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March 2016 Babies #9 - we're on the final countdown!!

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Paperblank · 26/01/2016 18:44

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maybebabybee · 06/02/2016 17:49

Pug how exciting! Fx for you.

Me624 · 06/02/2016 18:46

It's been a miserable rainy day here. DH and I decided to go for a late Nando's for lunch ... but turned up at 2 to find it would still be a 30 minute wait! I was starving so we ended up with a Subway instead - perfectly fine but what a disappointment when you've been planning a Nando's!

I really wish baby me would hurry up and engage. My breathing is so laboured and it's even worse at night or generally when lying down - I woke up from a nap earlier feeling like I could hardly breathe. He is properly squashing my lungs and it hurts!

TheMshipIsBack · 06/02/2016 19:00

Good luck, pug!

Missikat · 06/02/2016 20:56

Ooh good luck Pug! How exciting! I hope baby can hang on for a bit longer but sounds like your little man may be the next to join Zach. Hope it all goes really well and induction doesn't take too long. Can't wait to hear all about it and see pics (but not too soon!)

Welcome to mat leave to all those of you that are joining me (I've forgotten what work is it's been so long, lol!) I hope you are managing to rest/nest/eat chocolate/cope with your other DC if you have them/cope with your crazy dreams/pregnancy health problems.

We are hoping that in the next week Zach will be home. He had a bit of a setback as they found his eye problem - ROP - had progressed so on Wed he was transferred to another local hospital and on thurs morning had laser surgery. He had to go back on the ventilator and under general anaesthetic and hooked up to all the monitors etc again which was really hard to see after him being free from all tubes and wires for a couple of weeks. Thankfully after over 12 hours he came round from the anaesthetic enough to start breathing on his own and be taken off the ventilator. He has another eye scan this week to check that the treatment had halted the progression of the condition and if it has hopefully he will be discharged! It should have been today if he hadn't had to have it done, I'm
So ready to take him home now.

He is feeding like a trooper now, on demand which is awesome. I've been sleeping in a 'transitional care' room on the unit now for four days and getting up in the night when the nurses call me to say he's woken. Last wed night, before we knew he had to have his eye surgery he spent the first night in with me...it was alternately terrifying and lovely. Neither of us got loads of sleep. He's used to sleeping in a room where the lights are always on and there's always noise so taking him into a dark, quiet bedroom and expecting him to sleep was a bit much! We both got a couple of 2.5 hour stretches from 3am but it was so great to have him next to me to feed (although I did feel like I was 'stealing' my baby when I first wheeled him off down the corridor to my room, a very weird feeling!)

Last night he fed at 9, 11.30, 2am, 5 and 7.30 which isn't too bad but takes so much longer as he's back in the intensive care bit now which is at the far end of the unit from where my room is so by the time the nurses have called me to wake me I've locked up, alcohol jelled my hands, wandered down squinting in the harsh lights, thoroughly washed my hands, changed his nappy, washed hands again, fed him, burped him, got him back down again it's a good hour or so. I was soooooo tired today. It is great to be feeling like a proper mum and wonderful he is feeding so well (although he's been really pukey today which the dr thinks is due to him being really greedy and me having a great milk supply and not any other issue thankfully). Now I just want him home. It's almost 3 months of spending part or all of every day in a hospital and I'm over it! I'm looking forward to sharing all the trials and tribulations of having a newborn with you all when yours all arrive (although technically Zach isn't a newborn anymore as he's 11 weeks old!)

I can't wait to see pics of all your massive babies - my view is totally skewed now after spending so much time with Zach and other tiny tiny babies so when a term baby comes into the unit they all look abnormally big, even the 6/7lb ones! I look at then and think there is no way they should come out so big!

Missikat · 06/02/2016 21:03

Here's Zach a few days ago. He's now about 3lb 10oz.

March 2016 Babies #9 - we're on the final countdown!!
MrsBenWyatt · 06/02/2016 21:37

Missicat, Zach is gorgeous! Fingers tightly crossed you get home very soon.

Nothing to report here. Have pre-op on Monday and will get a date for section then. Scan on Tuesday to check fluid/blood flow, which may then change the date!!!

IndomitabIe · 06/02/2016 21:49

Great news about Zach Missi!

So #2 is between ThePug and MrsBen then?

Rosieblossom123 · 06/02/2016 21:58

Wow this thread moves so fast!! Shock

Missi Zach is gorgeous, I hope you get to take him home soon Flowers

Good luck Pug I wonder who's going to be next! Wink

Maternity starts on the 12th, 1 week left I can't wait. My 36 week mw appointment is on Monday can't believe I've got 4 left. Hopefully little Madame doesn't keep us waiting for long!

Me same here I can't breath most of the time now it's so uncomfortable. I want her to give my lungs a break.

Rosieblossom123 · 06/02/2016 22:00

Oh and I just realised I've got exactly one month day, due date is 6th March. Hurry up baby!!

RhubarbAndMustard · 06/02/2016 22:00

Fantastic update Missi. Zach is beautiful and doing so well.

Good luck Pug and MrsBen. How exciting that next babies could be soon. Hoping everything goes smoothly for you both.

Have just indulged in a takeaway curry tonight. Twas scrummy. Just hoping for a good nights sleep for once. Fingers xd for us all!

sherazade · 06/02/2016 22:10

Missi Zak is wonderful and am totally in awe of you both.. Speechless really !
Good luck pug it's about time we had a friend for Zak here
Mrs Ben can't wait to hear when your date will be, things are cracking on now !

marmiteandcheeseplease · 06/02/2016 23:08

Wow missi great news about Zach maybe coming home soon and love the pic - he looks so cute!

Good luck pug, wow more babies are coming soon! 35+4 here so its getting close but I expect I'll have a way to go yet.

DD slept through last night till 6.50, amazing! Shame I woke up 6.15 desperate for a wee! But felt so much better today for getting some sleep.

Starting to feel I may be heading into nesting mode- keep seeing things I need to clean and stressing about them because I don't have time at the moment to do it. Roll on mat leave which starts in a week! 😁 my co authors on my research arve driving me mad- trying to finish up two research projects before I go on leave and they're both asking me to do more stuff when I am tying to reduce my to do list, not add to it! But come Friday my out of office reply will be on and that's me done 😀😀😀.

Feels like my iron tablets have finally started to kick in after two weeks on them, I definitely feel less fatigued.

Started packing my hospital bag today, feels like I really need to just get it done now... Think I will end up packing two small suitcases worth of stuff- one for during labour an one for afterwards. So exciting how close it is although I have to admit I am dreading labour...

MrsBenWyatt · 06/02/2016 23:25

I definitely think Pug will be before me as long as next scan is ok.

Consultant has mentioned 37,38 and 39 weeks as possibilities, so could be pregnancy for anything between 1 and 3 more weeks after the scan!

IndomitabIe · 07/02/2016 07:11

Morning,

Glad you've had some good sleep marmite, and glad the iron is working.

I think I've worked out my exhausted muscles issue: so I'm spending the night rolling over from one side to the other (requiring great energy itself) what feels like every 10 minutes: I'll sleep till my back & hips hurt, which happens because of a build up of lactic acid in the muscles, and then roll again. So it's no wonder then that from the middle of my back to the middle of my thighs is feeling so stiff and tired during the day - they're recovering from the same type of muscle fatigue that would be caused by massive exertion overnight.

Not sure what I can do to stop the backache/hip cramp happening in the first place though - I might have to try the folded duvet under the sheet thing.

It's still raining here (no surprise), but I've got a ton of house work and school work (and DS's homework) to get done today. So another day staying in for us.

Ohwoolballs · 07/02/2016 07:18

missi Zach is beautiful! I hope he comes home soon! I can't wait for DP to get up and show him the photo. 😊

marmite tell your colleagues where to stuff their extra work! They are obvs panicking at the thought of not having you there 😬 And I'm glad you're feeling loads better 🙂
I'm also thinking of upsizing my hospital hold-all to cabin suitcase - the pack of massive maternity pads takes up a quarter of the room! Also I already have forgotten stuff like travel sized shampoo so will need to add those to the weekly shop.

CSC for me last night, tossed in bed for an hour 1-2 then came down to sleep on the sofa (actually really comfy!) woke up again at ten to six but at least I can hear the birds singing a bit.
My eye bags are going to be bruisers today.

Had a bit of a banana milkshake addiction for the last few days. 🙂 I'm treating it as a reward with the BHs that are wincing enough to make me stop walking! 😖

RhubarbAndMustard · 07/02/2016 08:15

Indom that's exactly what I go through at night too. Constantly turning over to avoid the pain build up in each hip. Now I'm also suffering with indigestion/heartburn I think. I've never had it before but feel so ill and have to prop up on loads of pillows. I'm downstairs now and feel like I've only had snatches of sleep. Zombie day for me again.

Oh and my neighbour said that the amount of times you are up in the night now, will be the same when baby is born. Definite non sleeper for me then!

docmcstuffins1 · 07/02/2016 08:31

Missi great news about Zach coming home soon, and lovely picture, he's gorgeous.

I'm another one in the CSC. Bubba must have moved position again, as gone from 0-1 wee trips in the night to 3-4 Hmm so from 2:30am on the dot am up and down like a yoyo!

Rhubarb I've also started getting heartburn at night - grim isn't it. Finding it hard to keep myself propped up enough without it adding to the hip pain and inability to roll over I now know what a beached whale feels like

Trying to summon the energy to get out of bed and walk the dogs. Going out this afternoon to look at a new (second hand) car this afternoon as DH's car is on its last legs. Have been inspired by all of the car purchases on here!

IndomitabIe · 07/02/2016 08:45

Oh no Rhu. Yesterday was definitely a zombie day for me. I need to be functional today though! when I eventually get out of bed!

This sleeplessness in pregnancy is definitely different (and worse, I think) to when you have a newborn though. At least with a newborn your body works the way you expect it to (well, in terms of range of motion etc). And there's a very obvious reason for the sleeplessness, and frankly that's what maternity leave is for. (Ongoing night waking is a completely different ball game though, sleep deprivation is The Worst).

Good luck with the dog walk doc (glad I've got a cat!) and with the car.

neh205 · 07/02/2016 09:22

Catching up ...

trinpy hope you feel better soon 🌹

marmite my stretch marks are horrendous too! I've been running bio oil on every night aka when I rememberbut it hasn't made a difference at all :p

suz I'm getting the fanny daggers again, mostly when walking

neh205 · 07/02/2016 09:35

ThePug so exciting! A valentines baby will be lovely

shield glad liquid iron is helping

Happy maternity leave to all of you who have started. My last day us 4th march. Still feels forever away and I have so much to do before then. Have been working all weekend too amid running errands.

We got the keys to our house on Friday! Vert exciting! Frantic work has already commenced & oh is being amazing.

Have started washing baby clothes too - they are so tiny!

Trinpy · 07/02/2016 09:58

Lovely picture of Zach Missi, and such great news that he will hopefully be home soon. I cant believe he's 11 weeks already - its gone so fast!

I was in the CSC last night too -also heartburn, but completely my own fault because I had curry for dinner last night. Yummy at the time but I did regret it at 1am when I couldn't sleep! Completely agree with Indom that pregnancy sleep deprivation is worse than newborn sleep deprivation. At least with a baby you can just quickly feed and hand over to dh for nappy change then go straight back to sleep. And if its your first or your older dc is at school/nursery you can sometimes nap during the day without any achey hips or big bumps getting in the way!

I love the crazy pregnancy dreams. I had one just before ds was due that I gave birth to a tiger cub. I was struggling to get the babygro over his tail, thinking 'why me?', when the mw told me that my husband was here to meet the baby - and in walked Tony the Tiger of Kellogs fame Confused. God knows what that one was about!

MyNameIsSuz · 07/02/2016 10:22

I had a really horrible pregnancy dream last night, we lost ds at a market and he'd been taken by some Australians (???!) who were using bits and pieces of him for voodoo. They took his wee eyes! Was the kind of dream where you wake up feeling all icky.

Great news about Zach missi, and lovely photo!

Whoever said about the amount you wake up now being the same amount you wake up with the baby, this was definitely not true for me! Ds woke up all the time, and I'd had great sleep while I was pregnant! Sure it can work the other way round too.

Missikat · 07/02/2016 11:52

Trinpy, your Tony the Tiger dream proper made me lol!

And Mynameis, yours sounds horrific.

Good news today, Zach has gained 50g in last three days which shows the on demand breastfeeding is doing it's job, very happy with that!

TriJo · 07/02/2016 11:58

Great to hear Missikat - he's a little dote :)

34 weeks today... feels like time is flying in! Bought stuff yesterday for my hospital bag and couldn't resist the urge to buy even more cute baby stuff... A "Hello world!" vest and a whale print outfit from H&M :)

1frenchfoodie · 07/02/2016 12:12

Lovely pic missi and great to hear he will be home soon.

rosie we have the same due date of 6 march so 4 weeks to go! Maternity leave doesn't start til 19/2, can't wait - I've been busier than ever plus my manager seems to expect me to clear every little outstanding task even though I have a successor.

Hard to tell if I am nesting or just usual busy sunday but on 3rd load of washing, have scrubbed bathroom top to toe and just put a batch of peanut cookies in the oven.

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