brickie, glad they are seeing you before. Really hoping for a good outcome for you.
Yokil I'm with Kep, hot water bottle on the back of the neck really helps me and if poss a neck and shoulder rub for which I totally pull out the pregnancy card with DH
Teenie I'd say a pretty maxi dress too. I'm a bridesmaid at a wedding Saturday in long multiway dress, so going to tie it how it looks best on the day (never know with this inflating/deflating bloat) but def feel like I popped out in the last few days. I'm also going to a wedding next weekend when 16 weeks. I'm planning on a bright maxi (it's actually a monsoon beach one! But it has sequins which I figure is wedding-y and I can get away with, with a good bag and the right accessories! Think maxidress wil be more flexible for whatever shape I'm in!
Also... I'm 14+5 and totally think I felt my first fluttering last night in bed. I first puzzled over whether it was wind shifting (the glamour), but it felt really different. I never would have believed it this early! Though my mw did say she felt her first in week 14. Weird. Still not 100% sure but waiting to see if I feel any more.