Thank you Fanby
Saw the sonographer on Tuesday, not even a smile to her face! She said she needed to do measurements so she will be a couple of minutes. After which she asked if we want to know sex of baby, we said yes. But as baby was laying on its stomache she was unable to check. In which case she asked me to take a 10mins walk and drink cold water but she also said she could not see baby's heartbeat (which of course worried us) . But came back baby was being camera shy & she also said in which case we didn't get to know, however she said for me to repeat the 10mins walk & have water. Which again I did, came back & she said 'I cannot do the remainder of ur scan now as my next patient is here so you will need to come back in 3weeks'
At this point I was totally upset & angry at the same time. She is telling me she can't see my baby's heartbeat yet she's telling me to come back in 3wks!
To top it off she didn't show me the screen not even once, so I went to the scan and didn't even get to see my baby. Didn't even offer if I want to buy any photos!
The minute I got home I was on the phone to imaging department and spoke to someone in charge and put in a complaint. After which I got a call from the sonographeer 40mins later to apologise and she turned around and said to me 'I didn't mean to say I couldn't see the heartbeat, I meant to say I can't measure the heart due to the position of the baby'
In the end she called me back for same day, baby had turned a little, saw the heartbeat, got some photos & got to see my little buba.
And 2free photos!
Worked out in the end I guess but no one should have to go through something like this, by her just wording it wrong put me through so much anxiety!
So that was my experience of my 20wk scan