Oh, congratulations nearlythere, can't wait for all the details. I'm very of you!
indiemummy, how far is it from where your ds will be to the hospital? Our hospital has separate visiting times for partners to all other relatives, not sure how your's works but would it be possible for your dh/p to pop home and get ds at a time when your parents can't come too? My mum brought ds in after I had dd and tbh, I wished I'd sent dh home to get him on his own. Like you say, having a bit of time as just the 4 of us would have been lovely so I'm definitely doing it differently this time.
Carameli, the best tip I was given about older ones meeting baby for the first time was make sure you're not holding the baby when they arrive so you can cuddle them, etc, then introduce them to the baby. Ds was only 19 months when dd arrived so he didn't have much of a clue about it all but it definitely made it easier to be able to pick him straight up and cuddle him as sson as he arrived. I also put his present in the end of the cot so he found it when he went to look at dd. TBH, he was more interested in the present than dd!!
Hope everyone else is well, can't wait to hear from Magnolia and Cals, and maybe Anna too. We ought to be getting news almost every day now!