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April 2015 Thread 9: Let the chatting continue!

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cinnamongreyhound · 20/01/2015 21:23

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Squidge14 · 26/01/2015 10:21

Ladies I've just seen we've on page 15 in only 6 days Confused I wonder if there's an award for the biggest antenatal thread?!

AnniaFausta · 26/01/2015 10:25

Just come out of my 28w appt - all is fine, womb is measuring at 27cm so not worryingly short (but I might up my protein intake in case).

Squidge, I asked about hospital tours and apparently they stopped doing them around this time last year - the unit was so busy that the tours weren't getting to see anything except the corridor!

Midwife didn't feel for position, but did get a nice loud heartbeat up on the Doppler, which is the first time I've been able to hear it over the placenta.

TinyTear · 26/01/2015 10:44

SMogs try and find a route with pit stops...

I change at St. Pancras / King's Cross and am a regular at the toilets there Grin and some days have been known to get to DD's nursery and ask to use the toilets before picking her up...

Lauren82000 · 26/01/2015 10:48

That's nice about the heartbeat Annia Mine hasn't liked the doppler so far and swims away when the mw tries to listen. Got my 28w appointment on Wednesday so I'm hoping for a more cooperative little one this time.

Mine still do hospital tours but not until very late on. I think the mw said I can go about 36weeks! I just have to ring on the Sunday I want to go and check they aren't full. Think they do them from 2pm and you have to ring at 12. I really can't remember what she told me last time I was there but it was 4 weeks ago so I can forgive myself. Grin

From the feel of my bump at the moment I think baby is transverse. Nothing hard, top or bottom but feeling a bit stretched across the middle. I get movements all over the place, usually in 2 places at once so lots of stretching going on in there. The strangest movements for me are the rapid kicks, kind of like the baby is twitching it's arm or leg or perhaps it has gotten itself tangled up in the cord and trying to shake itself loose. Confused Also baby prefers my right ribs to my left ribs, but I think that is due to the placenta being top left so might not be as easy to fit a foot under it.

EbwyIsUpTheDuff · 26/01/2015 10:53

Misty, try drinking (forbidden) coke with ice in it.. That's what I was advised when I had the same problem with my eldest. drink it, then lie down quietly for an hour. If no improvement and no movement after that I'd go in to get checked (that also happened a few times, baby was fine)

BrixtonBunny · 26/01/2015 11:04

Ergh, on my way to work this morning I had really strong heart palpitations, which lasted for a while at work. I've had them before but never for so long. Had a little lie down in our first aid room which helped then spoke to midwife at hospital who said I should pop in so they can just double check all is well.

What's frustrating is that my hospital is literally across the river from my work, but as I didn't have my notes with me I'm currently in a cab (which is taking FOREVER in London traffic, thinking I should have got the tube...) going home to get notes, then back to hospital. Sigh. This is a good reminder to start carrying notes with me! What a hassle... Hmm

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BananaToast · 26/01/2015 11:08

Brixton I've started carrying my notes with me since the same thing happened to me with reduced movements a couple of weeks ago. Hope everything checks out ok - might be an iron issue?

BrixtonBunny · 26/01/2015 11:14

Banana no idea - I had my bloods done at 28 weeks and I assume they were fine since no one contacted me! But maybe since then baby has been leeching more of it out Wink

ChickenMe · 26/01/2015 11:22

Hope you're ok dances

Squiz my workmates wife had her baby in Darenth Valley and they were raving about it.

Brixton it could be iron. I went for my whooping cough jab last week and the nurse said "did they mention your blood count?". Turns out my iron is low again and weirdly the day before that I'd had palpitations too. She said the MW will go thru it next week.
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smogsville · 26/01/2015 11:38

Thanks Tiny that's good to know. I'll do a bit more research so I have some options up my sleeve!

Does anyone know if m&s or boots sell maternity tights alongside their normal tights or do you have to go online? Have both quite near work so could zoom over at lunch.

BrixtonBunny · 26/01/2015 11:48

M&S do smogs x

smogsville · 26/01/2015 11:53

Hooray thanks Brixton!

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Squidge14 · 26/01/2015 12:11

chicken everyone I know has raved about it but QE is a bit touch and go, although they will have the brand spanking new MLU unit up and running by April, I still think I will move if it's not too much hassle as I'd be much closer to Darenth Valley in our new house!

I will have to remember to ask my MW next week about hospital tours, I'm sure I was told at booking that they could be arranged but that was with a different MW and this one hasn't mentioned anything about it or a birth plan or anything - do they even help you with that or are you expected to do this on your own? 11 weeks left at work today Shock

FiRaffe · 26/01/2015 13:50

Glad to hear baby is moving more today Misty.

daholster · 26/01/2015 14:07

Good luck brixton. And misty that is good news.

I have just realised I think I missed my whooping cough jab this morning, grr... But the surgery aren't answering so I can't check if it's actually now or something!

Bought a Moby wrap and a Connecta along this morning at the Connecta shop, both fasten above my stoma so hooray! The manduca we borrowed and the little life back carrier we have both sit over my stoma and cause issues after a short while. I'm looking forward to using these two. I also got him a little blue soft organic cotton top and leggings and dd chose a raggy bunny she likes (in pink... I have never encouraged this!!! But still she is starting to ask for pink, sigh )... And we got ds a sand coloured bunny the same so that I can start sleeping with it as someone recently suggested. If it doesn't work then nothing lost.. if it does then lots gained!!

So, that ended up an expensive shop! Will try not to tell dh how much it all cost... Well, the Connecta dd even rode in in the shop just fine still so that will last and last and I think a well spent £62. I can carry him and dh could carry dd in the little life back pack we have if we went out for a walk as a family. The £32 for the Moby wrap is a bit steep if I don't get the daily use out of it I hope for the first 4 months... But then I could sell it on anyway. It's the extra purchases he would be cross about!!!

daholster · 26/01/2015 14:12

And ARRRRRGGHHHHH I wish my very tired daughter who fell asleep for 30 mins in the car but woke when we got home and I transferred to bed would GO TO SLEEP!!!! She is banging and clattering and nattering and I am getting increasingly, irrationally angry!!! JUST GO TO SLEEP!!! And there was me thinking we'd actually get out to meet our friend at 3 because she had fallen asleep nice and early, and now we will miss it becuase she will be asleep too late and sleep through it. Toddlers!!! Grr!!!

TheBooMonster · 26/01/2015 14:50

dances any news this morning?

squidge I haven't moved hospital, but I did change doctors surgery during my last pregnancy and it was fairly straight forward once I was registered with the surgery. Though as the hospital keeps paper notes (or at least mine does) it might be worth ensuring you have a copy of any pertinent medical history.

Got the bags packed this morning despite DH's best efforts at making it bloody impossible So I have the changing bag packed with all of baby's stuff to make it easy to find, a small suitcase packed for labour and a slightly bigger one packed for if they decide they need to keep us in on the ward for a few days. Just need to add handheld notes and Natal Hypnotherapy books into the labour bag (plus any snacks bits that I'm particularly worried about DH forgetting) and there's space in the extended stay bag for the right sized clothing to be put in for bump. Feel much calmer now I know it's done, even though I won't need any of it for ages.

Started going through the Natal Hypnotherapy book with post it notes and page tabs so that DH can read the 'cliff notes' and to ensure he skips the more dubious stuff about God using hypnosis to perform surgery on Adam So I can send him off to work with it when he's back at work on Wednesday and he can pretend he's read it before I get him started on the exercises!

grumpy face I have given up trying to prepare DH for the fact that he's going to have to cook actual meals when bump comes as I won't be able to do it. When we had DD we were living with his parents and they did all the cooking, not sure what the heck he's expecting to happen this time round as I'll be far too busy feeding the newborn to be stood in the kitchen cooking him meals whilst he plays minecraft and try to avoid parenting. Having had some success with the hello fresh / gusto boxes that were sent through to us I bought the ingredients for the 3 quickest recipes on Friday and put them all in one place in the fridge, I left the relevant recipe cards out in plain sight and suggested that perhaps he'd like to make a couple of them over the weekend whilst I was at work and he wasn't. I came home to pasta bake one night and pukka pies with oven chips the other, both most definitely not the recipe's from the cards, both requiring him to go out and buy the stuff that he cooked because I'd ensured that neither meal was in the house because he needs to learn to cook something other than bloody pasta bake from a jar. Ho-hum I thought, he obviously didn't fancy the meals I'd picked and didn't want to say anything. Except he suggested to me before going out for a walk a little while ago that perhaps I could make one of the recipes tonight, the chicken one perhaps... none of the three had chicken in, or anything resembling chicken, so he hadn't even looked at the recipes he'd shunned. Told him that if he wanted one of the chicken dishes he'd need to buy the ingredients, he suggested I use quorn and left. The chicken recipes require beating the chicken to 1/2 cm thickness, something I'm fairly certain you can't do with quorn... Guess we'll be living on a diet of pasta bake and pukka pies when bump comes. either that or take aways...

daholster we have a moby wrap here, It's really nice, but I struggled to get to grips with the yards and yards of fabric, I could get it working in the house but out of the house I'd end up giving up and carrying DD, someone suggested the Papoozle from he tots bots website and it's similar but with a strap that you fasten down first and then two lengths that come off it and then wrap round in a similar fashion to the moby wrap, then a separate piece of fabric that goes round the whole lot once baby is in, I've ordered one of those and am praying it doesn't turn up till later in the week like for instance Thursday or Friday so I can hide it and then pretend we had it all along as it was only £20

Also, the non sleeping tired girl sounds familiar, DD actually fell asleep earlier in the pram, to be woken up by someone who got in her face and exuberantly exclaimed that she was sleeping >.> strangers make me cross sometimes! But even though she's shattered now she won't just sleep, have even tried under duvet snuggles to try and get her to rest but she's currently attempting to pull the blinds down so I'm guessing the microns she had is all we're going to get!

My place doesn't do hospital tours, there's a 'virtual tour' on the website which is mostly just a picture of a generic labour room from what I remember...

BananaToast · 26/01/2015 15:07

Just had my consultant appointment and because my thyroid function test came back normal they are happy for me to be midwife-led for the remainder Smile I've got to book another blood test with the GP for 32 weeks but don't need to get back in touch with the results if they are still normal. Perfect!

They had a feel and listen into baby and everything looked great. Baby appears to be head down as I suspected and we could hear lots of wriggling on the doppler. Still measuring a week ahead, despite continued 'you're so tiny' comments.

Boo I'm impressed with your organisation. I'm getting there - got the changing bag packed, just needs clothes for baby adding, and I've started putting together a bag for me. Trying to work out whether it will all fit in one or if it's best to split things up into immediate use and longer stay.

PenguinPoser · 26/01/2015 15:15

I've just been looking at wraps, found both the moby and papoozle online, Boo do you mind me asking where you ordered papoozle from? Looking on their website looks like they are wanting £50!

I can sympathise with your DH's cooking as well... Think mine is expecting home made meals on the table every evening when he gets in once I'm off work. Trying to convince him that I might not actually have time for that! Will do some batch cooking though to fill the freezer. Have my broth in the slow cooker at the moment so will see how that turns out, fingers crossed!

Lauren82000 · 26/01/2015 15:20

I know the feeling completely Boo. DH just shrugs at me and says he doesn't know how to cook. Our usual conversations go something like this:
DH- what's for tea?
Me- X with X
DH- don't like that
Me- well I can do X instead
DH- don't feel like that.
Me- well what do you want
DH- dunno
Me- fine well you can make us something then
DH- don't be moody, I can't be arsed with you when your like this.
Me- you'll need to cook at some point, what happens if I have to stay in the hospital for a while you can't feed DD on nothing or rubbish.
DH- fed up with conversation has sodded off to play on PS4/ipad and bury his head in the sand a bit more

Confused Very annoying he won't even read the instructions on packets/jars just asks me what to do if I get him to cook at all. He's in for a very rude awakening if I have to have a section or there are complications so I have an extended stay like last timeSmile

TheBooMonster · 26/01/2015 15:24

penguin www.totsbots.com/product-category/clearance/last-chance-to-buy/papoozle-last-chance-to-buy/ it's only the red at that price, will just have to hope doesn't clash too awful with he shade of red that my changing bag is :P

good news on being able to go midwife led banana. I split stuff out partially because I'd need a much bigger suitcase to have got it all in one and partially because there's a lot of stuff I'll want for labour that I'm defiantly not going to need if I end up staying in later, so I don't want it all hanging round.

daholster · 26/01/2015 15:27

Gave up on the nap... Off to see our friend i think. She seems happy enough so far, hope it lasts another 4 hrs!

boo yes I wondered about the papoozle but I was very keen to test what I bought having tried a few at the along library before and not ended up really happy with any of them... Think I will get the hang of the wrap eventually. I will have pram with buggy board option in the boot always if I do struggle, and I will hopefully use it around the house for housework. Well, we will see, I might be all talk!!!

TheBooMonster · 26/01/2015 15:31

lol, the thing is DH used to be more than happy to cook, then we moved in with his parents for a year and they did all he cooking an he left them to it, now it's just my job because he works and I am the mum or some other ridiculous reason why it's expected DH will work full time and every time I mention working full time everyone's heads fall off because how can I expect to keep the house clean and tidy when working full time? I'd left him with one of the recipe cards to do the weekend before and he'd not even bothered to read the instructions, just got his mum to suggest something 'simpler' to do with the ingredients that ended up taking twice as long as the recipe on the card! I expect if I end up spending an extended period of time in the hospital DD will live off toddler ready meals and he will just live on a diet of pasta and weatabix...

Squidge14 · 26/01/2015 15:38

eek you're organised boo with your bags packed! I'm really excited to pack mine but will wait until we are in the new house I think because currently all baby stuff is packed in suitcases or stacked in boxes in my PILs spare room!

Hope your OH gets his act together by the time bump arrives and surprises you with Jamie Oliveresque culinary talents Grin

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