JonahB · 15/05/2007 14:30

Don't you hate it when you write a long message and you lose it??

Abbreviated version:

Pineapple in fruitbowl? - check
Contemplating "a bit of the other"? - check
Bikini line appointment tonight? - check

Good luck to all of you with some "signs"

Intheseshoes - I've only just seen your reply to the duvet issue on the previous thread (duvet cover without duvet). That is a really good idea! I'm going to try that tonight - thanks.

Can't offer any sling advice - they never really agreed with me, what with me being of shorter stature and my DS being a normal, healthy sized child. Just gave me back-ache.

cinnamontam · 15/05/2007 15:53

Hey all - still no more bubs huh...I think we there will be an end of week rush

I went to midwife this morning - Bean is almost fully engaged and the midwife reckons she will make an appearance before my next visit on Friday 25th! I'm due on the 27th so if she does arrive sometime in the next 10 days that will put to pot my conviction that she will be well cooked.

So instead of going home I've spent the last 2 hours traipsing up and down Putney High St getting the last bits and bobs for my hospital bag and now trying to finish off the curtains for our room.

Mrsjaffabiffa · 15/05/2007 16:24

Hello....

AM, Ella is doing so well, hope she is sleeping better in her bed. Thank you sooooo much for my parcel, it arrived today. The bracelet is absolutley gorgeous, I am wearing it now. You are really very naughty though and lovely of course.

ready for a rant?

Went to the midwife, waste of time, she was more interested in getting out of her office than doing anything with me. She stuck me on the CTG for 20mins, said OK, baby perfect see you Monday. she didn't feel baby, do my bp or urine and she didn't do an internal so I couldn't get a sweep. I said to her Ummmmm, you said we culd talk about induction today and I want you to do another sweep. Not today she said, I'll see you Monday. Grrrr She was out of the door with her bags before I had collected my dsis and Maddie from out side her office.
So ho hum another weeks wait for me. I suppose something might happen in it's own time between now and then. PMSL; [yeah right emotion]

Hope everyone else is OK.

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scootermum · 15/05/2007 16:35

Well just got back from toddlers/midwife..still not feeling good, to the point where on entry into toddlers group the group leader took one look at me, said I looked a 'funny colour',ushered me into a chair and bought me a cup of tea..she later insisted on walking me to the Dr's to see the midwife, which I felt a bit embarassed about TBH,(I dont think im that close to giving birth!)but was very sweet of her all the same..then saw my friend after and she said the group leader had included me and my imminent labour into the closing prayer at the end of the group..(its a toddler group run by a church so you have to say a little prayer at the end)..so at least I know Ive prayers on my side

Midwife said baby fully engaged so am 'probably' in labour, but it could be weeks like this...or on the other hand a few hours..do feel a bit rubbish though and the pains are already no picnic and are bringing back all the nice memories of what labour like with DD..DH on the Eurostar now I think, as he finished his meeting a bit early so thats a relief anyway..

DD very clingy this aft-think she knows somethings awry...

So thats me..

Oh bugger forgot to get the last bits of my hosp bag whilst was out, tam youv'e just reminded me..oh well, best hope it can wait till tomorrow..

Did I mention about that viewing on the house last night that I hadnt been told about by the estate agent?Man came round about 7.30, said he's been sent by the estate agents, I was in my PJ's and house looked like a bomb'd hit it..Anyway I showed him round all fine..have just called the estate agent and asked for some feedback..They didnt send anyone yesterday!So have managed to let some random bloke into the house, where only DD and I were...and probably allowed him to case the joint for when we are out...duh!

cinnamontam · 15/05/2007 16:45

MrsJB - what a bitch! I would have been hopping as well. So frustrating for you

Scoot - sounds like you need to rest up. Very glad to hear your DH is on the way home though. I'm putting a fiver on things going into overdrive the minute he walks in the door Take care