Flyer,I'm sure there's a group called Cry-sis which is specifically aimed at the parents of babies with colic/reflux who cry for hours every day/night. I will have a look for the details now.
I'm sorry things are so tough,I do remember how bloody hard & awful (understatement of the century) everything was when my first child was born. I had a c section too & my son didn't like feeding,he mangled my nipples,puked after every feed,cried like a banshee. Nightmare. But I can tell you without a doubt that things improved,I can't remember when so I won't lie about it & he was a terrible sleeper until he was about 17 months old (this is not common amongst my friends' kids,so don't despair) however,he was definitely a happy baby by 3 or 4 months (I can narrow it down that far because we bought this house at auction when he was 4.5 months & I did all the ground work alone & would not have been able to do that when he was utterly miserable). He is also one of the happiest toddlers I know.
I cut out lactose from my diet when he was about 3.5months old. It made a slight difference however,under a paediatrician & a dietician it was decided that he had an allergy to cows milk protein (once he was on solids & i had stopped bfing him - he was coming up to two I'm sure.) Amyway,my point is this - don't despair. There is an end to this stage of shitness & misery.
I am falling asleep typing this so must go & look up cry-sis. Take care of yourself & your lovely girl. You'd think with a houseful of people/in laws you would feel well supported & be able to hand A over to someone for a few.hours... I know this only happens in.movies where postnatal women don't ferociously loathe their husbands & plot satisfyingly grim & painful deaths