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Due in April 2007 - The one that starts with Dippy wondering whether she is actually in labour ..... and Emmymummy wishing she was!

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EllieKthePA · 28/04/2007 22:23

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Emmymummy · 02/05/2007 09:44

You sound like you're nesting GK. Take it easy! I can't be arsed to do anything really, should be out in the garden, but whilst the brain is telling me I should, my body very quickly tells me I shouldn't (like I need an excuse to sit on my bum).

Didn't see that news report - poor woman. Was it on the BBC? (scoots off to look at News24).

glitterkitty · 02/05/2007 09:56

I have been really lazy generally- but its really making time drag. So I thought I should make an effort- will probably last till lunchtime and then I'll need to nap

It has been on the bbc all morning- its a panorama programme thats going to be shown tommorow night- about lack of midwives in UK. Not sure if I'm going to watch or not- sounds quite worrying...

EllieKthePA · 02/05/2007 10:27

morning all x

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Bramshott · 02/05/2007 10:42

Just popping in to wave labour flags!! Hoping that today's the day (or at the very least tomorrow's the day) for you guys.

xxx

elkiedee · 02/05/2007 10:42

I'm glad that programme is on while I will be in hospital, maybe even having given birth. Sigh. I'm going in for 7 pm tonight and I'm petrified still, I woke up at 5 am this morning in a panic. At home I can put the light on/open the curtains in the morning and read when I can't sleep, and get out icepops when the acid gets too bad, and Mike's there. I'm frightened of being expected to sleep alone in a ward of other people I have to worry about disturbing. While at least the induction process will hopefully mean I get my baby and to stop being pregnant, I'm worrying about whether he's okay, whether it will work, whether it will be possible to stay a little bit mobile - I don't think I can handle bein strapped into lying on my back, how long it will take....

I also realised that I've got so used to the routines of listening to baby's heartbeat etc and recently, the checking from feeling my tummy outside where he is, that I didn't notice that stage being missed out on Monday, it went straight on to the internal exam and booking me in - I wish at least I'd had that reassurance.

Still, Mikey's coming home at lunchtime, he really didn't want to go to work at all but I thought it might make it easier for him to spend more time with me later. I'm very lucky in this sense, his employment with the council is as a residential social worker which wouldn't be at all flexible (shifts, the need for there to be care for residents at all times), but he is currently full time as a union representative - stressful and he sometimes has to bring work home, be contacted at odd times, but it does give him so much scope to organise his own time compared to the real job....

Labour vibes to emmymummy, glitterkitty and anyone still waiting. I'm still hoping that something will start before the induction, and then at least I can go into a birth room and have Mike stay around.

Emmymummy · 02/05/2007 11:30

Elkie, I hope things kick off for you before the induction actually starts . I'm sure you'll be fine in hosp tonight - you could draw your curtains around your bed and read by torch-light if you need to (like a naughty schoolgirl ). Take some Gaviscon in with you for the acid as you won't have your normal supply of ice-pops. I just keep a bottle of the stuff next to the bed and swig it at leisure.

Have just seen my MW and I'm booked in for induction on Monday. She said the first thing they'll try is to break your waters and then make you walk around for a couple of hours to see if that gets anything moving. After that they start the drugs, so you never know, that might just work....I have to say I too am dreading it as the whole intervention thing scares the sh*t out of me.

bumble75 · 02/05/2007 11:39

Morning Ladies,

Just managed to get myself out of bed after lazy breakfast, reading and napping in bed. Very sunny here today which is lovely.

Seeing the m/w this afternoon for normal check-up and to talk more about what happens next if nothing happens in the meantime. Am still only 3 days overdue so content (ie still bloody impatient!) to wait for a little bit longer before anything else happens.

Elkie, am thinking of you and sending you lots of hugs and good vibes. If it's any comfort I have a coupls of pals who were induced and it went like a dream for them.

Thinking of everyone waiting and sending hugs to all.

xxx

geordiemacminx · 02/05/2007 11:51

Hey ladies.

Sorry I have ben quiet the last week, just trying to keep busy and not dwell on things too much!!!

I had a sweep on Monday, bloody painful (I'm gonna be great in labour), she said cervix was still closed, and although she managed a little sweep she didntknow how sucessful it would be? Had a bit of a show yesterday, and reasonable contractions last night that stopped just before midnight.

Woke up this morning thinking we were back to where we had started from, but then had to rush to the toilet - hurrendous diaohrea, sickness and then what I presume was a proper "show" as it was half the size of my palm - - sorry far TMI!!!

Anyways hopefully that will be things kicking off soon, although I'm not in pain at the moment....

If there is anyone here that can tell me that it wont be long then I would be most grateful!!!

Hope everything progresses for the rest of you too, and that we can all have our babies by the weekend

xxx

nuttygirl · 02/05/2007 11:54

Just popping in to send to you all!

Elkie - good luck for tonight.

maveta · 02/05/2007 11:54

Morning girls! Just popping in quickly to say hi, I´ve not forgotten about you! Hope that everything goes all right and that the fear of induction in the end is just that and comes to nothing more. Personally the way my labour panned out is as far from what I would have liked as possible. Well, just about, at least they didn´t whap the forceps out so I feel I clawed back a point there . But in the end it was fine, it really was. And Elkiedee it really is so true that the second they pull your baby out it doesn´t matter what you´ve gone through to get him/her there. TBH well before that, even when I was getting drips and epidurals and continuous monitoring etc etc it just didn´t occur to me to fight it or feel upset it wasn´t going to plan.. this is just what it was going to take to get my baby out and that was that.

Number 1 thing on my list was not wanting to be strapped to the bed by monitors but you know, it was the ONLY place I wanted to be in the end and it didn´t even occur to me to try and get up.

Anyway, I just wanted to let you know that I know how you feel but try not to think about the worst case scenario and think how little time left there really is until you meet your gorgeous baby.

Will check on you all later, got to go xxxxx

bumble75 · 02/05/2007 12:00

Hi GMM!

All sounds very promising for you to have a baby by the weekend - how exciting .

Was Monday your due date? Am very if it was and you had a sweep already... I have to wait until this weekend at the earliest I think... maybe will mention to m/w this afternoon and look forlorn & fed up in the hope she will take pity on me and do one today...

Have a fab day everyone, I need to get out of my pjs and into this lovely sunshine...

xxx

Emmymummy · 02/05/2007 12:02

Hi Maveta & Nutty, good to hear from you.

GMM - I was wondering where you were. Sounds like things are progressing for you honey, so shouldn't be too long. I agree, sweeps are horrid and undignified and uncomfortable to say the least. But you will cope with labour just fine as it is completely different (and anyway, you can get lots of drugs if it gets too much!).

eca · 02/05/2007 12:07

morning lovely ladies

fingers, in fact everything (except legs ), crossed for you today

EM - really hope the sweep starts something off for you.

GK - sorry to hear everything evaporated for you last night. xx Saw that program advertised. Thought i might watch it. Wouldn't be so keen to see it if i hadn't popped IYSWIM. I'm sure there will be some discussions on MN about it. Might just read that instead.

elkie - aw hon. stay strong. It will all be over soon and you'll be home and tucked up in your own bed with your gorgeous lo. Will be thinking of you tonight xx but hope that stuff starts for you before xx

hi bumble too!

geordiemacminx · 02/05/2007 12:08

thanks girls... yeah monday was my due date, but I think she took pity on my beng the size of a whale... some horrible pikey chavvy little bitch in the waiting room had already asked me if it was twins..... cheeky cow.

elkiedee · 02/05/2007 12:09

Anyone who needs an amusing distraction, take a look at Erk that thread title is giving me the heebs (re June!) Really! I can identify totally with the thread title.

eca · 02/05/2007 12:10

x posted there

hi gmm - sweep sounds horrible for you (prob because you weren't v far along ??)

hi maveta - hope baby noah is doing ok!

hi nutty!

nuttygirl · 02/05/2007 12:15

GMM - have replied to you on P/N!!! Sorry sweep was v uncomfy, think Eca's right about it being cos it wasn't quite ready...mine was fine but mw did say it the most ready one she'd seen

heidle · 02/05/2007 12:23

hey GMM, sounds like things could be starting up for you - you lucky thing!
and a sweep too - I wish! not until friday for me - if it's possible (fingers crossed)
still no twinges, no BH, no show - nothing!! ARGHH have just seen a notice up saying there's an open day the my local maternity unit on satuday - wouldn't it be lovely if the whole town could hear me in labour!

nuttygirl · 02/05/2007 12:30

heidle - I'm still wondering if the whole city heard me in labour (despite it being the early hours of the morning!!!)

bumble75 · 02/05/2007 12:35

HATE the twins comment... what a cow!

Morning to all the Mummies, hope you're all well and enjoying your gorgeous babies!

xxx

Eddas · 02/05/2007 13:15

Afternoon everyone

Elkie, I know exactly how you feel. After being induced with dd i then faced it again this time only to be sent away. I spent the evening before going in petrified at all the prodding and poking and then to be turned away was awful. But i just want to reassure you that it is fine, it's not the nicest of things but it will be fine. It's very hard but try not to worry. With dd I went in at 7pm, the first lot of pessary/gel stuff didn't have any affect. I'm sure you don't want to hear that but be prepare for nothing to happen straight away and you'll be pleased if it does. The lady in the bed next to me started off straight away after having her's. Also you will be able to curtain yourself off from everyone. Not the noises but at least the sight!! And there is a lamp next to your bed so you'll be able to turn that on/off when you need to. You will be perfectly mobile too. Infact i was sent off for walks to try and get things going. You will have to be monitored just before and just after having the pessary/gels so they can monitor the baby but that is about 20mins each timeIIRC.

Erm sure i've missed some stuff but if you have any questions please ask. Not that i'm an expert but i have been through it so will try to help

Katy44 · 02/05/2007 14:27

Hi everyone,

Labour vibes to everyone who wants them and is getting fed up
GMM - looking hopeful I had been wondering where you were!
Right, off to look at that other thread, can they still call me hormonal or might I actually be taken seriously?

mammyjo · 02/05/2007 16:33

Hello everyone. Just popping in to say hi. Hope you are all doing ok and that things happen for you all really soon. Sending lots of labour vibes your way.

GMM, lol at pikey chavvy bitch! Cheeky cow, its called being pregnant at full term. Did post on the other thread about your show question earlier too. Hope things progress soon for you.

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muminasaggytummy · 02/05/2007 18:49

Hi there ladies!

I guess you must all be pretty cheesed off by now. I really feel for you - it's crap being overdue.

Just wanted to let you know I was thinking of you and sending lots of labour vibes your way. GMM - your show does indeed sound like the show I had before James and it was a couple of days after that that things kicked off for me (this was also after a sweep - I had the sweep on the Thursday and went into labour on the Saturday night)

I don't mean this to sound patronising but try and rest if you can...I wish I had really rested more before I had Robyn...

Big Hugs
x