We're multitasking by crocheting and blood testing our way through pregnancy. We are waiting for our clutch of Christmas babies to hatch while our newbies are gearing up for scans, it's JS Grads 42!

[Hobbit19]

Welcome, welcome, welcome to the 41st grads thread... celebrating the success of Just Shagging in getting us viroids upduffed!

For those that don't know, a 'viroid' is from the original JSing thread 1, where someone was trying to type ladies (in reference to all the JSing ladies), but their phone decided to call us all viroids instead!

The name stuck and we've been the JSing viroids ever since.

The 41sr grads thread is HERE

The thread we have graduated from is HERE in its 55th outing. WARNING: they're all a bit kerazy not to mention randy!

There is also a Just Mumming thread HERE
for once your babies come along, or to keep up with the graduated graduates!

There is also a private facebook group (so it doesn't give the game away in your news feed!)... if you want to join to see photos of new babies etc, just ask in-thread!

HERE is the stats list, please update your own spot with any updates. (Except it's not because I don't know how to link to the stats sheet!)

Morning all - back from the docs
I had my WC jab and my arm hurts!
And DS had his flu vaccine which was traumatic for all of 5 seconds until I got a chocolate down him

Hope everyone's ok?

Morning! Realised we left the Christmas tree lights on last night. Massive fail.

Need to sort out my flavoured rum today, must get another bottle to top up with, as fruits absorbed so much. And then need to comb through fruits go take out all the cloves before stirring them in to fudge. No one wants a bit of fudge with whole cloves in it! DH is now off work until Jan so will be nice having him around. Although I dare say he will moan at me to sort out the nursery at some point....

Oh my goodness Honey that sounds amazing!

Had a nap. Dreamt I was in labour. Woke up. Not in labour. GAH.

Gah pud I had one of those dreams! It wasn't good though, it's too soon for me and I'm miles from my (much higher rated) hospital!!

disco exciting that 20 week scan is soon!

5hell I forgot: deodorant, pregnancy pillow and my coat. Hope that helps!

Wow honey that sounds scrummy!

Good luck with the drive North 5hell! My family are all up North so I've done the Christmas drive home many a year ... Very exciting to get there to start Christmas.

pud contractions may just catch you unaware and before you know you are in full blown labour. Night before I had dd, I was in the pub. Woke up at 7 having contractions and had her 11 that night. I had no warning signs at all the day before

thursday chocolate is an amazing distraction!

That's what I'm hoping for Disco, although it is getting a bit too close to Xmas day for my liking!

Pretzel you forgot the preggo pillow?? Nooooo!

Oh dear pretz ...I have got all of those :) but no doubt will discover something missing!!

disco only up north until Xmas eve, then back south for Xmas with my family. Nice to see everyone but a bit tedious doing all the driving.

Jesus FUCKING Christ. Just had shitty txt from fil because he couldn't see DS last weekend even though I'd told him he needed to sort it out with his son as its was his day with him. Can't believe he thought it was ok to have a go at me a) in the first place when NONE of this is my fault and b) the DAY BEFORE I GIVE BIRTH ALONE!

Oh and 'd'h has informed me I'll feel much better after the birth because it'll be so exciting and I'll have the baby to distract me And that the day after he needs to go and get his car sorted so might be limited in visiting the baby in hospital. The day after its born. He didn't leave DS' side the whole week he was in hospital even though I was begging him to go and get some rest. I really hope he gets his shit together before the kids get older and realise how painfully obvious it is he has no bond at all with his second child. He's also then going back to his mums for Christmas Day (three hours) after seeing DS (fine, he can't stay here the whole day) but then staying down there til 29th. So missing basically the whole first week of his baby's life. I'm not even angry about all this anymore just frightened at how utterly disconnected he is from it all. I know it's a cliche but this is absolutely not the man I married. Even his mum can't believe it. Either he's a cunt of the highest degree and an incredibly good actor all these years or he's heading for the most catastrophic breakdown. Not sure which I'd prefer at this stage!

Sorry, huge rant but fucking hell. Not what I needed right now! Raging now but bet it ends up in tears later which I really wanted to avoid!

Molly I can't say much to to that except yoru FiL is a twat and your "D"H is a class A twunt! What the hell is he playing at? You poor thing

Rant here about your FIL, then forward his message to his son, then ignore him. I'd even block him if you have an iPhone. This is something your H has to deal with, let him feel yet another fucking consequence I'm sure he didn't envisage.

Are you on good terms with your MIL?

Rant rant rant, then put it aside. You're meeting your baby TOMORROW!
don't let the bastards raise your BP

Oh and my arm hurts.

And I tried to rest while DH takes DS for a walk and the doorbell keeps going gggrrrrr

Molly he is such a massive cunt. As is his father.

They are rather cunty aren't they?! Yes I've told him to deal with his father and pointed out just how fucking low it was for him tondo this the day before the birth.
Mil has massively stepped up. Relationship was always ok but slightly strained but she's been amazing. Suspect he's going to regret going home to her over Christmas, she's not taking what he's doing lying down!

But YES I'm meeting my baby tomorrow! All being well, touch wood, no further rescheduling etc. How exciting! I have a sore arm too. At my pre op the midwife started taking my blood whilst listening in horror to all that had happened and forgot the cotton wool! She had to get me to hold the needle in place myself whilst she grabbed some. In wobbly with blood tests at best of times so must have jogged it as have massive bruise! Poor lady she was mortified!

Molly –The mahoosive turdmongers. Sod them, sod what they think. They are not worth your thoughts or energy.

Wow! Your baby arrives TOMORROW!! Good luck for it all and maybe 'd'h buggering off out of your way over Christmas is a good thing. It leaves you free to cuddle and bond with your baby without him stirring up other emotions and problems as he comes and gos. It's his bad choice, let him make it I say.

Anyway, tomorrow! The baby is here tomorrow,. Good luck! x

x - post Molly! Here's to the MIL giving him hell while he is home!

Oh I am. Will be surrounded with family and my boy and it's his loss. Just stunned he's made that choice when it's so clear the bond he has with DS. He would have walked through fire for that child and he wanted this one just as much. Amazing how feelings can so easily be switched off by some people.

And thank you! Just keep gingers crossed they don't have to reschedule. Should only need to do that if there's an emergency but you never know!

Jesus Molly, what a pair of idiots. Yey for awesome MILS though, hope she gives him a right rollicking when he gets home and a measly portion of Xmas dinner with no roasties. Or gravy. In fact I hope he just gets a bowl of sprouts that have had the shit boiled out of them to share with FIL.

Can't believe you get to meet baby tomorrow, SO EXCITING and a wonderful Xmas present! So happy for you.

Oh molly what shitbags the pair of them. Men really are tosspots but your H is truly behaving awfully at the moment. I hope you get masses and masses of extra spoiling and support once baby is here and get to enjoy all the snuggles!

So excited for you for tomorrow, your baby will be here! can't wait to see a photo!

Yes Pud! Soggy sprout karma!

I've been meaning to ask, how do I join the Facebook group?

Ask someone who is not me, I am shit at adding people and basically broke Facebook! Keep/Tri I am going to have one more try, sorry for the delay.

DH has been propositioned. Wish us luck. Tomorrow will involve a long walk and a fook off spicy curry for tea. MW foof poke on Wednesday. (I realise that this could well result in a Christmas baby but I hoping sooner than that!)

Molly the twat of your H and FIL are not worth your tears or even anger. Concentrate on your little baby's birthday that will be tomorrow! Hopefully no rescheduling. What time you're going in?

Very tired today. DS woke up 3.40. He went back to sleep but I didn't

If you pm me your email I can add you to fb (I think)

Why are new cars so expensive

I have run away from home Yesterday DP ruined the first chance he had to meet my family after 3 years of me putting up with his horrid DM... I have a really complicated relationship with my family but they mean the world to me. So today I packed up DD and we have gone to stay at a friends lovely empty house while she is on holiday. I can't even think of what comes next I am just counting the hours until DD's dad picks her up for the day tomorrow so I can curl up in bed and cry all day. Family drama is so much harder when you are jacked on homones... DD and I are in PJs eating half of Waitose and taking in every program Cbeebies has to offer. Bedtime can't come soon enough. I am literally drained of any motivation whatsoever.

Molly you are truly amazing. Pay no mind to your "d"p and his father. They are both clueless. Some men are just idiots!