re moses stands, we had a rocking stand for DS and it was perfectly safe, and proved a godsend as he was a nightmare to get to sleep, and the rocking motion helped along with a hot water bottle (later turned out he had reflux which is why he was happy to sleep upright on me forever but would wake screaming the second we tried to put him in the basket!) but he outgrew the basket by 11 weeks so we then bought a glider crib from mothercare, again the rocking was very much needed by DS, but i guess some babies don't need rocking.
re jelly jaggy i lost a lot of my plug at 35 weeks exactly, and went into labour 38+5 and DS was born 38+6. i remember the midwife saying if you do lose some early, your body is able to make some more, so no guarantee that it means labour is imminent.
can't speak swedish etc, but can also do cat and chicken talk, and would probably manage to order something i'd like from a french menu.
wants really hope your DN is ok, if it is any comfort, he is in one of the best places he could be, friends of ours lost their little boy to cancer last year, but they were full of praise for the care he received at GOSH and for everything they did for him, it is an amazing hospital with so many experts there, but must be worrying for you and your family all the same.