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March 2015 mummies

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M27J5M · 04/08/2014 13:09

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Lifeisabeach · 19/08/2014 08:39

Good luck today Coaster, I hope everything is ok.

FoscarC · 19/08/2014 08:52

I think I'm having a boy. And dh is convinced its a boy - how on earth he would know. But I think that may be because we'd both prefer a boy and so we automatically imagine its a boy (although I keep changing my mind about what I want). We aren't going to find out, but after the scan tomorrow (yay!!!!) I'm going to start guessing properly. Anyone else ever tried guessing with the Nub theory/angle of the dangle at 12 weeks?

Butterpuff · 19/08/2014 09:30

Good luck Caoaster hope it goes well for you.

We told my best mate last night (while having cuddles with her 10 week old gorgeous girl) and she said that they did the wedding ring test, then found out the were right at the 20 weeks scan. She also said she had a broom stick moment earlier in the day and thought we would be giving her some exciting news. Grin

We wont be finding out till he or she arrives. I have no idea what we are having but dh naturally referrers to it as he since the scan. Not sure if that is a feeling or just wishful thinking for a football buddy! Also both of us come from two sibling families with the boy first. So it just seems the way of things.

What's the Nub theory/angle of the dangle all about Foscar?

FoscarC · 19/08/2014 10:01

All babies have this protruding nub thing at 12 weeks scan and depending on the angle of it depends on if it's a boy or girl apparently. If you google Nub theory you'll see it.

Butterpuff · 19/08/2014 10:16

Goggled, don't think we saw any evidence of nub on our scan. Maybe bubs isn't quite there yet!

PickledPorcupine · 19/08/2014 10:49

I have no idea what I'm having, change my mind every day. To be honest it's probably because I'm just so chuffed to have got far that I don't care which flavour, I just want them any way they come Smile. (This is coming from someone who a few years ago scoffed at the 'as long as it's happy and healthy' stuff)

coastergirl · 19/08/2014 10:55

Hello! Scan was all good :-) So relieved! I should have been measuring 8+4 today but it was actually 8+5, good strong heartbeat, one baby and everything in the right place! Here's a picture, it's taken from my phone so not very clear. Hubby is scanning the actual picture as we speak.

I didn't have to pay for the picture. Just asked at the end of the scan and mentioned my parents going away on the day of the 12 week scan. She looked like the usually say no, but agreed :-)

Thanks for all the support and kind wishes! Foscar we aren't finding out what we're having but looking forward to engaging in all the theories :-) I'd prefer a boy so think that's influencing my thinking!

March 2015 mummies
m33r · 19/08/2014 10:57

coaster that's brilliant news! You must be so relieved!!! I've been on here every ten mind this morn looking for you! Congrats!

coastergirl · 19/08/2014 11:00

Aww thank you :-) Both for checking and the congrats! It is such a relief. Also they think it is my cervix that is bleeding, rather than anything to do with the pregnancy. Last time I had a smear the nurse said I had a cervical ectropian from being on the pill for so long, and it bled when I had the smear. It's probably bleeding due to the hormones, so unless I have anything major, it's nothing to worry about. Phew!

KeeperOfTheZoo · 19/08/2014 11:26

That's brilliant news Coaster! Grin

With cloth nappies, I have always used the pocket nappies with DS - no separate waterproof layer needed, just the cloth nappy itself plus a cloth liner which you slot inside a pocket (you can get liners made of various materials including cotton and bamboo - some, like bamboo, are more absorbent so are less likely to leak, but take longer to dry after washing so pros and cons). I then put a flushable paper liner in the nappy as I put it on. When changing, the paper liner goes down the toilet with any poo (this reduces the amount of poo that gets stuck to the actual nappy), pull out the washable liner, then put the liner and nappy into a mesh wash bag inside a plastic bin. Every other day the bin gets full so I just take out the mesh bag and throw the whole lot into the machine (no need to touch the dirty nappies!).

I believe that when researched, even when you take into account the washing costs, with modern machines being more efficient with the water, and only using, at most, half the amount of detergent as a normal load, cloth nappies are still far more cost-efficient and better for the environment than disposables.

The only downside I found was that you do have to be prepared to change them every 2 to 2.5hrs or so, so DS has always worn disposables at night as I've never found a cloth nappy that can cope with being worn for 11 hours overnight.

They are just the cutest things though - in the summer DS quite often wears just his cloth nappy and a t-shirt Grin.

TakeMeUpTheNorthMountain · 19/08/2014 11:26

Well despite the fact that I have always been able to digest peanuts, it appears the baby doesnt like them very much. I now have a lovely mosaic on my bathroom wall and am cursing the god dam bag of nuts!!!

I have a strong feeling Ive got another boy in there. I would love a little girl, but I wont be disappointed. This baby was a long time coming.

I keep having an unnerving sensation that this is twins or triplets which is freaking me out. My paternal grandmother was a twin. But there are no other multiple births in the family

teaandbiscuitsforme · 19/08/2014 11:27

Oh coaster, that's fantastic news!!! I'd had a tiny bit of bleeding in the week before my scan on Sat and she found the bleed on the scan, that was almost as much relief as knowing baby was ok. At least I know what it is if there is anymore! Enjoy today with a huge smile on your face! Smile

m33r · 19/08/2014 11:33

Yeahcoaster great news that you know what the bleeding is. That would relax me considerably too!

Don't mind what we get either. Like others, it's such a long time coming. I think it might be a girl though ... No idea why!

FoscarC · 19/08/2014 11:39

Yay yay yay again coaster what a great day!

TakeMeUpTheNorthMountain · 19/08/2014 11:41

Also great news Coaster!!!

ELA88 · 19/08/2014 11:42

takemeup that's what happened to me last night but with a curry, I had been feeling a bit unwell and then painted the bathroom floor / toilet. Poor DH just directed me to bed and cleaned up! Won't be eating a curry again till march!
DH is also sure we're having twins as both sets of grandparents had twins and my aunt had 2 sets of twins. He's more than happy to "get it over in one go". Hmm!

Butterpuff · 19/08/2014 11:53

Brilliant news coaster so pleased.

ChristinaYang · 19/08/2014 12:28

So happy for you Coaster, I came on to see your update! Very excited about my early scan now next week :)

oliveobsessed · 19/08/2014 13:12

Great news coaster :-)

12 (ish) week scan is on Friday can't wait vary between having convinced myself they will not be able to see anything as I have imagined the pregnancy and worrying that it will be twins - think DP thinks I have cracked up totally

Lifeisabeach · 19/08/2014 13:20

Brilliant news Coaster, so pleased for you. Love the pic too. You're a couple of days behind me so really exciting to see.

No scan date yet, but it won't be for at least 3 weeks anyway. Starting to get nervous. Also feeling that we're coming to the end of the bubble that is the summer holidays, and soon I'll be back to work. Dreading telling my boss.

I used cloth nappies last time, a mixture of Bumgenius V3s and Flips. Looking forward to digging them out and using them again.

I feel out of touch with all the pram talk - there seem to be lots of new ones since I was last shopping for one. I had a quinny buzz for DS and then a Phil and Teds sport double for DD. Still got both of them so there's no way OH will let me buy another one!

fishfingerSarnies · 19/08/2014 13:23

Yay coaster, what a relief. So pleased for you.

I'm feeling so much better these past few days, still feeling sick at times but no where near as bad and not been sick for days. Really hope this is it over, never had anything as bad as this last time, ppl keep saying I could be twins because I've been so ill, though no history of twins in either family so not too worried. Do think it's a bloody boy though and I really want a girl, though know I will love it really.

If you live in the UK there's a website (fillyourpants.com) that do a nappy trial where you pay £100 deposit and they send you 5 different makes of nappies that ypu can use for a few weeks to see which suit you then ypu can either send them all back and get £90 back or you send some back and they take off the price of the nappies you keep. Probably haven't explained it very well but it's great.
I used pop-ins which are a all in one so no wrap. There's so many helpful websites and blogs.
I will be using cloth from the first week this time round but think I waited about 3 months the first time.

PickledPorcupine · 19/08/2014 13:54

Great news coaster!

Why are you dreading telling your boss life?

MotherOfInsomniacToddlers · 19/08/2014 15:10

Oooooh cloth nappy chat! Both my dcs have been cloth babies and so will this one. Don't know if any one has mentioned the nappy lady questionairre and website for anyone who might be interested in info on cloth nappies Smile

Sunshine4444 · 19/08/2014 15:30

Hi also had 12 week scan today and everything was good although further along so pretty much 13 weeks and due feb.

The care at our hospital was really not great very rude staff so I am so glad we decided on a private scan last week as that was so amazing and they have a big hint on what we are having!!

Feel relieved that things seem ok so far x

eatscakefornoreasonwhatsoever · 19/08/2014 15:51

Also just want to say that even if you don't use cloth nappies do consider cloth wipes. They're fab at getting off really sticky poo and the harsh chemicals present in baby wipes are astounding. DS would always get hideous nappy rash if I used one.

Also the flushable liners are unnecessary until you wean. Pointless before that :)