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THREAD 12 Jan 2014 - The one where we start mainlining raspberry leaf tea and festive treats for "the baby"

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fryingpantoface · 17/11/2013 12:20

Thought I'd go for it

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sarahleanne · 02/12/2013 19:06

oh and I am completely addicted to the smell of my new flash febreeze bathroom cleaner Blush and I mean to the extent I am cleaning my bathroom atleast twice a day and when I go in there I spray a little bit in the sink just so I can smell it. FREAK!

Felix90 · 02/12/2013 19:10

Puggle good luck with your scan!

Sarah leaning over anything will do. It encourages baby to turn around Smile the woman at my NCT class said to sit on a chair with a pillow behind your back so you sit leant forward as this helps too. Bet you can't wait to see your DH! Does he work away?

Just found out my replacement at work has been sacked Shock and now I'm feeling super guilty for being signed off. Don't know if I should get myself back in to work for the last week or so just to help out. Apparently she ended up being rubbish and didn't do any work - I hope they don't think I didn't train her properly because I did for a few weeks and she seemed good at the job. Very odd! Also the itchiness had died off but now it's come back and it's driving me mental!

Felix90 · 02/12/2013 19:12

Haha Sarah just saw your other post! When my sister was pregnant she was OBSESSED with the smell of lemon scented cleaning products. You'd walk in to her house and get a massive shockwave of synthetic lemon smell, it was awful. She had lemon bleach, disinfectant, air freshener, the lot.

MrsVDB · 02/12/2013 19:54

sarah please come to my house!

HumptyDumptyBumpty · 02/12/2013 20:05

nature meant to say, I hope your work cooperate - have fingers crossed for you.

felix how weird she's been sacked! Any news on why? Can they just fire her out of hand for being rubbish?

sarahl we're wavering over home/birthing centre - going to visit the Birthing Centre in a week or so, then decide I think. Good for you!

sarahleanne · 02/12/2013 20:10

haha on my way mrs v with my bathroom spray Grin

felix I am glad I'm not the only weirdo and your sister was addicted to the smell of stuff too. Seriously though if anyone has a thing for fresh smells, buy the flash febreeze spray. I don't even know what it smells of, it's just lush!! When I was pregnant with DS I used to leave the top off the fabric conditioner in my room , DD I didn't have any smell cravings atall but this time I definitely do. Maybe it's another boy hmmm. Now i'm wittering to myself Hmm.
yes felix DH works on the rigs so is away 2/3 weeks out of every month.Praying he doesn't miss the birth!

I've just booked my birthing pool and tens machine for FREE wooooohooo.

sarahleanne · 02/12/2013 20:12

ooh let us know what you decide humpty. I don't have a birthing centre down this way so it was either hospital or home for me.

Felix90 · 02/12/2013 20:24

Humpty she was hired as a temp so they could get rid of her for any reason really. Apparently my manager had complaints from my engineers at work saying she kept saying there weren't any jobs for them to do etc. so she watched her for half an hour and she sat and played on her mobile for 15 minutes (which are banned in the office) and ignored phone calls from clients then kicked off when she was pulled up about it! Very weird as I thought she was good and seemed to be getting on with the job well. They have found someone to replace her but they can't start until January...

Sarah wasn't sure if he worked away or was on an extra long holiday whilst you are heavily pregnant (which is unlikely haha!). My FIL works in oil & gas and works 4 weeks on/4 weeks off over in Nigeria and OH is currently training to go in to the same sort of job. Not looking forward to him eventually working away but I suppose you just get on with it! Hopefully he will be home when baby makes an appearance?! Shock

Bluecarrot · 02/12/2013 20:25

Came on to catch up and saw the deal on the sheepskin liner, gap etc..2 hours later ive spent quite a bit!

But I was looking for the sheepskin rugs.. ahem....

Trying not to buy baby clothes as we are asking people to buy clothes or board books for the baby. Will fill in any gaps during the january sales.

Baby is head down but back to back atm. 6lbs 9oz at 35 weeks. EEk.

I research the heck out of everything but when the Dr said "we are bringing you in for a sweep on Dec 30th, my mind went blank! I said we hadnt decided on the sweep yet... Confused must re read my notes!

enormous glad you are ok. Did you know about the allergy before?
Im magically no longer as intolerant to strawberries and oranges as I used to be pre-preg...but that intolerance began in my first pregnancy 11 years ago!

frying huge amounts of sympathy from me re poxy child! Have you got calomine lotion etc for them? Is the midwife able to come out to you? I did a trial run of getting in and out of a dry bath. I will be abstaining from baths another few weeks....too much hard work for our small cramped bath :(

TobyLerone · 02/12/2013 20:29

Just made DH go on the Gap website and not many of the things we liked were on stock. Got a couple of things, though, and free postage too!

Naturegirl82 · 02/12/2013 20:31

Just put our Christmas tree in it's pot. it's massive Shock No decorations on it yet though!

sarahleanne · 02/12/2013 21:02

felix DH has booked 3 weeks off in January but starting from the day before my due date Confused (he doesn't have a set rota and is on 24 hour call out).It was a joint decision because I've never been early so I decided to try and leave it as close to my due date as I can so he has more time off with the baby afterwards. But now everyone keeps guessing that I'm going to be early which is panicking me slightly. Luckily he seems to be working just in the North sea at the moment but it still takes a good 24 hours to get home as they will have to book him on the helicopter etc. Wow how weird your OH is training to do the same thing. It is definitely a good job if you can handle being apart for long periods of time. It suits me as DH was in the navy before so I'm used to him being away now, infact I told him he HAS to get a job working away when he left the services cus I couldn't stand the thought of him being around me 24/7 haha bitch Blush.

nature I'm putting mine up tomorrow! I cant wait big kid

fryingpantoface · 02/12/2013 21:30

I sent DH out for calamine lotion, and he came back with something else as apparently they don't recommend calamine anymore. Everything I've read says that day 3 of the pox is the worst, and that's tomorrow.

DS found his Christmas present (a box full of Thomas the Tank Engine jigsaws) and went crazy when I wouldn't give it to him. Then I decided to cut his hair off (he has beautiful blonde curls) with DH's beard trimmer. To be fair it looks good. I miss his curls, but it's better to have short hair which dries quickly at the moment, especially because he has loads of spots in his head.

My phone is broken and is being taken in for repair tomorrow, so I won't have it for 7-10 days. So i'm on an old phone with tragically slow internet, NO WIFI!, and no apps. The phone is 6 years old. I'm hoping my phone comes back quicker than that.

I made a cake with DS today and MIL is coming over tomorrow for coffee and cake which is nice. DH picked up the Christmas tree (not a real one, I debated it, and then changed my mind) and decorations and we'll decorate at some point.

Now i'm looking online for baby things... I'm so hard core!

The midwife can't come to me. So if I can't find someone to watch DS i'll just have to cancel and see her at 35 weeks instead of 34. I was just going to ask her to have a quick look to see what's going on with my cervix.

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MrsGSR · 02/12/2013 21:35

Glad you're ok enormouse!

Good luck for your scan tomorrow Puggle :)

Talking of OH's being away, DH has come home and told me his boss asked him when I'm due so he can sort out his Afghan tour. Bit surprised as we didn't think he'd be going until May or later, but it might be better if it's earlier as he's less likely to miss baby's firsts; like walking, her first Christmas or her first Birthday :) I'm hoping we get dates soon so we can plan, and also a little scared as dates will make it more real!

MrsGSR · 02/12/2013 21:36

I hope day 3 isn't too bad Frying!

GummiBear74 · 02/12/2013 21:52

Wow, you've all been busy! Sorry, I can't remember much, but here's what stuck in my head:

sarahl, we were told at our nhs antenatal class that the baby's back is the heaviest part, which is why gravity will help you out if you lean forwards. I remember that kneeling on the sofa with your hands on the floor was suggested, but I think that might be hard to keep up for long! The one that sounded most comfortable to me was sitting backwards on a dining chair - straddle it and lean your arms on the back. But like Felix said, any sort of leaning forwards will help.

felix, you've been signed off work because you need to be, and it isn't your responsibility to go back and help out! They will have to learn to do without you! Good luck with the bloods.

frying, hope the worst day of the pox isn't too bad. When I had it, I remember cool baths being quite soothing (vague memory of putting bicarbonate of soda in the water?), I don't know whether that would help. Calamine lotion is fab, how can there be something better?

Glad you're ok, enormouse, allergies can be scary things.

Sorry to everyone I forgot, need to visit gap if delivery is free...

Frizz1986 · 02/12/2013 22:01

Yay the xmas shopping is done. Just got everything off amazon (nothing much as are only doing parents and grandparents)

Will the midwife say if baby is back to back? Have had my 34 week app and midwife just said that baby is still head down but no mention of back to back so do I just assume that position is currently ok as surely they would tell me if i needed to be doing anything. I have got a birthing ball now though and am trying to sit on it for half an hour a night or so. Also spent some of last night leaning on it. Just worry that when i slouch back on the sofa it would undo any good work i had done!
Really want to be able to use the MLU so need baby to be spot on!

Bluecarrot · 03/12/2013 03:24

Apparently majority of babies turn in labour anyway so its nothing too major ( just get them head down!)

Saying that, I'm encouraging mine to turn the right way and hoping she stays there!

frying I haven't had to deal with the pox for 9 years but porridge oat baths and calamine were our staple. Hope tomorrow goes ok. I'm really surprised midwife can't come out considering you are already showing signs!

mrsgsr hope your DP gets dates you want :)

quackojuliet · 03/12/2013 04:31

I have also succumbed to the lambskin liner!! In my defence I was looking for one but couldn't afford the prices I was seeing... But it'll last years! Still remember the threadbare sheepskin we had as kids.
Trying to take insomnia calmly tonight - been up almost an hour and sorted some odd socks,tights and had weetabix - love it at the moment. So grateful to have stopped work as I can lie in as long as I need to.
Don't think I'll go back into work (in 2wks) for end of term,unless pgp rights itself and I'm suddenly full of energy. Though will try and negotiate some working from home so I can get holiday pay.
Frizz - it is not your problem if she was crap! They employed her,their problem. Forgeddaboutit!

MrsVDB · 03/12/2013 07:11

quacko does this mean you know what we will use the lambskin for?? I know I want to use it in carrycot but not sure after that. Just knew I really wanted one :)

HumptyDumptyBumpty · 03/12/2013 08:06

MrsG I can only imagine - hope you get the dates you are hoping for.

felix if she was a temp, then it's their own lookout! Employers seem to think that a short-term/temp contract for rubbish pay is a diamond to be treasured. Where's her motivation to work hard? She's not getting a promotion! I hate this attitude, and I take spiteful pleasure in it being rewarded as it deserves.

Off to all day NCT class today. No idea what we will talk about for 5 hours!

MrsVDB · 03/12/2013 08:07

I'm really struggling the last few days. Absolutely shattered. Forgot to take my vits for 2 nights so think my irons super low and waking up being sick isn't helping. Worked from home yesterday but need to be in office today. Didn't get much done yesterday though as had 3 naps and just can't concentrate. Only 2 1/2 weeks left but I'm seriously considering bringing mat leave forward. I'm only 33w so not sure what to do

extracrunchy · 03/12/2013 08:21

I'm with you MrsV - 37 weeks and just totally had enough, with SPD and toddler and no sleep. Ugh. Hope your iron picks up!

fryingpantoface · 03/12/2013 09:22

Mrs bring it forward. I left work at 33+2 (Saturday just gone) and it was a brilliant idea.

with DS I left at 34+5 anyway and I really appreciated napping whenever I could

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Naturegirl82 · 03/12/2013 09:28

Do it mrsv. I was torn as well bit decided to request bringing it forward.

Best email of the day - confirmation I am finishing on Friday Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

So four days to tie up all the loose ends, best get a move on Smile