London - your lot sound about at useless as mine! Luckily at my booking in (Weds) the mw was sympathetic and promised to try get me a scan before the wedding in a fortnight (I'll be 13 weeks by then) and had thought I could 'safely' tell everyone by then. It is very frustrating, I'm going to be chasing them again Monday and may break down and get a private scan if they're still being rubbish.
tonights - big hugs, you're not being pathetic at all, ms can be exhausting, I had weeks of being unable to do anything except barely function, the house was a disgrace and nothing got done for anything I'm involved with. You're carrying two which is so exciting but obviously seems to come with extra yuckiness. Fingers crossed it eases soon.
blank - all the multi-vits seem to be huge but my mw was very keen that I also take vit D, maybe you can get that one as a separate smaller pill to take with the folic acid. She did say the rest weren't as important.
Take care everyone, at least it's cooler today :-D