Morning everyone!
Misty, so your dh "finds pregnant women scary" etc, etc... I am aghast that he should be so insensitive - you need to remember (and remind him) that you are in the most magnificent stage of womanhood. Your body is making a human being, and it's an amazing thing to do. You don't have to put up with those kind of remarks. Or, indeed the stretchmark remarks that you're getting, Booby. Any other comments should be met with "Don't be ridiculous. I'm magnificent." And 'fat' comments, even made in jest, met with "I'm pregnant. What's your excuse?" There's no need for people to be so personal about your appearance, just because you're pregnant.
Everyone has some kind of sensitive issue, and people wouldn't dare say, for example, "Look at your horrible acne, it's really flared up today!" or things of that nature. Pregnant women (and new mothers) seem to be targets for everyone's comments, because people just don't know what to say, and don't know how to react to them. Even if you don't feel it at the time, tell yourself you're experiencing THE most amazing part of being a woman - jobs, careers, looks, youth all come and go - the fact that you are brave enough to put your body through this process (and change your life forever afterwards) is one of the single greatest things an average woman can do. In the face of that, disparaging comments are worth nothing.
Oops. Got a bit carried away with the rant there.
Eeny, re: baby oil. That's a mineral oil made made from liquid paraffin. Something more natural might not bring you out in a rash. Have a look at this site \link{http://www.little-green-nursery.co.uk\The Little Green Nursery}- it has lots of properly natural products (unlike some high street brands). The 'About Us' and 'Information' sections are an interesting read.