We have the cot, the Bugaboo Donkey has a deposit paid and we'll collect it when we get to Sydney, change bag, books (mostly bought before we conceived though!), a chest of draws and change may topper, and a few items of clothing. Still need to buy the car seat, nappies, wipes and other practical bits like maternity pads etc.
Metro, yes. Some days more than others, but stuff is definitely happening. I spoke to my sister about it to ask if makeup pads in my bra was the best way of dealing and she said she leaked a bit with her boys (although she started later, more like 30 weeks) and she had excellent milk supply and found breastfeeding (comparatively) easy. Apparently after she gave birth the midwife sort of pressed on her breast and all this milk trickled out and the midwife was very impressed and my sister was very proud 
I'm also hoping it's a good sign as I really want to breastfeed mostly because I'm super lazy and bottles are a real faff.