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Anyone else just got their BFP?

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Iamchanging · 18/05/2017 06:49

Hi all,
So I can hardly believe it but this morning I got my bfp. I'm very early at 14dpo and it's still quite faint so I don't feel ready just yet to go onto one of the due date boards. Just wondering if anyone else is in my position?

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starsshinebright · 20/05/2017 06:44

I got mine today at 9dpo. 7th pregnancy with 6 previous miscarriages so very on edge!

Iamchanging · 20/05/2017 08:40

Congratulations stars! That's very early - I got a bfn at 10dpo, it didn't show positive until 14dpo for me. I'm so sorry to hear about your previous losses, did they find any reasons? Im feeling very nervous as well as we have been trying for a long time now and needed fertility drugs in the end. Hope your line gets stronger and stronger!

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Happyasupsydaisy · 20/05/2017 16:44

Could I join please ladies? I'm so sorry to hear about the previous miscarriages. Fingers and toes crossed for a sticky bean. Im 14dpo I think....this is a very unexpected bean. But a very welcome one. How are you ladies feeling?

WeasleyWoman · 22/05/2017 21:47

Can I join too please ladies? I got my bfp 11days after my period! So all.a bit confusing but I've done a million tests (including a digital this weekend which said I was only 1-2weeks) so feeling v happy if slightly confused about what my body is up to. It will be dc3. Sending positives to you starshine and everyone else

Iamchanging · 22/05/2017 22:36

Hi ladies,
Congratulations to everyone! I'm having quite bad cramps on and off but no blood. My line is getting stronger all the time though (POAS addict!) and boobs are sore!
How is everyone else feeling?

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Iamchanging · 22/05/2017 22:37

Have your previous pregnancies taken a while to show up Weasley? Maybe you just ovulated later?

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WeasleyWoman · 23/05/2017 07:41

My first I still got bfn at 10 days late and got bfp at 13days. Second was a surprise so tested late. I started bleeding in the night though and seems quite heavy so maybe this little bean wasn't meant to stick. Feeling v sad, sitting at work trying to focus.

Iamchanging · 23/05/2017 08:04

I'm so sorry Weasley - I've got everything crossed for you x

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WeasleyWoman · 23/05/2017 13:06

Thanks Iam I have everything crossed too! It is possible that I got pregnant last cycle as despite what I thought was my period I tested bfp so early so that gives me hope that this is the same thing but then again I never bled when pregnant before so it cant be a good sign. So frustrating not knowing. Will keep everything crossed and test again on Friday. Although not sure if that will be too soon.

Kittykat89 · 23/05/2017 17:55

Yay bfp buddies! Weasley I really hope all turns out to be okay. Iamchanging bang on exactly the same symptoms as me but I'm a week ahead of you. Cramps have started to ease over that last week and sickness is starting to creep in! Hope it stays as queasiness and not vomming at work so I can keep it a secret for now! Has anyone booked in for an early 8 or 9 week scan?

Iamchanging · 23/05/2017 18:15

I'm lucky that because I was under fertility treatment I get extra scans. So I get one on Thursday and one at 7 weeks. If it wasn't for that I would 100% be booking one in around the 7 to 8 week mark to hopefully see a heartbeat.

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RedPanda25 · 23/05/2017 20:27

Found it, thanks @Iamchanging!

How are you doing @WeasleyWoman?! Have my fingers crossed for you!

I've been having morning sickness for about 10 days now but only tested positive yesterday (4 bfns last week!) so even though I had an inkling it was stick a shock!

How is everyone else feeling?

Iamchanging · 23/05/2017 20:35

I've still just got cramping, but got my bloods back today and the HGC has more than doubled in 44 hours so I'm thrilled. I was worried as with work I couldn't do the proper 48 hours. I'm almost looking forward to morning sickness as it might make it a bit more real!!

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RedPanda25 · 23/05/2017 20:41

What a relief for you @Iamchanging!! Did the doctor take bloods because of your cramps? I do like the reassurance but the sickness is just the pits. Although maybe I'll lose some weight before I put it on this way 😂

Iamchanging · 23/05/2017 20:49

Hi Red,
Yes they did, to rule out an ectopic apparently as I was in such pain I ended up throwing up and being put on a drip. Really scary. Apparently due to how my levels have gone up it is unlikely but they will double check on Thursday. Don't know how they're going to see anything at this stage though!!
Does your sickness last all day?

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WeasleyWoman · 23/05/2017 20:50

I'm holding it together, thank you. I seem to have stopped bleeding, fingers crossed! Am going to take a days rest tomorrow, clean the house, read some trashy novel and see if I need to ring the gp!
Congratulations redpanda is it your first?

Iamchanging · 23/05/2017 21:00

I'm sure I read somewhere that 40% of women bleed during pregnancy Weasley so highly likely it could still all be fine!

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RedPanda25 · 23/05/2017 21:06

Oh that's so scary @Iamchanging! I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you! Good luck for Thursday!! No luckily I'm just since once a day, tends to be after a meal. Not too bad.

Oh I'm pleased you've stopped bleeding @WeasleyWoman fingers crossed it's stopped for good. This is my second ☺️ I have a ds who is 17 months so will be around 2 when the new baby arrives, scary!

WeasleyWoman · 23/05/2017 21:07

Thank you Unchanging I read that too. Just soooo annoying not to know straight away.

Goodg · 23/05/2017 21:14

Got this about a week ago, unfortunately the man I thought was my 'D'P has been pushing for a termination. So I've held off posting. But I'm with you ladies!! Going from my LMP I reckon I'm currently 5w5d, and suffering from the most atrocious morning all daysickness!

Nice to meet you all
Flowers

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Iamchanging · 23/05/2017 21:26

Congratulations goodg!! I'm so sorry that your partner isn't being supportive. Do you think it might just be panic? Do you have any other children?

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Goodg · 23/05/2017 21:43

Hey! Thanks!
No other children just us two at the mo. I think he will come round, he's said he's going to support us! It's just I feel like he's putting a bit of pressure on me to get an abortion 😞

WeasleyWoman · 24/05/2017 08:37

Sorry to hear that Goodg sometimes the initial shock can make people say or do stupid things, fingers crossed that's what this is.
redpanda I have the same age gap between my first and second, its nice. It means the eldest can't remember a time before he had a sister! And they are starting to be a little team.

WeasleyWoman · 24/05/2017 11:17

Been to GP and had a blood test then will have another on friday. Hopefully the hcg levels will go up and they will be able to day the bleed was not a loss. Feels positive although its still lots of waiting!

Iamchanging · 24/05/2017 20:02

Well after my horrendous Sunday in hospital I have to have a scan to check it's not ectopic. Petrified and excited at the same time. I hope that your tests go well Weasley, will keep everything crossed for you.

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