Marcey - and they are all perfectly normal feelings. I was exactly the same. I felt like I had failed as a woman and a wife. I thought I was jinxed that the one most natural thing in the world I couldn't do. The problem is, it becomes a vicious circle, the more you feel like that, the more you will act strangely which in turn will and we have to be honest it does do things to our relationships but that is to be expected. My best advice would be to sit your husband down and talk about it. There is nothing worse than it building up inside you (trust me). My second advice is to do what I did at the point when I had given up all hope; I relaxed. (even left my job as a solicitor) I took time out from calculating, noting every change in my body etc.. (you know what I mean?), i did some acunpuncture, DH and i went away for a long weekend and made it about us not about making babies, we drank copius amounts of alcohol (which ordinarily i wouldn't, esp not whilst trying to conceive) and you never guess what; I fell pregnant (we think we conceived on Valentines night!!). Life is sometimes crap to us, but you have to battle through and remember your husband married you because he loves you NOT because he saw you as a baby making machine!
My baby is a miracle, I have severe endometriosis and endometriomas, i don't ovulate and my husband had a vasectomy some 15 years ago and had it reversed 1 year ago when we were told he only had 33% good ones. I was told my a professor of IVF that I would never conceive naturally.
I really do know how you feel, but I also now know that I could never have imagined being pregnant and thought it just wasn't meant to be, alas I am pregnant and have 10 weeks left and every single day I thank god for our miracle. Just think, when it does happen, how special that little person will be to you and your DH.
How many rounds of clomid have you been on?
I wish you all the luck in the world but remember babies are not made when mummies are stressed!!!! RELAX, take time out and you never know what could happen!