Sorry, @RasperryInAMelon post came up first and I replied before catching up on everything of today.
Firstly, congratulations @WishIWasSleeping ... hope day 1 has gone ok for you 😊 💙
@teainbed 😩😩 that's not what I wanted to hear. I needed paracetamol after Turnip. They were awful. But at least I am aware now 👍🏼😊 I have also heard the same about birthing at home, in secretly hoping for my labour to begin at 8pm, baby out by midnight. Midwives gone by 1am. 6 hours sleep and bean & Turnip asleep the whole time. Wishful thinking but that's my dream haha.
Love the boring stat of the day 😍 Turnip never grew out of doing a poo in a fresh clean nappy ... was so irritating however, she potty trained herself at 13months. Refused a nappy and went to the toilet, she really hated being dirty from the beginning. Unlike bean .... he would lie in it all day if you allowed him to.
@FoxMulder we would just leave the car at home, and find somebody to give DH a lift back home to pick car up once everything calmed down. Especially if I was transferring during labour, as he really wouldn't want to miss the birth.
@Rustler74 thank you 😊 I have completely different relationships with both bean & Turnip and both as lovely as the other. Bean is a mummy's boy, he enjoys spending his time with me and is really loving. He's always loved cuddles and watching films on the sofa and stuff. As turnip is more for daddy, isn't as cuddly and is really really independent. But she loves girly stuff and for that she wants me. And has recently started asking for girl days 😍
As for the after pains, Not a single person warned me about them. With bean I was bf and each time he fed my tummy hurt like period pain, not as bad as labour but similar feeling. I thought I was doing it all wrong. I didn't need pain relief though. However it's normal. With turnip the pains were more painful than beans I needed paracetamol 😪
As for prams, we're taking our egg to Spain in August, we have travel insurance so if it gets damages I will claim on that. I wouldn't want him to be facing away from me so young so don't like the idea of an umbrella buggy when he will be 3months ish.
@EsmesBees hope your DH had a good run and that you had an ok day too 😊
@1004Rise that is very random, intrusive and rude. I would have ignored them too! 😡
Last Monday get up for me tomorrow until march next year, this makes me incredibly happy! I'm done with work and making an effort 😩🙈👊🏼