bangles thanks for the welcome - what's this spreadsheet you speak of? I'm not very familiar with these forums, not really used them much before. Feeling a little out there by myself with this pregnancy, hence why I tracked you down. Very glad I did too :-)
memphis thanks for the tip! I'll check that out.
viperama when we moved to this area - with a 10 week old baby and no family or friends for miles and miles around - I did a quick google search and found a really good Mother's Help/cloth nappy laundry/toy library service and it's been a god-send! Gumtree would also be a good place to look.