Hi all, thanks for your thoughts. I'm enjoying reading about your stocking up and search for the perfect item, I know what that's like, I've been googling for days and comparing models of this and that. It brings some normality to my crazy times
I ended up getting a bed back in labour ward and my DC can visit anytime till 9pm, phew! They came by yesterday with drawings and DS1 wrote a little note on his which set me off. He was very subdued and DS2 wouldn't let me hug him at all so I settled for high 5s. I'll only see them Fridays when DH will bring some dinner we can had together and on Sundays, due to distance and horrendous traffic here.
I had a scare early this morning, bad cramp on my left that went to my back and leg. The lovely nurses put baby on monitor and she was fine. They called in the female dr howser and in a stage whisper said to them no need to monitor baby, she's only 22 weeks. I realised I am the patient and they won't acknowledge my DD for another 11 days. 
It seemed like baby must have moved onto a nerve, As all okay now. The morning rounds dr was talking of me going home again! So I texted my obgyn and she will speak with them to keep me in. I'm having trouble imagining myself here for 18wks, so I am getting us to 24 wk mark then a weekly goal thereafter.