July 2016 (2)

[EllieJayJay]

Still have a few pages left to go on the original thread, but in case we got chatting created this one a few pages early xx

Oh Roto I'm so sorry. best of luck for the future. You are a very strong lady.

beautician that is funny.. Is your finger ok?! We are the same, MIL is waiting for her letter to start chemo in the next few weeks. Me and DH decided it just didn't seem right, hense booking a scan a few days before Xmas to ensure we can tell them at Xmas.

missclark my DH isn't acting very excited, we had a row about it yesterday in fact ending in a hormonal breakdown .. Oops. We weren't supposed to be trying yet really but one drunken night 14 days off the pill.. And bam. I'm sure as time goes on they will.
I don't think all men are particularly excited/involved in the early days. Maybe talk to him about it?
wanting does sound very rude! how annoying!
crazycatlady I would have given her what for what a bitch, she shouldn't have made you feel like that. And they shouldn't bring up your weight like that. As someone who works in the fitness industry stuff like that makes me really angry, all the stuff with specific BMI. I know many women who are extremely fit and strong with a low body fat percentage who are 'obese'. Sorry rant over!

Have my booking appointment tomorrow too gnat! Scared to get on the scales as I'm sure my boobs are 7lb heavier each!

8+0

I really don't know which way this is going to go with the bleeding I have had. I feel like DH and I have been a bit distant. We were so happy when we found out but after the first bit of spotting the atmosphere got so tense and I fought with him about telling his mum too quickly and getting her hopes up. We just don't seem to have got back on the 'level'. He was supportive when we went for the scan though and also when I told him the bleeding episode yesterday.

I was off work today and starting work at 8 tomorrow. Cannot be bothered.

Sorry roto, wishing you all the best for the future xxx

I will have to ring them when I'm at the hairdressers on Wednesday I hope they don't earwig on my conversation don't really want to discuss it with the hairdresser lol but I won't be able to wait until I get home I'm so nervous I just can't relax

Horrible day for me today. Pains all night so went to EPC this morning. Turns out I had an ectopic pregnancy and I've had an op today. In hosp tonight, feeling very sad.

I hope everyone else is OK, haven't the battery on phone to scroll through thread. Good luck to you all.

So sorry, voom. Hope you are being looked after x

So sorry voom look after yourself it's a horrible and scary time thinking of you x

Missclarke- good to see uv joined the antenatal thread !
How have u bn feeling since ur BFP X
I'm really enjoying having no food aversions made a roast dinner 2nd time in a week and totally stuffed my face lol really nd to exercise or I'm going to put on too much !
It's DD birthday tomorrow ( altho she has had celebrations all wkend )
So we will go to soft play tomorrow and I should hopefully burn some calories running around with her !
You and me - sorry about the long journey tomorrow ! U should nap on the train !
Wer in Scotland r u from ? X

ow no voom how awful for you hope your being well looked after sending you lots of luck for the future xxx

Iv posted too early just noticed Iv missed some so need to catch up again ( such a fast thread ! )

voom how awful for you, I hope your recovery isn't too bad

So sorry voom , that's a very sudden change to experience in one day , hope u are being week looked after and get all the time you need to get ur head around things wishing u a relaxing recovery (hugs) x

AndI I'm only going to get a private scan if my NHS one doesn't fall before Christmas.

Cookie the finger is better now haha.

The midwife today said weight is only a concern when a Bmi is over 31 but even then it's only a concern if you are also over 35, have a history of pre eclampsia and a few other things that I can't remember. She showed me a list they use. I don't know how they can presume that everyone fitting the list is higher risk though it's stupid.

Ladies those with nausea what are you eating? I only had it in the mornings literally every day from wake up until 11.30 ish. Today and yesterday I've had it all day long. If I don't eat I get an awful grumbly sore tummy. But I don't fancy anything.

Voom sorry just saw your post. So so sorry you've had to go through that. I hope they are looking after you well in hospital. Make the most of any medication on offer and I hope you manage to get at least a little sleep.

My DH is using my belly button as a microphone to talk to the baby. In Spanish. It'd be cute if his beard wasn't so damned itchy!

So sorry for your loss voom that really is a lot to go through. Hope you physically recover soon and not in too much pain. I hope you have lots of support to get you through this difficult time.
So sad for all the tragic losses
Horrible, but at the same time makes me grateful. And equally as worried that it could all be over just like that. Feeling emotional ladies

Sorry to hear of ur loss Voom. It has been a sad thread today indians.

Vulvavoom - so sorry to hear your news :( as the others have said its all happened very fast. I wish you a speedy recovery and give yourself time to grieve. Your partner and you will get through this difficult time. All the best xxx

Cookies and coffee definitely scary and totally with you. All we can do is take it one day at a time c

Vulvavoom, I am so sorry - what a dreadful experience for you. I hope you are being well looked after. xx

So sorry to everyone who is going through their losses. It's such a fragile time. Xxxx

Voom I am so sorry to hear what you're going through. Do take care of yourself.

Cookies and Mel, I feel the same - grateful for no complications so far, but so terrified of what's to come, and so sad for all the losses we've seen in our group so far.

So sorry Voom and Roto - hope you both recover ok and that you're being looked after. It is so heartbreaking. Xxx

Other ladies - all we can do is look after ourselves and each other and think positive. After a recent mc, that is my GP's mantra to me. Feeling blessed to be pregnant again, and that all seems to be ok so far.