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Stickaforkinimdone · 19/01/2017 20:15

Am I the first one here?! Positive pregnancy test yesterday
Baby number 2 ETA 1st october
Do come and join me!

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DrMum83 · 16/02/2017 16:34

Yeh, I agree, without cramping it's likely nothing serious. Oh god, still worrying and stressful. I'd go to bed as early as you can tonight to make it come quicker! Is this your first pregnancy?

mummabubs · 16/02/2017 16:50

It is.... can you tell? Grin I've tried not to fulfil the over anxious first time mum stereotype and have to say until an hour ago I felt I was doing rather well! If the bleeding would stop that would be grand, maybe I just need to have stern words with my uterus! X

abcdemma · 16/02/2017 16:57

Tummy is really quite sore tonight and it was last night too. Keep expecting to see blood when I go to the loo. Gotta stay on my feet for 6-7 hours at work so I can't see it easing off either Sad
Hope everyone else is feeling OK x

TinySalmon · 16/02/2017 17:41

Updated list! Getting really long!!

Let me know if I've missed you, misspelt your username, or your EDD has been updated x

Puttingourhoodupdown – EDD 23rd September. Team yellow
Piraterach – EDD 27th September. Team yellow
NotMyPenguin – EDD 27th September. Team yellow
mandScookiesrule – EDD 29th September. Team yellow
jeneral – EDD 29TH September. Team yellow
Presh88 - EDD 30th September. Team yellow
Mulberry2627 – EDD 30th September. Team yellow
Dinosaurkisses – EDD 30th September. Team yellow
Stickaforkinimdone EDD - 1st October. Team yellow
Emmaluggs – EDD 1st October. Team yellow
MrsMcKeon – EDD 1st October. Team yellow
Hannahjoshaw – EDD 2nd October. Team yellow
Sbs6jb1 – EDD 2nd October. Team yellow
Addtothechaos – EDD 3rd October. Team yellow
Sj3rram – EDD 3rd October. Team yellow
Mummabubs – EDD 3rd October. Team yellow
10storeyloveson – EDD 4th October. Team yellow
Cineraria – EDD 4th October. Team yellow
gimbleInTheWabe – EDD 5th October. Team yellow
NannyOggsKnickers – EDD 5th October. Team yellow
Emberblu – EDD 5th October. Team yellow
Hometownunicorn – EDD 5th October. Team yellow
Bubbles – EDD 6th October. Team yellow
Wapsmahoney – EDD 6th October. Team yellow
Powerpuff – EDD 8th October. Team yellow
Rainingcats – EDD 8th October. Team yellow
BrioLover – EDD 8th October. Team yellow
Tammie49 – EDD 8th October. Team yellow
Conkerchops – EDD 8th October. Team yellow
Krakentoast – EDD 9th October. Team yellow
Rosalyn44 – EDD 9th October. Team yellow
Trytowin – EDD 9th October. Team yellow
CarpeDiem83 – EDD 9th October. Team yellow
Whyarealltheusernamestaken – EDD 9th October. Team yellow
Kirsty8333 – EDD 10th October. Team yellow
HollyMay84 – EDD 10th October. Team yellow
Chintaria – EDD 10th October. Team yellow
DancingUnicorn – EDD 11th October. Team yellow
MerlinsBeard87 – EDD 11th October. Team yellow
EmmaGarrick – EDD 11th October. Team yellow
Cath1212 – EDD 11th October. Team yellow
Greentreeseverywhere – EDD 12th October. Team yellow
Wishmeluck16 – EDD 13th October. Team yellow
Starfish83 – EDD 14th October. Team yellow
Pollybythesea – EDD 14th October. Team yellow
MrsCharlieD – EDD 13th October. Team yellow
Zookeeper73 – EDD 13th October. Team yellow
Babycarmen – EDD 14th October. Team yellow
Asilikeit – EDD 14th October. Team yellow
JackiePaper – EDD 15th October. Team yellow
TippetyTapWriter - EDD 15th October. Team yellow
ALRM – EDD 15th October. Team yellow
Fingerscrossed – EDD 15th October. Team yellow
DaisyFranceLynch – EDD 16th October. Team yellow
TequilaSetAWatchman – EDD 16th October. Team yellow
Doomkittycleo – EDD 16th October. Team yellow
Orifu – EDD 17th October. Team yellow
Walikingdeadfan – EDD 17th October. Team yellow
Yellowstarred – EDD 18th October. Team Yellow
DrunkenFlamingo – EDD 18th October. Team yellow
TinySalmon – EDD 19th October. Team yellow
Lovechild2016 – EDD 19th October. Team yellow
Abcdemma – EDD 19th October. Team yellow
Emjmoore – EDD 19th October. Team yellow
Rachieg88 – EDD 20th October. Team yellow
UndersecretaryofWhimsy – EDD 21st October. Team yellow
SeatOfMyPants – EDD 21st October. Team yellow
Glitterbubble – EDD 22nd October. Team yellow
Charmanar – EDD 22nd October. Team yellow
Mishmishmish – EDD 22nd October. Team yellow
Emwithme – EDD 23rd October. Team yellow
DrMum83 – EDD 23rd October. Team yellow
PlayOnWurtz – EDD 24th October. Team yellow
JanuaryJuniper –EDD 25th October. Team yellow
Shinysparklythings – EDD 28th October. Team yellow
Calmisthemantra – EDD TBC. Team yellow
Miwelaisjacydo – EDD TBC. Team yellow
Donkey86 - EDD TBC. Team yellow
Dinosaursparklepup – EDD TBC. Team yellow
Chlo22 – EDD TBC. Team yellow
Thepotatoesofdefiance – EDD TBC. Team yellow
Han1984 –EDD TBC. Team yellow
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Sapphire1983 – EDD TBC. Team yellow
Peabody81 – EDD TBC. Team yellow
Greentreeseverywhere – EDD TBC. Team yellow
Twinklelittlestar1 – EDD TBC. Team yellow
Rayna – EDD TBC. Team yellow
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Allykatz – EDD TBC. Team yellow
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Iemma321q – EDD TBC. Team yellow
Otter16 – EDD TBC. Team yellow
Reddy4no2 – EDD TBC. Team yellow
Loopyaboutmy2boys – EDD TBC. Team yellow
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Allykatz · 16/02/2017 17:42

I self referred last week and have a scan in 2 weeks. Seems forever away! Have no idea how far I am. But think I last had a monthly at the beg/mid Jan. I knew I should have kept more organised with it haha

sj3rram1 · 16/02/2017 18:50

Ok this might be a long post and I apologise.

Firstly so sorry to all those who have had losses or are worrying. I hope you're all taking good care of yourselves.

. Mummabubs this post might be helpful to you.

I've been fairly quiet on here as not wanting to let myself get too excited. Been spotting/ bleeding daily since I found out I was pregnant at 4 weeks. Had my hcg levels tested on advice of EPU and they were ok. But the EPU wouldn't scan me then as the results were good. Said would only
Scan if they looked like there was a problem.

So over a week later here I am still bleeding daily. Not a lot. But when I wipe. Sometimes nothing. Sometimes red, brown pink you name it. Even with the odd small clot.

Not had many symptoms. Just super tired and weeing a lot. With the odd bit of nausea. So that was a bit worrying too.

But the good news went for my early scan today at what I thought was 7+2. And everything was right on track. Baby measuring perfectly at 7 weeks with a Heartbeat.

So bleeding and spotting is not always bad. The lady said she could see no sign of where the bleed was coming from and could be from still Implanting further. But everything looks great.

I know still no guarantee but with the bleeding it was such a relief to see that everything is progressing as it should be and there is no obvious reason to worry (outside of the norm).

So I am one happy happy right now.

Good luck to all ☺️

mummabubs · 16/02/2017 18:58

Thanks so much for sharing sj3rram1 Smile I'm trying to stay positive until anyone tells me otherwise, although obviously it's still anxiety provoking. As I'm 7+2 I'm hoping they'll give me a scan tomorrow and touch wood be able to put my mind at rest. Is this a vaginal scan for peeps who've had them before at this stage or what the process is like in general? I've already planned to park a way away from the hospital with free parking so I don't have to worry about how long I'm there.

PlayOnWurtz · 16/02/2017 19:05

Yes it will be a vaginal scan. If it's any help my mum had horrendous bleeding for the whole 9 months with one of her pregnancies (she had a coil in situ) and had a healthy baby that's now a 6'5 bloke!! Don't lose hope Flowers

Loopyaboutmy2boys · 16/02/2017 19:12

DrMum83 in the same. Got my BFP a week ago yesterday and have tested daily and they are all labelled lol. I'm keeping testing for my sanity and waiting until the control line is pale pink, also going to use a clearblue digital on Monday and hoping for 3+ with a back up test if I need to try again for a 3+ on Wednesday. I'm going to stop testing once I've had the scan Monday afternoon as long as I get a 3+, as this one has already done better than pretty much all of my 12 mc's so I'm trying to remain hopeful that the drugs I'm on this time are going to work for the next 34 and a bit weeks!

DrMum83 · 16/02/2017 19:46

loopy - omg, I'm so sorry you've had twelve losses. You must be one strong woman! What drugs are you on?
I'm under the recurrent mc clinic and taking cyclogest and folic acid 5mg (plus pregnacare)
Yeh, I'm gonna check for a 3+ on Sunday as got a 2-3 last Sunday, I know ppl say they're unreliable but I've always found them to be an early marker for me in previous losses.
How ru feeling? I'm only 4+3 and wishing for nausea but nothing convincing yet...
how are your frer lines looking? ( I don't wanna get into a frer- off though and cause each other more anxiety !)

DrMum83 · 16/02/2017 19:54

Sorry, just read the 'strong woman' bit back - hope it doesn't sound weird, I just wanted to recognize and acknowledge how difficult you've had it X

mummabubs · 16/02/2017 19:55

Thanks playonwurtz, that's helpful to know. The bleeding's stopped now and still no cramping so I'm really hoping that's a plus xx

DrMum83 · 16/02/2017 20:02

That's good news mummabubs!

iemma321q · 16/02/2017 20:02

Hi Tinysalmon

Please could you put my EDD as 13th October.

Thanks

iemma321q · 16/02/2017 20:05

Mummabubs for me they did a normal scan first and then progressed onto a vaginal scan straight after when they weren't confident they had seen everything they needed to. The vaginal scan was a little uncomfortable but not what I would class as painful.

sj3rram1 · 16/02/2017 20:11

Same with me today abdominal scan then said would get a better view internally. It was fine. I didn't find it painful or uncomfortable. Agree the abdominal one was worse due to the really full bladder than then got pressed on. Thought I was going to wet myself 😳

mummabubs · 16/02/2017 20:19

Haha thanks for sharing ladies! In which case I hope the worst case scenario tomorrow is that I pee myself in front on an unsuspecting nurse! My husband is being much more pragmatic whereas I'm still sitting in optimist camp. I figure if it's the end then at least by being positive now I delay my grief by a few hours, and if it is fine then I won't have worried unnecessarily. It ain't over til it's over Smile xx

Loopyaboutmy2boys · 16/02/2017 21:09

DrMum83 I'm on vit D3, baby aspirin, metformin, levothyroxine, progesterone, fragmin injections, Prednisolone, ranitidine, pregnacare and omega 3. I'm 4+4 today based on the first ovulation, 4+3 on the second. I didn't get morning sickness with my boys (who were completely drug free conceptions/pregnancies) but I always had to drink a glass of milk before I got up in the morning as an empty tummy would make me queasy. The pred I'm on masks symptoms like that apparently but I have plenty of other symptoms - insomnia, mental dreams, really hot, constipation, and uterus area is so swollen already which is ridiculous at this early stage! My FRER's have got to the stage the test line is darker than the control, but there is room for the control to go lighter still. I didn't get my 2-3 until Monday so hoping next Monday might be ok for 3+. I've been part of a great online group with the most amazing ladies and I've had it easy in some respected, mine were all early losses, my latest one was a MMC at 6+4, some had losses at 18-20 weeks and I can't begin to imagine how you cope with that.

Mummabubs I hope tomorrow goes well. The uterus doesn't move above the pelvis this early on so it's rare that you don't need a vaginal scan. The slimmer you are the better your odds though.

Zookeeper73 · 16/02/2017 22:49

Boy there's a lot of us in here now!

Good luck with the scan mummabubs and thanks for the info sj3rram1. I've been spotting daily and cramping for 3 weeks now with a small red bleed a couple of days ago. Haven't been to the doctor yet as I wasn't sure this one would be sticking around, but I guess I should book an appointment to see what's going on.

Chintaria, I hope the week goes quickly for you.

Loopy and Drmum, hope the tests continue to go well for you.

Hi to all the newbies!

powerpuffer · 17/02/2017 02:19

I can't sleep. I'm so frigging hot, I feel like a hot water bottle. Not due to fever, just my internal thermometer seems to have sky rocketed recently.

10storeylovesong · 17/02/2017 05:38

Loopy - I really am wishing you all the luck in the world this time around. That's quite a concoction of meds you're on there - but all worth it when it works!

Mummabubs - you have such a brilliant attitude. Hoping all goes well today.

I've had to get up extra early today for a shower as just standing under the water for 5 mins sends me dizzy and sick to the extent I have to lie heaving next to a toilet for 20 minutes. Not pleasant.

sj3rram1 · 17/02/2017 07:11

Zookeeper it might put your mind at rest a bit 😊

I also couldn't sleep been awake since 1 and gave up at 3.30. I have since then watched 3 episodes of Appletree yard ha. Shame have to go to work now and attempt to function.

Had some toast earlier too which was fine but left a bit. The smell of the cold toast on the plate next to me kept making me gag until I moved it. That's new. 😳

missm0use · 17/02/2017 07:11

Morning all!

Sorry to those who have had a loss or are worrying and waiting for a scan!

Been awake for 20 mins DD (12 months) woke up for a feed and I'm lying next to her desperately trying not to be sick on her head! It was the plan to breastfeed till she was two - now two more minutes feels like an achievement now I'd how I'm going to cope with a newborn and a toddler to breastfeed!

Otter16 · 17/02/2017 07:35

Hi everyone, still here. Sore boobs and waking at 5am like clockwork every day are my main symptoms. Am 4+5

I am so so sorry for the losses since I was last on. Have been there. Be good to yourselves ❤️❤️❤️. Thinking of you xxx

Loopyaboutmy2boys · 17/02/2017 07:56

Missmouse I was still breastfeeding ds1 when I fell pregnant with ds2, I planned to keep feeding him but had to wean him when I was 10 weeks pregnant, as I just found it so uncomfortable to keep feeding, he was 15 months at the time but I still felt guilty about stopping but I just couldn't face doing it, despite having loved it up until then!

Being hot is normal, progesterone raises your temperature and it's a good sign. Insomnia is also normal, although never looked into why! I wake every day around 3.30-4am, thankfully I don't always stay awake from then!