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November 2014 - thread 7

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amy83firsttimer · 14/07/2014 12:04

Jump aboard ladies.

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amy83firsttimer · 23/07/2014 21:57

I'm wanting everyone to stay chatting here!!!

Please don't all run away. #sadface

Anyway.... I've been getting teary last few evenings, think it's heat-induced tiredness mixed with hormones and stressful job (well, stressy manager). Actually cried full-on tears at work today - so embarrassing. My colleague said it was hormones and for some reason that always makes me really angry, anyone else?

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kate393 · 23/07/2014 22:00

Oh id like to get on the FB group... Who is it I need to message with details. Alita is it you?

picklebum2011 · 23/07/2014 22:02

It is of me and my daughter she is three and I have browny blonde hair.

picklebum2011 · 23/07/2014 22:04

Thanks Alita I will do.
Anyone else cry at one born, the way that dad cried after being brave for all three miscarriages was had me bawling.

picklebum2011 · 23/07/2014 22:06

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picklebum2011 · 23/07/2014 22:07

Oops the profile picture is not the one I thought, so yes it would have a couple of little girls and a birthday cake. Thank you, sorry for being a pain.

amy83firsttimer · 23/07/2014 22:14

Yes, it got rather "dusty" in our front room a couple of times during one born.

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picklebum2011 · 23/07/2014 22:43

Admi

picklebum2011 · 23/07/2014 22:45

Sorry for the random incomplete posts!! My tablet has a mind of its own!
Admin can I please delete my previous posts with my name on.

Alita7 · 23/07/2014 23:00

Kate I think I can add you if you like :) just send me your name and what your profile pic is of :)

Miskate · 24/07/2014 07:03

I'm saving OBEM for tonight, has anyone been watching 'she's having a baby' on sky? It's not as good as OBEM but I can't get enough of birth related programmes at the moment. Home and health channel on sky do a few others too but they're either really dated or American or both.

ladydolly · 24/07/2014 07:45

miskate I am exactly the same, I'm watching them all and especially like 'she's having a baby' because you get quite a lot of pregnancy background. Got really annoyed with DP last night when I realised he'd snuck his headphones in and was watching Man City videos on YouTube rather than the TV. Made him take them out for the birth bit of course.

eastmidswarwicknightnanny · 24/07/2014 08:18

I will watch obem on catch up this eve was in bed at 8.30 last night

Got my physio app Tue so hoping that will help.

22wks today last couple weeks bump has become more obvious and I actually weigh 11stone again same as pre pregnancy although was always trying to lose a stone.

Last pregnancy I weighed same at end of pregnancy as the start.

TwigletFiend · 24/07/2014 09:20

Morning, ladies. Hope everyone's braced for another warm one today.

I now have a fan running through the night in my bedroom and am also damping a spare single sheet with cold water and lying under that. It does seem to cool me down, though DP was away last night and I hardly slept at all, very unsettling when you're used to sleeping with someone else if they suddenly aren't there. I am officially a jet ski widow Hmm.

Miskate & ladydolly, I am also a OBEM watcher, though not religiously. I find myself getting a bit annoyed sometimes for various reasons, so I give it a miss on cranky days Blush.

amy, I've had job horrors the last day or so too. My print company abruptly announced that they are going to not meet the end of August deadline for my project. And even better, they didn't seem to think that that constituted a major problem! Shock So am now scrabbling around frantically getting in quotes and turnaround times from various other companies - who all wish to charge through the nose, naturally, as it's now going to be a rush job. Argh! So I totally sympathise with you Flowers

utopian, the first step to making a change is recognising what you think you're doing wrong at the moment Smile. I'm sure your weight will even out anyway. You'll probably gain less in the third trimester than the rest of us!

I have been avoiding weighing myself because I was getting a bit obsessive, but have a feeling MW is going to moan at me again over it. However, that potentially means another scan, which will be lovely! I don't think Bean has any growth issues - I can still feel movement pretty regularly most days, even with my anterior placenta - so am trying not to worry about it.

Experienced breastfeeders - did anyone struggle to get it going at all? I'd really like to bf as I personally think it's going to be very important in terms of bonding etc. as well as very convenient. I find it a bit off-putting that so much of the literature about it says it's so difficult though! I appreciate that it's a skill both you and baby need to learn and that it'll probably be uncomfortable for a while, as well as screwing with my sleep patterns. But is it really as difficult as general consensus seems to say it is? Confused

picklebum2011 · 24/07/2014 09:31

Hiya I just wondered if anyone had managed to add me, not sure if it us just me but I can't see anything.
Going to be another hot one phew, hope everyone is feeling OK.

picklebum2011 · 24/07/2014 09:33

Hiya I just wondered if anyone had managed to add me, not sure if it us just me but I can't see anything.
Going to be another hot one phew, hope everyone is feeling OK.

PosyFossilsShoes · 24/07/2014 10:06

Picklebum - from the information you gave all I can find is a "page" not a "profile" which means that I can't add you, just follow you (pages are usually created by businesses to allow people to follow them.) Either you don't have a profile on FB or you're not visible to me.

I think the only way you can do this is to go to your Facebook profile, copy and paste the address in the URL bar, and then message it to me here.

barmybunting · 24/07/2014 10:07

Picklebum, I have just tried to add you now but I can't find you for some reason. Are you searchable on FB?

This heat seems to be planning to continue. Too hot! We have three friends coming to stay on Sat for 5 days, and whilst I can't wait to see them, I am not sure I can be bothered trying to suddenly make proper food and sort out guest rooms etc. They can just live on cereal, right?

Elliekins · 24/07/2014 10:12

I had an absolute meltdown last night about OBEM, DP has resolutely refused to watch any OBEM and I think it's important that he has some idea of what to expect, slightly more realistic than what you see in Hollywood at least, but he's just been refusing.
Anyway, I'm trying to avoid watching it too much as I want try to HypnoBirth so only want to see and hear about nice, easy, calm births.
So... I thought I had saved the 2nd episode of this series which showed a Hypnobirth and he had agreed to watch it when we got home from holiday.
But last night it had gone from the Sky planner and is no longer available On Demand either.
I went slightly nuts over this.
Sent him a furious text saying that I couldn't believe he had deleted the episode, that it was so fcking selfish, how the hell was he going to support me in birth and hypno-birthing if he wouldn't even sit and WATCH 20 fcking minutes with me and that I couldn't believe he would delete it to get out of watching it, all in floods of snotty tears.
Poor bloke, he hadn't deleted it (he showed me the deleted program list), I just hadn't recorded it. Blush
Cue much more sobbing about what bastards Channel 4 are and how stupid I was.
Really scared us both, I haven't had a hysterical sobbing fit for absolutely ages!
I'm still really cross about it because I can't find the episode on YouTube, it won't play. Sad
Think there are probably loads of Hypnobirthing birth videos on YouTube, I just want THAT one.

So frustrating, but slightly melodramatic in hindsight...!

Alita7 · 24/07/2014 10:17

Those of you who have messaged me I'm just about to add you, had a problem because phone Facebook seems to massively reduce who I can find on fb so I'm just getting my laptop out :)

Petal26 · 24/07/2014 10:24

Hugs amy :-) I was very teary last week/week before as the end of school year was making me feel completely overwhelmed and stressed.

Thanks for the recommendation miskate, downloaded and ready to watch, any baby related show at the moment is all good :-)

twiglet I struggled in the beginning when I started breastfeeding, not as long as some friends did though. I remember the first two weeks being very hard. I had a good supply but it was so so painful to feed (toe curling) and that a few weeks to settle down. I was so determined to stick with it and expressed and wore shields to feed to relieve the pain in the early weeks (cracked nipples) and we ended up feeding for nearly 14 months. I am really excited to feed again, but am preparing myself for a painful/difficult few weeks! It does get easier :-)

PosyFossilsShoes · 24/07/2014 10:27

Barmy that sounds perfectly reasonable. Anyone coming round here can have toast and ice lollies, if it's a balanced diet for a pregnant person it's good enough for anybody, right? Wink

Ellie poor you! There are loads of resources online about hypnobirthing though so maybe one of those would work for you?

picklebum2011 · 24/07/2014 10:27

Thanks for trying barmy, maybe my settings are too high. Def think cereal is acceptable.
Ah I'm sorry Ellie, my dh has never been a fan of one born, I guess for them they think out of sight out of mind! Who knows what is going on in their heads!! I was angry at him yesterday as he doesn't seem to see the point of setting up cot as baby won't sleep in it for six months, so to him no hurry. What he doesn't seem to get is that I want her room all ready. Raah.
My daughter is four on Sunday and we are having a house full already worrying about getting everything ready. Oh to be a man sometimes, I know they work hard too but they never seem to have the worry we have.
Oh well day off with dd today so off to the beach beached whale style.

Petal26 · 24/07/2014 10:30

Elliekins they are all on '4od' if you search for channel 4 online, don't panic :-)
DH doesn't watch them with me and I don't think he was any less helpful for it with the birth of our DD :-)

picklebum2011 · 24/07/2014 10:34

Thanks posy will get laptop out tonight and try.

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