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April 2007 - part II...

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geordiemacminx · 22/09/2006 08:55

Not that I profess to have a brain of any sorts but here is a new thread as requested!!

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paow · 02/10/2006 15:37

Hi ladies, you probably know this already but I thought I post it here for you.
It's the change in the law regarding maternity leave came into effect yesterday for babies due after the 7th of April, you lukcy girls, I'm due this month so I missed out check:
www.directgov.gov.uk/Employment/Employees/WorkAndFamilies/fs/en

good luck to all

doghouse · 02/10/2006 15:58

Hi everyone and thanks for your good wishes. I had the scan today and all seemed well and I was just one day out on the dates so am officially 13+6! Can't tell you how relieved I am and DH was so chuffed; think it made it more real for him. AT LAST I can start telling people!

Hope everyone starts feeling better soon - these bugs sound horrid. My Mum had it last night.

I thought new law was for babies due after 1 April (not 7th?)

bubbaloo · 02/10/2006 17:24

Yaaaaay,glad your scan went well Doghouse.You've done really well keeping it a secret this long.

I also heard the new maternity rules were from 7th April,but I haven't taken much notice this time around as I'm not working now.

CornflakeKid · 02/10/2006 18:16

Great news doghouse!

weeonion · 02/10/2006 19:32

good news doghouse.

who else has scans this week - i think liath has one on thursday? i got 2 - one at hospital on wed & priavte one on thurs.......

any word from GGF?

CaptainDippy · 02/10/2006 19:53

Yey to your great scan Doghouse - enjoy teeling people!!

Hope you went to bed MIAM!!

How is everyone else doing? DH and I not so bad, DD's tired and snotty and grumpy - took them to the Dr's today and he gave them some medicine etc to take and some cream for their sore parts. He referred DD1 to a specialist at the hospital as well as one of her eyes doesn't look entirely straight, bless her. So we're getting there, I guess!

Feeling fat, fat, fat.....

Mmmmmmmm......

muminamini · 02/10/2006 20:12

Hi CD - I should have gone to bed....I didn't and I regret it now - SOOO tired!

I thought the new maternity laws were also from 1st April also...

Know what you mean about feeling fat - I've only put on 3 pounds so far but DH politley told me "No offence but you look like you've put on more than that!"

liath · 02/10/2006 20:17

Yup, weeonion - scan thursday morning.

Feeling fat here too, got up a couple of days ago, looked in the mirror and there was this enormous gut ! Think I might be in those maternity clothes sooner rather than later at this rate. All I want to do is eat stodge! At least it's the time of year where you can justify eating stodge, I suppose......

bubbaloo · 02/10/2006 20:45

Also feeling fat but then I was fat to start with so didn't expect anything different.

Greengirlforever · 02/10/2006 21:14

Good evening to all (sounds posh - I think I may be rambling this eve....) and thank you again so much for all your messages. It made me feel quite emotional (again, and it's been an emotional day) to read one after another of all your good wishes.

Well so far so good. The procedure went fine today. The consultant and midwives were excellent - the consultant kept me chatting about DS1's school - she wants her DD to go there - to distract me during the procedure. DH watched the screen - I watched the ceiling!

It was hard though. Especially seeing LO leaping about on the scan before and after the procedure. You have to decide if you want to know the sex and I first said I would only want to know if the news was good if you see what I mean, but then on the spot I thought - how could I do that to the little bean? If I need to let go of him/her I must at least acknowledge them and try to know everything I can about them (am crying again while typing this - and sorry if tmi for you all).

But anyway. Results apparently will be Wednesday or Thursday, not tomorrow, so still a bit of a wait. I'm staying off work for a couple of days due to being in such a state so will be on and posting tomorrow like a normal person I hope!

Cornflakekid - the bloods (and my age, bigtime) were what pushed me into the high risk area. At this stage they look for AFP (preg hormone) and PAPP-A (sp?) which is a kind of protein. High risk is when the AFP is too high and the PAPP-A is too low. They were assuring me at the hospital today that people very often have what they called "wonky bloods"(!) for no discernible reason at all, which is of course what I'm hoping (I need a fingers crossed emoticon!).

weeonion · 02/10/2006 21:33

GGF - glad to hear its over for today. it must have been hard for you and dh. there was alot of folks thinking about u and we still r til the results come back. hope you can have a pampering night.......
hugs xoxoxo

Greengirlforever · 02/10/2006 21:55

Thanks weeonion. The midwives recommended a glass of wine "to relax the uterus" so that's what I'm having!

CornflakeKid · 03/10/2006 08:05

I'm glad it went okay GGF - you had me in tears when read your thread - really feel for you - thanks for the info on the bloods. Fingers and toes still crossed for you xxx

My dh snored all last night too - ds2 wet the bed at 3am and came in with us, ds1 woke up at 5.45 am and woke us up too - so a bit knackered! I have washing coming out of my ears so hoping for a dry day and dh moaning about lack of food again and why don't I order online etc etc - bad wife/mummy syndrome! Nothing seems bad when I think about GGF, so going to have a positive day.

Bloods today at 11am - yuk yuk yuk - then need to do something with ds2 which is fun...

Midwife tomorrow - hoorah - still thinking about getting a home doppler device thingy!

CaptainDippy · 03/10/2006 09:08

Oh, GGF - you brave brave thing!! Well Done you - so glad it is over now, hoping that the results are good. [hugs]

Gosh I am sat here, crying my eyes out cos DH has just taken my babies to nursery on his way to work. DD2 waved and smiled at me over his shoulder as he carried her away. Gosh, I must be PG - I am soooo emotional!!!!!

I miss my babies.

I miss my DH.

zazas · 03/10/2006 09:25

Glad that you have got through the test GGF, look after yourself for these 2 days.

I have my first scan today and midwife booking - gulp!

Better rush as a stack of work to finish first.

bubbaloo · 03/10/2006 10:13

Zazas-best of luck with your scan today.

Not alot going on here-Ds and me both have a cold at the mo and I'm still having very weird dreams,although I haven't killed off any more of my neighbours yet.
Also,still quite breathless so phoned the midwife yesterday to check if it was "normal".She said it wasn't normal as such but I may be aneamic which of course I know I am,but seeing as I'm having my bloods done next week anyway,thought I'd wait and see what the results of them are first.If I go to my gp,he'll probably only send me off to have some done,so I'll leave it til then.
Also feel absolutely huge and seriously look about 6 months pg already.

Hope everyone else is well.x

CaptainDippy · 03/10/2006 10:19

Bless you bubbs - I am pretty fatty minging myself! I get out of breath easily too - have done for all my PGs - hope it is not aneamia - the iron tabs make your poo go black!!

zazas - hope it all goes well today!!

My scan is Friday next week - so excited!! Nearly 11 weeks - yippee!

Bramshott · 03/10/2006 10:20

Oh Greengirl - well done, you sound so positive! I'm thinking of you.

I checked that link that Paow kindly posted and it says that you get the extra weeks Maternity Pay / Allowance as long as your "expected week of childbirth begins after 1 April 07". Now this doesn't sound too clear to me, as it surely very much depends when they start the week from? 1 April is a Sunday, and I have some hazy memory from last time that the SMP/MA weeks start on Saturdays?!? Mind you, I've just followed a link to the DWP site here which says the new rules apply "for babies due on or after 1 April", in which case we'd all be okay. Sorry - this is rambly, but I guess quite crucial for a number of people here. I'm due 8 April, but at my first scan they made noises about "being a few more days on than that" so I'd hate to miss out if they move my dates!! Will have to get bolshy!

Hope everyone is feeling okay today. Doesn't it feel like autumn all of a sudden? Well it does here today (Hampshire) - all foggy this morning, with the spiders webs all sparkly in the dew!

Bramshott · 03/10/2006 10:23

Aren't the dreams a hoot!! Last time I remember I dreamt that I bit my boss (quite tempting!).

CaptainDippy · 03/10/2006 10:24

PMSL!!

Someone tell me to go and get dressed!!!

Bramshott · 03/10/2006 10:33

Captain Dippy - I'll tell you to go and get dressed if you tell me to go and do some work! I have been back from the nursery run for an hour, and so far I have had coffee and a marmitey bagel, read a bit of Sunday's paper, checked my emails, and been on here for far too long!! Wouldn't be so bad, but I am self employed and paying someone else to look after DD so that I can work and earn money (ha-ha)! Okay, I'm going now . . . really . . . honest . . . !

doobydoo · 03/10/2006 11:10

Thinking of you GGF.
Great news on your scan doghouse.
Good luck with yours zazas.
Mine is next wednesday[i think]
It's a booking in appt and i think that includes the scan.
Have a good day all.

CaptainDippy · 03/10/2006 11:20

DO SOME WORK!!!!!!!

I've had a shower now so you have got no excuse .....

Erm. Just need to actually get dressed now!

Sexonlegs · 03/10/2006 11:31

Morning all. Long time no chat, and so much to catch up on.

GGF, fingers crossed for you - I will be back on to check how things went.

Pleased to hear all the scans are going so well. I have a nuchal fold scan on the 20th October, but they don't do routine scans now at the hospital until 20 weeks which I think is crazy.
Still feeling nauseous most of the time, and like many, just want to eat stodge! Won a load of maternity clothes off ebay last week, and they were delivered yesterday - fabulous!!

Anyway, need to do some work.

Hugs to all. xx

CornflakeKid · 03/10/2006 12:06

Feeling proud of myself - I actually made it round Sainsburys today - 1st time in 7 weeks! Spent loads on nice looking food like strawberries and pineapple etc - have bacon & lentil soup for lunch with some cheese, ham and ciabatta bread - hoping ds2 is going to try some of the soup but that may be asking a bit too much!

Hope everybody has a good day xx

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