Biscuits, official scans & the end of the trimester - Later November due dates this way...

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Thread #2, because apparently our "quiet" thread is rather busy!

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I'm so sorry @NoCatsHere xx

So sorry @NoCatsHere

@foggymist got it x

@NoCatsHere, I'm so sorry to hear that.

Thinking of you @NoCatsHere 💐

I'm so sorry Cats, take care of yourself. Hope you have others to take care of you too xxx

So sorry Cats. I've had a mmc previously & it's so hard to take in & process. Hope you've got someone taking good care of you

I'm so sorry nocats. Be kind to yourself 💗 Xx

Thankyou so much everyone. It's so hard my body looks pregnant, I feel pregnant. I feel really let down by my body. I was so hopeful for this pregnancy falling straight after my last mc. I just don't know what to do with myself, I willing my body to deal with it. I'm not sure I can bear waiting weeks for it to just happen naturally....

Yes I totally get what you mean, there is something cathartic about it happening naturally, but at the same time it's awful being stuck in limbo. It probably isn't consolation but the same happened to me, I accidentally fell straight after my last miscarriage, so I understand completely that crushing feeling. If you need to talk, please just PM me, even if it is just to vent. I found a lot of people in real life very difficult to talk to and relate to about this and found main solace through forums and the kindness of strangers. Take care and above all give yourself time to grieve. It's an awful thing for anyone to go through and there's no right or wrong way to feel xx

Sorry I meant to say I fell straight after my first miscarriage and miscarried again xx

I am so so sorry nocats. I hope you are being well looked after and have lots of support. Xxx

nocats I'm so sorry :(

You shouldn't have to wait for it to happen naturally, in November I was in same position as you tho didn't find out till later and they gave me 3 options, 1 wait naturally 2 medical MC or 3 D&C, I went for the D&C and they done it a few days later but took me ages to get my head round what happened, male sure you have plenty people round you to take care of you!

So sorry NoCats

Sending you all my love NoCats.

Thankyou all. Honestly kind words from strangers really does help an awful lot. And I really wish all of you the best of luck for healthy pregnancies. To those of you going through your first pregnancy children really are the best. An absolute nightmare of course at times but bloody brilliant too, hence why I was getting greedy wanting a third.

Tea and duck I might DM you both if ok, I'd like advice but don't want to clog up this feed with negative stuff xx

Sorry cats. Wish things were otherwise for you and the other ladies who have lost x

NoCatsHere I'm so sorry for your loss. Nothing I can say will take away the pain. I've been there myself and I really feel for you. Sending lots of love xxx

@NoCatsHere

@NoCatsHere I am so sorry to hear your news, like many of us here, I have been in your situation recently and know how gut wrenchingly, heart breakingly emotional it is, no words can describe. Sending you big love too Xxxx

Yes of course notcats message away x

I had a bit of a worry this morning as when I wiped there was pink!

I have had spotting at 4 weeks, 7 weeks and now 10 weeks (I have a 21 day cycle normally with my usual af). When I had an early scan there was a haemorrhage site which looked like IB and was still a little white on the scan.

I have spent the last 10 minutes listening to my baby's heartbeat on my Doppler and it is really strong and very easy to find.

I am 10 weeks today so debating whether to book a private scan as I feel the worry will never end.

Of course nocats

That must be tough DuRezidal but if you can find HB easily and it's strong then I'd hold off till 12 week scan but if you'll just worry and have the money to spare then go for it!

@durezidal, I've wondered about booking a scan between now and the dating scan but I figure I'd still worry every day anyway so it's probably not worth it. I'm only going to feel reassured immediately after a scan but I'd be back to worrying by the next morning!

Had my booking in appt yesterday, felt awful as I had a migraine and my blood pressure was a bit high. Midwife thinks that was probably just because I was ill, but had referred me for further checks anyway. She instructed me to take some paracetamol and get some sleep. Feel much better today.

How is everyone today? to those dealing with difficult or uncertain news at the moment.