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TinkerBellaFlora · 09/07/2012 14:52

Hi everyone... ok this time I made some notes...

Popinda: It was me who said about feeling sick on the train. I wasn't ever actually sick first time around (v lucky I know) so not sure what I would have done.

Somewhat unrelated, I recently had a bout of food sickness which started at work and was just awful. I destroyed the ladies loo (door, sink, toilet, floor) before finally feeling up to getting a taxi home (muttering my apologies to the lovely cleaning lady before I fled the scene). I warned the driver before we set off (not that I need to; I reaked of vomit to the extent that, despite it being a typical summer's day (i.e. raining and freezing cold) he pointedly had all the windows all the way down). About half way home I thought 'amazing, I'm going to make it without any further humiliation'. About 5 mins later I thought 'I'm def going to puke again' so I asked the guy to pull over. I had to repeat the request three times, then he finally said he would stop shortly whilst gesturing at some indistinct place in the distance. At this point I projectiled vomitted all over the chair in front (which I noticed had a nice deep leather pocket as I watched my vomit slipping down into it). I knew I wasn't out of the woods so grabbed the carrier bag from my handbag, which I'd sensibly packed for the trip home, but I didn't get chance to open the bag and was sick again in such violent fashion that it just re-bounded off the bag into my face. Sick was literally dripping off my face (even my eye lashes) onto my lap. The driver turned out to be lovely in the end and refused to take any money for the clean up (I think I must have looked pretty pathetic by this point and he noted that he had been warned) but I felt awful about the car. On the positive side the pool of vomit I was sat in for the last 20 mins of my journey was at least warm. As I got home and my DP clocked me covered head to toe in vomit I just said 'and you think you've had a bad day'! In short I have no idea how you cope if you get morning sickness bad. I'm hoping it doesn't go beyond the sort of motion sickness I got last time (and occasional dry retching if I hadn't eaten enough and a bad smell wafted my way) this time again for me. If you do get it bad though I don't think there is anything for it but to hole up for the duration...

Woody: My DD has a Sophie the Giraffe toy and I agree it's adorable. I'm going to the docs this week to get into the system but, from what I recall last time, it wasn't until about the 9 week point I had my first midwife/booking in appointment.

Mandasand: As HeeHee said, you're not obliged to say anything at the 12 week scan point (although it may start to get difficult to hide especially if you're like me and eat like a woman possessed the first few months). Also, I was wondering... couldn't it even be seen as a good thing for you to deliver on your current projects, and be showing high levels of commitment, whilst your boss knows you are pregnant? You don't need to sign up to any maternity arrangements early on so you could still defer discussions on that until you have delivered on the current projects.

Sorry to hear that so many of you are suffering (HeeHee, Hitchingirl, Tay, Carikube, bbface, Harpie to name a few!). Apart from a spot of breathlessness I've felt disconcertingly normal today (to the extent that I did another digi test and was relieved to see I've gone from the 1-2 weeks last wednesday to now being 2-3 weeks today so I'm trying not to fret). It's still such early days though from me. I swing from feeling unbelievably excited to properly annoyed with myself for counting babies before their born and potentially jinxing myself.

Better go but hope everyone takes care of themselves (and is well stocked for ginger biscuits Smile).

TinkerBellaFlora · 09/07/2012 14:57

Ahem, that shoud be "counting babies before they're born". Also no idea why HeeHee wasn't shown in bold, but at least I'm making progess...

HeeHeeHeeBum · 09/07/2012 15:24

Sorry for the self indulgent post, I just need to vent. I have been to the docs to tell them I was pregnant and to get my back checkout out and it was horrible. She told me it was too early because 50% of pregnancies end in miscarriage at this point and to come back at the end of the month. I know this is true but having only just started to get over mine, this really upset me. I got in my car to drive back to work and cried. She made me an appointment with her for the end of the month but I'm tempted to cancel and make one with the doctor that looked after me through my mc instead.

HeeHeeHeeBum · 09/07/2012 15:25

Please excuse the mistakes, that was supposed to say "get my back checked out" Blush

kurlyvoice · 09/07/2012 15:53

Heehee, you poor thing. Angry I can't believe the doctor said that to you. I would definitely go and see someone different and direct my first bout of morning sickness at her. And that statistic is total crap. I'd probably complain, too, but then I'm a bit feisty!

HeeHeeHeeBum · 09/07/2012 16:01

Thank you kurly that made me laugh :)

backwardpossom · 09/07/2012 16:12

HeeHee that's terrible. Angry Definitely complain. And it's 1 in 4, not 50%... Twat.

These early days go so slowly don't they? I'm checking my knickers constantly (stupid miscarriage)... normal right? Boobs starting to get bigger and slightly sore, particularly before I go to bed. Also very tired. That's about all the symptoms I have though. Am off to France in the morning, so I'll be able to relax for a week and a bit. Will phone midwife and get an appointment when we get home :)

Hope you're all doing well, I'll attempt to catch up when I get home!

HeeHeeHeeBum · 09/07/2012 16:18

Thanks possom. I'm knicker checking too (yes, stupid, stupid miscarriage). I had a bit of a panic yesterday because I did another test and the line wasn't as dark as I thought it would be. Ooh, France, how lovely :) Hope you have a nice time.

jessi0343 · 09/07/2012 17:10

Awww heehee that really sucks. I hate insensitive health care professionals!! Definitely rebook with the one you've had a history with

As for me, I'm having a bit of a meltdown. I have some dull yet sharp pains on my lower right side of pelvis. That, combined with brown spotting, when googling = potential ectopic pregnancy and I'm panicking. DH just helped calm me a bit buy i'm still upset. Its not incredibly painful, and its not heavy bleeding, so I don't really fit the qualifications to go to A&E, and EPU doesn't like to see anyone before 7 weeks which is still another week away... so now I'm just waiting it out.

pipsicles · 09/07/2012 17:13

That's awful HeeHee! I take it she knew about your mc? People can be so bloody insensitive at times it makes my blood boil! Angry We can only assume she's never been through such a terrible experience!

I'm backwards and forwards about worrying. My tummy seems to have settled down now, although I look to be at least 4mths gone already as a result! I haven't done a test for a good few days now but think I might cave later today! Of course, my worry is that really that means nothing either - I had a lovely dark line after my last baby died, I just didn't know it :( I'm still getting lots of other symptoms, but again, know that didn't mean anything for me last time either. I think I might just end up in a blind panic at some stage and end up phoning EPU to ask really nicely for an early scan. I'm only 5+2 today though (according to ov date) so will try to hold out a bit longer. Speaking of which, would anyone else give their LMP at booking if it made their scan likely to be earlier? I know I ov three weeks into cycle, not 2, but that would mean I'd get an earlier scan wouldn't it?!

Tinkerbella I'm glad to hear you're getting breathless too - I was worrying a bit!

I should go and give DS his tea really (bad mother! Blush)

TinkerBellaFlora · 09/07/2012 17:16

That's awful HeeHee (not to mention entirely inaccurate!). I would def see a different doctor if possible and would mention to them that I thought the other doctor had been extremely unhelpful and was ill informed to boot...

Aw jessie, if it's any help I had that with my first preg around the six week point and it all turned out just fine. It is way more common than I realised at the time. If your symptoms get worse though I would go to EPU (I assume it's that they prefer you to wait until 7 weeks rather than they point blank won't see you).

pipsicles · 09/07/2012 17:17

Not glad - that sounds terrible! Reassured!

Jessi I'm glad DH has been able to calm you down a bit. Remember that spotting and cramping is normal (even on one side occasionally) and that google is evil (sometimes!). Keep an eye on your symptoms and definitely go to a&e if they get worse. (does anyone else think that an EPU that doesn't like to see you before 7weeks is a bit contradictory?! "We deal in early pregnancy, but only the second half of early pregnancy" ridiculous! IMHO)

Right. dinner!

jessi0343 · 09/07/2012 17:22

Thanks Tinker and Pip! Feel much better and yes google is evil. I know the EPU won't turn me away, they just prefer 7 weeks don't they.. I will calm down, hopefully things won't get worse, and stay off google! Thanks everyone for supporting words!

Hitchingal · 09/07/2012 17:54

HeeHee that is awful, so sorry you had that experience! Hope you get to speak to someone nicer soon..
Anyone else finding it hard to concentrate at work? It suddenly seems much less important - un fortunately job is rather fast moving & I need to be on the ball! Struggling a bit! Blush

Popinda · 09/07/2012 17:56

jessie i would def go to a&e! I had sane symptoms, went to a&e and they were so nice about it! Sent me to epu the next day and got early scan out of it and another one at 8weeks. Everything was ok! I was only 5+4. The scan said im 5weeks exactly which would make sense as i ov on the cd18. pip i still gave them my lmp and thats how they calculated my edd, but i think it will be born a bit later, i also point it out that my cycles are 30days. Didnt make any difference to them. I assume the 12week dating scan will give a better estimate of the due date.

kurlyvoice · 09/07/2012 19:00

Jessie, I was also very well-treated at A&E (and then when transferred to the surgical assessment unit, which I think is their EPU substitute. Given that I'm still having some bad cramps I may go back once I'm 7/8 weeks to check all is ok, but having bloods done, linked with scan (also at 5+4), really helped me stress a bit less over the weekend.

Interested about your LMP vs ov date experience, Pops. My doctor was pleased that I had such a good idea of my cycle, and it meant that there wasn't any worry about not seeing the baby at that point.

mandasand · 09/07/2012 19:14

I think that doc deserves a bit of a complaint, HeeHee. how bloody insensitive. Definitely go see the doc you've a history with if you can.

I've had lots of sharp pains, too, Jessi, though no pattern as to which side. If it was just on one side, plus spotting, then I'd get me to the A&E pronto (I don't know anything about EPU so can't advise on that). Best safe than sorry, and it's no god worrying :-) Take care.

Thanks, TinkerBellaFlora, that's a really useful way of looking at it. I couldn't really concentrate on the phone to my boss earlier for the persistent feeling of slight nausea so if it gets any worse (and once I start showing more than my usual belly!) then it is going to have to come up in conversation! Thanks for the food sickness story! Made me laugh (sorry!) and reminded me of something along that vein (but nowhere as bad). I was in a haberdashery store a few years ago and started to feel a bit faint, so asked if I could sit down ? but before they brought a chair I realised I was going to vomit, so asked to use their loo, which I had to occupy for rather a long time. Vomiting AND the other end. OMG I've never been so embarrassed! I managed to clean up and get home okay in a cab, and was well enough the next day to take them some chocs!

motherOfOne27 · 09/07/2012 19:42

Hello everyone,
After four faint positives yesterday, a negative from the doctor this morning (after just managing a drop of wee) I got a positive on a digital clear blue which has said I'm 2-3 weeks :) This is probably the reason for faint positives and a negative!
I'm very happy and this will be my second child, my first is 6 years old and amazing he's going to be great I'm sure of it.
So Congratulations everyone and again hi xx

MrsBradleyCooper · 09/07/2012 19:45

I'm on my phone so I can't really read and respond to all posts, sorry. But I hope anyone having difficulties is ok. Please don't suffer in silence. If you are at all worried you can always ring NHS direct and they can tell you what to do. I always feel it's better if you're a bit unsure if you turn up at A&E and say that NHS direct told you to come in Grin

Well today I feel like my boobs might explode. Poor dS tried to lean on me for a cuddle and was promptly removed - poor thing.

I'm also exhausted. I have yet to make dinner and have to tidy up toys, get DS pe stuff ready etc but am lying in bed and feel like I am velcro'd on. Grin

DH will just need to get used to doing more round the house.....

MrsBradleyCooper · 09/07/2012 19:47

Congrats and welcome motherofone Smile

motherOfOne27 · 09/07/2012 19:53

Thank you MrsBradleyCooper
Can hardly contain my excitement, but until I'm 12 weeks I'm going to keep quiet to anyone at work etc.. its going to very hard to do.
My first was 10lbs on the dot and I had gestational diabetes so hope I don't have another big one I could barely move with him!
I'm a healthy size 10/12 now so I'm not built for giving birth to 3 month old babies lol xx

motherOfOne27 · 09/07/2012 19:57

I'm a bit confused although my due date says I'm five weeks my test says 2-3 not weeks just says 2-3.. is this when I conceived ?
Am I five weeks already? xx

ThreeForTea · 09/07/2012 19:59

tinker epic sick story back there, must have been horrid!

jessi agree with popinda, I had a good exp with nice a&e epu staff when pg with dd, similar pain etc v early on.

heehee that gp sounds pretty duff. I'd switch.

I've mostly felt pretty ok so far give or take the boobage or needing to pee a lot. Oh yes and tiredness. And irritable when there's no food around, anyone else had that?
But apart from all that...!

My crampings can be quite sharp and take me by suprise. My biggest fear (aside from mc) is uti, I had them constantly in first pg, and am pretty sure I had one just before lost baby. :( iv asked the doctor I saw to put into my notes for midwife to check my urine every appt for my peace of mind as last pregnancy got to 10 weeks without being checked once. Surgery has only booked me in for first appointment on 31st July though, i'll be 8 weeks, if I start panicing though or feeling anything bad before then it will be back to gp or put of
.hours I go #takingnochances!

So cravings for carbs is up and away, ate a packet of jersey royals for tea!

ThreeForTea · 09/07/2012 20:04

Hi motherofone Congrats! On cb digital they give you it on weeks since conception so add 2 weeks to that to tell how many weeks pregnant you count as

TinkerBellaFlora · 09/07/2012 20:09

Welcome and congrats motherofone and what Three said re the digi test.

Pips - I knew exactly what you meant Smile

Having said I was going to be awol until the w/e I'm somewhat Blush about how much I've managed to witter on today so will sign off now ... Hope everyone has a good night...