June 2018 Babies

[ladydolly]

Looks like I'm the first one here! A thread for those with babies due in June 2018.

@Si1ver

They're so matter of fact about it, aren't they? I found the care so cold when I had difficulties last year

I'll keep my fingers crossed for you...

@shortcake76

I'm totally on knicker watch. Absolutely never happy either - feeling poorly or paranoid that I'm not feeling poorly

I do hate to will away time but if I could just fast forward to the 20 week mark when you're feeling movements but not too massive etc, I'd be happy.

@Si1ver - fingers-crossed for you too.

20 weeks sounds about good too!

Trigger Warning
Hi ladies. I was trying to hold off from posting in here for a while, but only my partner knows so far and im going to need some support. I found out im pregnant again, around 5/6weeks i think. Really, really anxious about it. I was part of the due in october 2017 group on here but unfortunately we had horrific news at the 20week scan, and our little one was born sleeping on 16th june when i was 21weeks 6 days pregnant. OH says its too soon after our loss to be expecting again, and said hes not getting his hopes up. Me, im trying to stay positive for this little one and our 3 other children, which is easier said than done. Off to the doctors tomorrow and hopefully the midwife will see me quickly, was told that id be looked after with early scans, consultant etc, but we shall see x

@Si1ver I have my fingers and toes crossed for you. I'm sure his is horrendously stressful and trying to relax is no doubt impossible, but do try not to panic too much. There's nothing you can do to influence things so all you can do is try to be positive, and look after yourself. Sending you lots of positivity and big hugs.

@xxmissbrightsidexx congratulations on your positive! I'm so sorry to hear you lost your baby, I can't imagine the trauma and heartbreak you went through to lose so late. But this is a new pregnancy and no reason to think it won't be perfect. Wishing you - and everyone here - a happy and healthy pregnancy.

Hi Miss bright and many congratulations! I’m
So sorry to hear what you went through, you poor thing. I can relate to your worries a little as I had a bad 12 week scan and delivered at 14 weeks, baby had genetic disorder. That was summer this year and this too is my first attempt after miscarriage.

Si1ver Doctors make me so your just another person to them and not an expectant mother who is connected to this baby no matter how tiny. Hope all ends up well on the 19th for you.

Missbrightside that's awful and so sad - so cruel at that stage in your pregnancy, but I hope your keeping well and this. Any holds on for you. I miscarried in July and am 7 weeks(I think) .. the MW I saw yesterday said she's not "officially" allowed to tell me but stats for successful pregnancies directly after pregnancy losses are really high stats. So I hope that's the case for us both xxx

I know youre right lampert and i keep trying to tell myself the same thing too. Part of me is too scared to get attached. Just trying to take care of myself best as i can, its all out of my control and whatever will be will be x
weasledee & LJFM2B thankyou for your words and im sorry for your losses too, fingers crossed for us all for healthy pregnancies x

Well I think it's safe to say the tiredness and grumpiness have kicked in.
Was severely tempted to throw DH's dinner in the bin cause he didn't come out straight away.
Welcome to the new ones, fingers crossed for healthy, uneventful pregnancies for us all.

HolyShmoly Haha I think that would have annoyed me at the moment as well! ... I'm so easily intrastated although I'm very aware of it and then sometimes have o laugh after a little strop Iv thrown and say sorry.

Works the hardest as I know people are getting under my skin but they don't know why I'm reacting to little things they say/do - usually I'm quite laid back and quiet in the office.

Annnnyway. In the "pack" I got from the midwife came a few mum to be magazines - Iv read them all front to back haha I feel like there's nothing I don't know. I'm just waiting for scan now. Under 5 weeks to go 🙈

Feeling sorry for myself today. Everything tastes bad and I feel sick all the time.

Hi how's everyone feeling today? I'm feeling a bit more positive today, though still worrying at every twinge. Wish I could sleep through next few weeks until in slightly safer territory...

Rockinrobin Knicker watch! Yes that's exactly what I'm on too.

Missbrightside so sorry to hear what you've been through. Heartbreaking. You must be so anxious. There's every reason this pregnancy will go smoothly as others have said but I know that won't help at the moment xx

Iv eaten 7 spoon full of Nutella before 11am!

You can't blame pregnancy for that, I've been doing that for years, I'm scared to buy the stuff! x

My nausea has kicked in now. Bought the sea band and will start using it.
Impatient haha 😀 That sounds like my kind of heaven. As much as pregnancy steers me towards savoury food I'm still a pig 😀

Sorry meant LJFM2B regards to Nutella comment 😀

Impatientmummy36 I know I can't blame it on the pregnancy but I can mentally tell myself my jeans are tight because of the pregnancy not the Nutella right? Haha. I'm going to try not and make a habit of it.

Mumof3cheeky I can forget about the jar I have in my cupboard but my manager just brought it in and said his going on a Strict diet and emptied his cupboard and knows I love chocolate so it's now on my desk. It was brand new unopened - not anymore.

Consciously going to eat lots of veg this evening to counteract haha

Hi girls, I’m 5+4 today and got sore boobs, back and feeling tired but not too bad. Just waiting for the nausea to kick in! Constantly on knicker watch which is horrible. I started spotting with DS at about 6 weeks so I’m getting nervous!

Managed to convince DH that we should have an early scan at about 8 weeks all being well, although he feels it’s a waste of money. I think there is one near me that does it for £39 from 8 weeks is this a good price?

Urgh I’ve feeling a bit negative today, I’m normally signed off by now with HG and I have very little sickness! This is so not like my previous pregnancies..... worried it’s not working out

Hi @Emz01 I think that's good. We just booked one for £45 and I can't see something that puts your mind at ease a little as being a waste of money. I am 5+5 today and sick as a parrot.

weasledee I don't feel as bad as I didn't with previous pregnancies but I put it down to having 5 mornings to myself as ds3 is at nursery rather than running around after 1-2 toddlers.
Could this be the same for you?
Have you got an early scan?
Mine is this time next week and can not wait to find out if things are ok

Scan booked for a week on Monday, should be 8 weeks by then....
No I’m still working and feel fine, so thinking this can’t be good! Got husband to buy a clearblue digital for tomorrow morning, anything less than a 3+ will stress me out

I am definitely getting worse. It's been getting gradually better through the day (so mornings I feel awful but by lunch I'm ok mostly) but yesterday and today it's not passing by lunch and today it was the nausea rather than pregsomnia that woke me at 4am. Urgh. I don't know what I expected but this is exactly how it was with DD and weeks 8-10 were dreadful and I used to cry cos I felt to crummy. I really need to get through next weeks conference before I fall apart!

Sympathy to all feeling rough :(

@weasledee I also feel totally fine so I understand how disconcerting it is. But it doesn’t really mean anything. My SIL on 4th pregnancy. The two healthy pregnancies she was not too sick, the one where she had a MMC at 12 weeks she was really really sick. Every pregnancy is different and it just depends! I know that’s easy to say though.