Hey moomin I dunno what to say about your poor OH but your mum is def right, they've got to understand that no matter how hard the loss of his uncle is, for all of them, YOU and BabyMoom are (actively or passively) part of his grieving process. But yes, subtle with the bump and a quiet arm to grasp. My DH was amazing at my grandpa's funeral last month: the absolute paragon of quiet strength for me. I however was sobbing halfway thru the first verse of the first hymn! But I was allowed, he was after all my gramps, and PREGGO HORMONES. It's going to be hard, but just try to be like my DH and your OH and his family will thank you for it (albeit in the case of his mum&sis they'll probably never tell you!)
In terms of names, I don't mind Zara having my 1st choice girl's name as her middle name. I forgive her 
I'm slightly worried that Stefani may pop out a boy and call him Leo now, anyone know what she's expecting? I don't follow The Popular Culture ~old lady at 25 face~ so I've NO IDEA. Didn't even know she and Katona were preggo! Katona will call hers something like Wayne or Jayden won't she 
. As long as nobody we know is a Katona/Stefani SUPERFAN I doubt it'll be a problem!
Baby-movement-wise, Bean seems to love kicking riiiight down inside my pelvis most of the time, and my remaining generous layer of pre-PG blubber is rather stopping DH from feeling much, but leaning back in the bath Bean's jiggling makes my bump pop out on the side and makes the water ripple so I know he/she's doing ok in there!
Blood pressure for me has always been around 110-120/80-90, pre-PG, and the latest one was 111/67, so I think I'm ok. Heart rate was 105, and I have noticed my pulse a lot more than I ever used to, so the heart-racing thing is totally holding true over here.
Yes, new thread needed so as a stay-at-home-preggo I'll check back every hour or so and get a new thread done when we need it - unless someone else beats me to it!!
And this time I'll totally remember to make the links on the top post clickable... 