Ellie have you spoken to citizens advice or the consumer credit counselling service are very good, had to get them to sort out all dps debt. What they did for us was go through a budget of income and expenditure then look at who you owe and work out how much you can afford to pay and thats all you pay, if they dont like it they take you to court who will just ask you to do exactly the same thing anyway, you just pay what you can. And most companys would rather just take reduced payments that they know they will get than pay court fees to try and chase you for money you just haven't got. Does that make sense, think ive gone on one abit there! But would have thought a local council would be prepared to be pretty reasonable. Doesn't stop it stressing you out though i know. And im with you on the spd thing, i did mention it to mw and dr but when they told me it was nothing i just thought ok best get on with it then, didnt want to seem like i was making a fuss.
And if you wanna talk bout crappy men cocking you about whilst pg then im here if you wanna email me or talk on here or whatever. Had horrid time last pg and after having ds actually fell into abit of a hole for quite a while.
Have ideal on the telly but not really watching, someone just asked johnny vegas if he wants to hold their new baby, he said no shouldnt be passing her around, she's not a spliff! Made me giggle!