Hello everyone can i join? Late to the party..
I am very unexpectedly pregnant, I am still breastfeeding my 9 month old boy, haven't had a period, and only only jiggy in the bedroom once in recent living memory...but I'm pregnant!
It's taken a little getting used to as I had a very traumatic birth and we'd decided to stop at one child. I have a colostomy bag as a result of a very serious tear sustained during delivery, and the weight of another pregnancy isn't going to do my wrecked pelvic floor much good. The chances of ever being 'normal' again are getting slimmer, but there we are.
I am taking myself out of the NHS system completely. I've had an early scan at The Birthing Company which showed me to be 7+1 with a lovely beating heart! I will have private consultant care, and my insurance company have authorised an elective section at the Portland Hospital.
All very different from last time round, which ws a planned homebirth which didn't go to plan!
I am 35, as is my husband, and our son is 9 months. He slept through the night for the first time last night, couldn't come soon enough....might as well get this one sorted on the sleep before the next one rocks up!
I am due 13 Feb but will be delivered a few weeks early to make sure I don't go in to labour which would not have a good effect on what is left of my pelvic floor.
I am so tired I want to lie down and cry all day, but alas not allowed with a very active 9 month old! I was the same with him, no sickness as long as I kept eating and it's te same this time. REally looking forward to piling on the pounds (or should I say 3 stone) again.
I think I'll have to wean my son earlier than I'd planned, the breastfeeding is HARD when I'm this knackered.
Congrats to all of us, looking forward to chatting over the next few months.
x