Hey everyone,
CONGRATULATIONS to those who have had their babies and those who haven't and still have an evening to them selves and can sleep!!!
Here life is busy- was DD's 2nd birthday on Monday and DP has invited the whole world and wives to our house on Sunday to have a birthday party which was supposed to be just family and my sister is coming and hasn't even seen Ben yet, so really wanted a quiet day and spend time with MY family (I only have my sister) but no such luck. He wizzed off to work four days after he was born too so I have had DD and DS (sounds wierd typing that!) on my own and in laws coming at every opportunity to annoy me and cause me more bloody work and upset DD even more.
Dd is wonderful with him tho and just is still wanting to kiss him and stroke him head- which I think he is getting a bit fed up with but did like it when she gave him a toy plonked in his chair which he sat looking at for an hour while she triked around him.
DP is driving me mad- and I know maily becasue i'm sleep deprived but he does bugger-all!!! Comes in from work and flops in chair saying he is tired and falls asleep. So I still have DD and DS to manage when really all I want to do is fall asleep or spend quality time with them rather than half trying to do a puzzle with DD while feeding DS etc...
On the feeding front- We have given up trying to get him to latch on, the mw signed me off on Monday and showed no signs of helping me get him to latch on and i really was upset about it because (and I kinow babies never go to plan) I wanted to breast feed him. But, what'll be will be. I did express and he had one or two feed breast milk for a week but we have now stopped which I feel sad about because i'm not providing for my baby. I also know that now I physically don't have enough milk for him and don't think I could put him to my breast often enough with my commitments with DD and the bloomin' in laws coming round every two minutes.
Oh well, on a lighter note he is BEAUTIFUL and will pop some pics up soon! He is fairly good too once he's settled. I have just totally forgotten that newborn stage. He was weighed yesterday and was 10lbs1.5 ozs! and dead on two weeks old. DD was 2.5 stone! I think i'm bringing up two little piggies.
Hope everyones well and their bubs are either cooking well or being good for their mummies!