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Martians 2014 Thread 15: D-Day is on the horizon

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AndieDisestablishment · 09/01/2014 20:24

Shiny new fred.

I come to check in and thread 14 was full so did the honours. Roll up.

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aloya · 10/01/2014 19:05

Hello again! About De PiepkesI bet you anything they are a Dutch group. And I can actually help (maybe) with the meaning b/c as well as being a Yank, my mother is Dutch. "Piep" means "beep" in Dutch, and "kes" is a diminutive but actually in Frisianone of the closest languages to Old English (mom can actually read parts of Beowulf). So something like "the little beepers," but I'm thinking it means "kiss" in Frisian? So, "little kissers?" I'll keep you posted--I'm sure you are waiting with baited breath. Damned insufferable American.

Slings and Baking Eating, we're adapting well, and yes, we do say "purse" and "pumps" (actually, "high heels") not to mention cookies, pants, and so many other things. I'm glad you're a bit sweary, Slings, as you'd probably enjoy the mistake I made as soon as we arrived in Ilkley: in the US, "bugger" is an affectionate name for someone, like rascal, etc. Imagine the expression on faces of the gentle old ladies at the bus-stop when, after chatting with them a moment, I looked at my 3-year-old and said, "C'mon, you little bugger!" But he came home from preschool today saying that he had a biscuit for his dinner, so I'm throughly looking forward to adventures in a language I thought I knew.

Imeg · 10/01/2014 19:15

Just thought I'd share my midwife's advice when I asked her about the raspberry leaf tea: she said it was unlikely to do any harm but not to start drinking it until 36 weeks just in case it started things going early.

liberuna · 10/01/2014 19:46

I love that sort of thing aloya

owl yes im same edd as you. Im planning to pack bag this weekend but good intentions and all that. ...

Glad sleeping baby has moved !

My nesting instincts have me eyeing up the communal stairs. I want to sweep and wash them. Resist!!! resist! !!

DitaVonCreamTeas · 10/01/2014 21:12

Hello fellow Martins. I've been lurking on MN since my positive pregnancy test in July, mainly searching for info about all the bits of me that have drooped/stretched/oozed/sprouted/itched/etc. After a bit of a scare last week with some blood and fluid loss (been checked, all fine) it's finally dawned on me that I'm actually going to have a baby, and soon (rather than just being in a state of permanent pregnancy), and that having the support of other people in the same situation might be, you know, a really good plan and stuff.

Not sure if it's rude to or not rude to do a brief intro, but hey. I'm 39, 1st pregnancy, EDD 13th March, lovely DH, deepest Devon, MN n00b. Be gentle with me.

Now the, how is everyone?

DitaVonCreamTeas · 10/01/2014 21:14

*then.

Sigh. Typo in my first post.

IceNoSlice · 10/01/2014 21:24

Welcome Dita. Not rude - nice to introduce yourself Smile

We've ebbed and flowed a bit on here, sometimes lots of posts other times not so much. But I predict we'll post more when folk start going on mat leave and it all starts to get real! I'm 32, this is DC2 - I have a 17moDS (eek, short gap!) and I'm midlands based. But we have Martians from 20-42 and from all over the UK plus one in Germany!

So pull up a chair birthing ball and get comfy.

liberuna · 10/01/2014 21:25

Welcome dita love the nickname

We're on the final stretch now.

PainAuxRaisins · 10/01/2014 21:46

aloya don't worry I call my two DDs little buggers all the time (under my breath!). I guess you'll be using 'rascal' from now on....at least in public. On a related note, sometimes I'll say to DH "Why is DD2 being such a little today?" but I've had to stop that now the eldest one is learning phonics. Welcome Dita - can't believe it has taken you this long to come find us! Hope you're feeling ok after your scare last week. Did you have to stay in hospital??

puggywug81 · 10/01/2014 22:10

Hey Martians\piepke's anyone getting driven mad by kicking and lack of, it seems like one minute I'm freaking out on the verge of ringing the midwife because I haven't felt any movement fir sine time, the next the little beast seems to be trying to kick his way out!

puggywug81 · 10/01/2014 22:12

Oops sorry for the typos! Should read for some not fir sine!

dizhin79 · 10/01/2014 23:02

hey newbs Grin the movements for me feel so strong now, it's noticeably more lurchy and not so smooth, guess there's less room in there now!

puggywug81 · 11/01/2014 06:32

Ooo something to look forward to....from kicking to lurching!

BakingEating · 11/01/2014 07:56

Morning Piepkes, welcome aboard Dita. It's a good point about feeling in a permanent state of pregnancy. I've 7 weeks left before maternity leave but even that feels surreal. Nesting has started too and I seem to only want to watch/ read about sweet fluffy things with frills and lace. I die a little inside just admitting that...

FrankelInFoal · 11/01/2014 09:02

Has anyone been able to identify which way up/round their baby is yet? I keep feeling the lumps and bumps and honestly can't tell the difference between the bum and the head! Sometimes there's so much fidgeting going on I swear she's an octopus!

Off to buy yet another new bra today, mine has been cutting into my back so I'm guessing this is the famed 3rd trimester rib expansion kicking in. Have a nice relaxing weekend everyone.

Yogibear72 · 11/01/2014 09:03

Welcome Dita, nice introduction. I'm a relative newby as well. First baby, 41, Surrey, team yellow, EDD 3rd March (buddies with Imeg, I think).
I've just discovered that my baby is head first in my pelvis and is highly unlikely to move round - so good news. Also explains pulsing movements that I feel there for 5-10 minues at a time. Baby has hiccups!

commsgirl · 11/01/2014 09:46

Hi Dita :). Your EDD is the day before mine!

pug I've been in for monitoring once because
I hadn't felt anything for 24 hours. I'm not even joking, the second they strapped the monitor on she did the biggest kick I've ever felt. Drives you mad doesn't it!

Yogi baby is head down for me too, I feel hiccups low down and all her kicks are aimed at my ribs.

Frank I bought some bra back extenders from Amazon, they've made such a difference. Might be worth a shot?

Aloya you're quite near to me in Ilkley. Your little ones will have a fab accent :) which I somehow managed never to pick up

DitaVonCreamTeas · 11/01/2014 09:50

Thanks for the welcome. Smile

I know what dizhin79 means about lurching. I'm also getting a strong squirming sensation which goes with his new-found ability to headbutt/punch/kick me in the bladder.

FrankelInFoal I went to M&S yesterday for more bras, I can't believe how much my ribcage has expanded, from a 32 to a 38. The Girls are getting huge and I've had to get some sleep bras too to avoid giving myself a black eye in the night.

BakingEating I've got 4 weeks before my 'holiday' then mat. leave starts, and although I love my job I've (currently) lost all interest in it, but give me a blog about baby-led weaning and I'll read it for hours.

Imeg · 11/01/2014 09:52

Yes Yogi, I'm 3rd March too :) I only know which way up mine is because the midwife said the head is down. She also said it has been on the right every time I've been in which makes sense as that's where I've felt movements. I think its movements are more bunched up now, with longer pauses in between: maybe preparing for bouts of rest and wake once it arrives?

dizhin79 · 11/01/2014 09:54

Oooh yes the good old bladder or cervix headbutt, little swines!! it's quite abrupt when that happens! mines def head down, tho did flip transverse the other day, my syringed movements are high up which indicates legs apparently.

hope you all have a fab weekend xx

dizhin79 · 11/01/2014 09:54

strongest not syringed...... bloody auto correct!

mimili · 11/01/2014 10:33

Hello all! I don't think I have posted for at least two threads now. Welcome to all the newbies.

We really are on the final stretch now. Everything is feeling very real. I start NCt classes this week and I am hoping it's not too airy fairy.

anyway time to catch up on about 200 posts!

pixiebell79 · 11/01/2014 10:38

Ah, that answers a lot - sounds like mine is head down too (and has been since 20 week scan)! Amazing consistency Smile Lurching is about right though - there are movements that seem to go right through my bump!

Made the mistake of going to the supermarket yesterday - was like a cripple at the end of it with Braxton Hicks... Online shopping here we come Wink

puggywug81 · 11/01/2014 11:44

Hi Martians! I have no idea which way round mine is, plenty of lumps in the bump but could be a head or an arse I have no idea. I don't think I've had any Braxton hicks yet but I'm only 29+3 and I have no idea what they feel like, I had some cramps but I think thats wind!Blush

pixiebell79 · 11/01/2014 11:55

Hi puggy, and welcome!

My BHs were just tightenings across my bump - not painful but rather uncomfortable and kind of tiring. They get most intense when I walk for any stretch.

puggywug81 · 11/01/2014 12:13

Thanks pixiebell gives me an idea of what to expect.