With our swamp fanjos and supermarket jobbies it's all going on in our knickers. It's a wonder our men agree to deliver the prostaglandin injections but then we are the 24th Just Shagging Grads!

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Welcome, welcome, welcome to the 24th grads thread... celebrating the success of Just Shagging in getting us viroids upduffed!

For those that don't know, a 'viroid' is from the original JSing thread 1, where someone was trying to type ladies (in reference to all the JSing ladies), but their phone decided to call us all viroids instead!

The name stuck and we've been the JSing viroids ever since.

The thread we have graduated from is herein its 41st outing. WARNING: they're all a bit kerazy not to mention randy!

There is also a Just Mumming thread in postnatal clubs herefor once your babies come along, or to keep up with the graduated graduates!

There is also a private facebook group (so it doesn't give the game away in your news feed!)... if you want to join to see photos of new babies etc, just ask in-thread!

The stats sheet is here

So, roll call below please, viroids!

Whaaaat? Who were you??

The first caller about depression

(not actually there in person, I'm not that cool)

Now I wish I was Phil Vickery.

Ah what?! I can rewind it when I go back downstairs. The drilling affects the signal up here!

Haha! I haven't seen it myself yet, I was super nervous so I think I got the wobbly-voice, and had to have the TV off so couldn't see anyone's facial expressions or whether or not I rambled like a loon....

Bag is Here

I luffs it. Although it's a bit smaller than I thought, but bag packing into tiny compartments is Mr Tee's forte.

Builders - I think they will be done by about 2 which is good, they are in their van having sandwiches, but have left front door wide open still. Etiquette for these situations is a nightmare.

lemon! what's the scoop with your cameo!?

I'm trying to decide what to do with my hair, both color and cut wise. I've had it short and funky for he last few years, but started to grow it in the summer so I had options for my wedding postponed due to upduffness. It's thick and curly naturally, which gets on my tits a bit, but I'm thinking that it would be easier to have it long enough to tie up for when I have scream baby & I don't have time to do anything with it, (straighten, curl neatly etc). It's also colored black at the moment, but I don't know whether to have it lifted into something a bit lighter, the problem with black is that it really shows my grey hairs if I don't keep on top of it, so I thought if I went lighter it might not be so bad..?

Part of me wants to dye it light violet, I miss having pink hair. Stupid grown up job. (which I'm away from for a year, so could totes do it..)

So far day has consisted of school run, lying down, reading...then we have a baby sitter tonight so we can go out for child free meal. Watching house of cards with DH so can't get into that on my own tee - always up for box set recommendations though!

Tee stick it on +1 if you want, I think it's on in about 10mins. I will be watching through my fingers.

If you bleach your hair I think you need to check the ingredients as apparently the fumes / chemicals can be bad for you if you're preggo. Definitely dye it violet! I have a friend with bum-length blue and purple hair and she looks like a psychedelic mermaid, I wibbly it!

Ok just watched it....it wasn't nearly as bad as I thought!

It was on in the background at my friend's house Lemon. I saw there was a caller called 'Sarah' but wasn't listening. Was that you?

I'd get away from black if possible Tee. My hair is so grey and I never get a chance to dye it.

What children do you have already Could, I forget.

Haha yes Dulcet! Then I can pretend I'm following a programme and not just winging it!

Just eaten spicy tuna. I can already feel it was an error...

Pink hair tee! That would be awesome andthis your chachance to pretend your not a grown up bump doesn't give it away at allI am entirely jealous of your curly thick hair though.

Could game of thrones!

Wil I have a DD age 4. Very excited about baby!

Tee it is easier with a newborn to have a hairstyle you can just tie up and not have to bother styling if no time (from experience as also have thick hair), no advice on colour except if you want pink go for it you only live once.

could game of thrones! Like what mountain said. Not only does it have a brilliant story line but it will also make your husband frisky and you can drool at khal drogo (swoooooooooon) also Sean Bean is beautiful.

Think I'm the only person on the planet who doesn't get Game of Thrones.

Ah that's a nice age gap Could. Little girls that age are obsessed with babies too so she'll be a great help although might try to bath her when you're not looking.

Tee that is lush! Great price too. I looooove crazy hair dyes... I miss my bright red hair and was so tempted to dye it back a few months ago but it was so much upkeep.... Short hair would probably be easier when the baby comes? I haven't succumbed to a Mum cut yet but long hair is a bit of a PITA having to wash/dry etc...

Oh Lemon - I only saw a couple of the callers on that bit. Hope you're ok? If you want to chat about depression and pregnancy I'm your viroid.

Never even read/ seen GOT Wil ... you're not alone...

Thanks Popz I was mainly calling in to tell everyone that there is light at the end of the tunnel, no matter how bad you think things are, they will get better. They were discussing it because of the pilot who crashed the plane (they also think this was depression), and the way I envisaged ending things was also violent so they wanted to hear from me. I wanted to stress the importance of breaking down the taboos around mental health, and highlighting that there is a wealth of support out there if you're brave enough to ask for it.

Are you ok?

Oh I did hear you! With the nice husband, yes? I'm fine right now (medicated, but fine ) Have had several episodes but the latest one was precipitated by anxiety of ttc. I took ads throughout my pregnancy. Not ideal but just one of those things.

Have just realised if I have a home birth I don't get to buy a shiny new bag for hospital

Yep! That was me!

As for the ADs, you're definitely better of being balanced and medicated than taking your chances and hoping for the best How long have you lived with it? With the anxiety TTC, did you find that changed when you got preg?

My parents had "issues" ... I remember having suicidal thoughts as young as 11/12... Officially diagnosed at 19.

Typically I was only taking the ads a few weeks before I found out I was pregnant I felt mostly wonderful throughout my pregnancy (as you can haha)... Whether it was ads or preg hormones or both I don't know!

Oh god sorry that was a post from this morning that didn't send, sending at very wrong moment!

La I can't see it? What did you say?!

I can't see it either la

I have had a similar moment today. I dictated an email to a client berating them for ignoring my calls and emails. Literally seconds after it was sent I received a letter saying my client sadly DIED two weeks ago......

Recalling emails just doesn't work and I sent a grovelly one apologising in case her relatives check her email. Eeek!

Oh no Fleur!!

You're safe La, it must not have worked.