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little kicks and a bit less sick - half way to June 2012

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Kveta · 22/01/2012 16:08

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crackersncheese · 06/02/2012 17:14

Awww lovely scan news from everyone.

Ellybet I'm fuming on your behalf. I had a second go at the 20week scan as baby spent the first one upside down. The 2nd sonographer was really rushed. I'd have been devasted if we hadn't had a lovely one the week before.

Got my baby gates today, far too excited. Getting them up early so the dog gets used to them. He's been our surrogate baby for the last 2 years so the next 4 months is operation stop the pooch being so clingy. Don't think he's going to like it much.

Hope everyone gets a relaxed evening

AmethystMoon · 06/02/2012 18:53

Congrats on a good scan and your little girl kayzr Smile
Cobgrats on your little girl Millyv and enjoy Dubai Smile
Good luck for your scan tomorrow itchy
Warlin thank you for the reasuurance, I feel much better now...glad I am not the only one with a 'lax' attitude to my diet right now Grin
Ellybett I am so Angry at your sonographer, how rude! so lacking in empathy, how does she think she's going to make you feel speaking to you like that..grrrrrr. People like that don't deserve to have jobs with the potential for so much happiness.
Miniangel 14:00, so we'll be finding out at almost the same time, escpecially as they're always running late in my antenatal clinic Grin. I'll be thinking of you, so hope they can tell the sex

SeriouslyStrongCheddar · 06/02/2012 19:42

Evening all!

Congrats to all the other Monday scanners!

Ellybett - sorry you had such a crappy sonographer. Very Angry for you.

Well, had my scan this morning. Drank my 2 pints of water 2 hours before (water had been in the boot of the car over night and was very cold, so that wasn't fun)! We got to the hospital about 25 mins before appt time and DH dropped me off and went to park the car. At this point I was dying for a wee. Practically as soon as I sat down, the sonographer called me, 20 mins early! I asked if I could wait for DH so she said she'd come back for me. In the end, a different sonographer called me - 30 mins after my appt time! I was so desperate for a pee I just walked in and said to him "please be quick, I'm desperate for a wee!" He was quite pleased with this as said he prefers to be quick but usually feels he has to spend lots of time for people to see baby - my response was pretty much "get on with it man, times a-wastin' and my bladder can't take it". Grin

Scan went well, all measurements average and it's a boy! I'm so pleased as we were both hoping for a boy. He behaved impeccably and was much more chilled out than the first scan, so easier to measure.

Then, waited to get called by the midwife and then consultant. An hour later..the midwife tried to take my blood pressure with one of the auto sphygs (which I never get on with) and it nearly took my arm off at the elbow with the pressure before it gave up. Rather worried, I watched as she hooked up the manual one, thinking I was guaranteed a high reading now. But no! Blood pressure still spot on!

Finally, saw the lovely consultant who said everything looks fine and I broached the subject of homebirth as my community midwife had said early on it wasn't recommended because of my weight and I'd need to discuss it with the consultant. Consultant said it was too early to discuss really, would do it at the 36 week appt (which is what I expected, but midwife had told me to discuss with her at this appt) but that if all carried on the way it is, she can't see why I couldn't have a home birth! I am absolutely over the moon. I know this isn't a guarantee - my blood pressure needs to stay okay, need to avoid any protein in wee, need to have an okay GTT and baby growth needs to stay average, but now I feel like I'm being treated fairly and on an even playing field; the decision will be based on health rather than pigeon-holing me based on my weight. I can't begin to tell you how fantastic this makes me feel.

Anyway, sorry for the essay - I'll leave you all in peace now! Grin

SeriouslyStrongCheddar · 06/02/2012 19:43

Adding my boy!

1st timers in wonder
1st June MrsKitchen #1
6th June HorseyGirl #1
7th June MammaInTheMaking #1
12th June LadyGrace #1
14th June tipp2chicago #1
14th June Warlin #1 Boy
15th June ceeej #1 Girl
15th June Miniangel #1
16th June Fireflies #1
16th June HelssjBells #1
16th June crackersncheese #1 Boy
18th June Millyv #1 Girl!
19th June SeriouslyStrongCheddar #1 Boy
19th June MorningHasBroken #1
21st June TeaandHobnobs #1 Boy
21st June ChateauMargot #1 Girl
21st June Florin #1 Boy
23rd June Emblosion #1
23rd June AmethystMoon #1
23rd June SpecialJK #1
23rd June MonkeyJr #1
26th June Itchyfootedlady #1
27th June exBrightonBell #1
28th June honeybee23 #1
30th June PinkPepper #1

2nd timers Excited but scared because this time we KNOW!
5th June Kveta #2 Girl
6th June Novmama #2
6th June justwantscheese #2 Girl
6th June Fubble #2
13th June Rrrrayray #2 Boy
15th June Jubble #2
15th June ffnorm#2 girl
16th June Thedogwalker (TDW) #2 Boy
17th June Fluffymitchell #2
19th June violets #2
21st June SarahBumbarer #2
20th June rhibutterfly#2 Girl
23rd June Ellybett #2
26th June callmemamma #2

3rd plus timers Excited but a bit Meh!
6th June mrsshears #3
6th June Dalrymps #3 Boy
9th June Starlight #3
10th June BlueAndRedMakePurple #4 Boy
12th June Greengoose #3
15 June Ecstatica # 4
20th June CathFin #3
21st June Kayzr #3 Girl
?? June Boysrstupid #3

callmemamma · 06/02/2012 21:35

I loved reading all scan newsSmile !
Congrats on your girls millyv and kayzr and your boy seriously and your 'most likely' boy Special
Gutted for you ellybett,surely your private scan will go better..
Now finally my turn tomorrowSmile I've got last appointment at 15.30..need to keep myself busy till then..

bemybebe · 06/02/2012 21:42

Congrats to all who saw their babies today! Seriously congratulations on your boy! Smile Elly so cross on your behalf with your sonographer, hopefully you will get someone more understanding on Friday.

We had a scan with the fetal cardiologist today as my dh suffers from congenital heart problems. So far so good, but they warned that it is too early too rule major things out, we will have to come back in late April.

10000fireflies · 06/02/2012 21:45

Gread news on all the scans! Good luck to everyone else who has them tomorrow.

violets · 06/02/2012 21:54

Thanks for the supportive messages.

I'm still feeling like a twat, and am trying desperately to banish the whole episode from my memory. A case of come on baby brain help me to forget!

Baby is having a wild one today, kicking like crazy in there just below the waistband of my trousers. My waistline is expanding. I had to put my belt on to stop my trousers falling down, but had to undo it so i wasn't in pain driving along.

2 year old DD1 has taken to talking to imaginary friends - Jason? Michelle? She is also doing pretend play with a dolly, who she calls baby angel - putting her in the cot and singing to her, changing her nappy, which just melts my heart. It is the lovely things like that I need to fill my head with.

Take care everyone.

rachyroodle · 06/02/2012 21:54

Hi all, thought I would say hello. First baby is due on 12th June - had our scan so know what I am having but not allowed to say. Compromise with hubby who didn't really want to find out at all! It is so difficult to keep quiet when I am so excited!! Anyone else in the same boat?

Sorry to hear you did not have a good scan Ellybett :( . A chocolate muffin sounds just the job. I find that a kit kat chunky always lifts my mood! My first scan the sonographer was lovely and really excited for us, even though she must have scanned 100 bellies already that day. For my second scan the lady was all business.

After reading all your posts I think I must be missing out by not watching Call the Midwife. I will try to catch it this week...

ellybett · 06/02/2012 22:10

Violets Grin at your DD. How cute! Does she understand what you have in your tummy yet? My DD who's also 2 is telling everyone she has a baby in her tummy too and flashing it at all and sundry on every given opportunity! My bump seems to have popped out a bit too and even using DD's hair bands through the button loop the work trousers are still tight!

SSC yay, for your boy! Good instincts!

Good luck with tomorrow mamma. Is mini and amethyst tomorrow too? Sorry, just am unable to retain information at the moment!

Welcome rachyroodle. Add your stats to the last list shown. We're a nice bunch here!

So the place I'm going to on Friday also did the scans for colleen rooney and jennifer ellison. I'm thinking maybe I should go with rollers in my hair!

rachyroodle · 06/02/2012 22:41

Adding my bump to the stats!

1st timers in wonder
1st June MrsKitchen #1
6th June HorseyGirl #1
7th June MammaInTheMaking #1
12th June LadyGrace #1
12th June Rachyroodle #1
14th June tipp2chicago #1
14th June Warlin #1 Boy
15th June ceeej #1 Girl
15th June Miniangel #1
16th June Fireflies #1
16th June HelssjBells #1
16th June crackersncheese #1 Boy
18th June Millyv #1 Girl!
19th June SeriouslyStrongCheddar #1 Boy
19th June MorningHasBroken #1
21st June TeaandHobnobs #1 Boy
21st June ChateauMargot #1 Girl
21st June Florin #1 Boy
23rd June Emblosion #1
23rd June AmethystMoon #1
23rd June SpecialJK #1
23rd June MonkeyJr #1
26th June Itchyfootedlady #1
27th June exBrightonBell #1
28th June honeybee23 #1
30th June PinkPepper #1

2nd timers Excited but scared because this time we KNOW!
5th June Kveta #2 Girl
6th June Novmama #2
6th June justwantscheese #2 Girl
6th June Fubble #2
13th June Rrrrayray #2 Boy
15th June Jubble #2
15th June ffnorm#2 girl
16th June Thedogwalker (TDW) #2 Boy
17th June Fluffymitchell #2
19th June violets #2
21st June SarahBumbarer #2
20th June rhibutterfly#2 Girl
23rd June Ellybett #2
26th June callmemamma #2

3rd plus timers Excited but a bit Meh!
6th June mrsshears #3
6th June Dalrymps #3 Boy
9th June Starlight #3
10th June BlueAndRedMakePurple #4 Boy
12th June Greengoose #3
15 June Ecstatica # 4
20th June CathFin #3
21st June Kayzr #3 Girl
?? June Boysrstupid #3

violets · 06/02/2012 23:01

Ellybett that is very cute :-) Dd loves kissing my tum, singing and whispering to baby. My sis bought her a sweet book 'there's a house in mummy's tummy' which I think has helped her to understand a bit. Dd has moments where she regresses into wanting mummy milk - hope she's over that quickly ;-)

Glad for all those who's scans have gone well, snow permitting :-) can't imagine how hard it is to keep it a secret!

Night all x

bemybebe · 06/02/2012 23:31

Getting myself on this list also... was a bit reluctant to add before, but now the vital scan is done, I am more comfortable.

1st timers in wonder
1st June MrsKitchen #1
6th June HorseyGirl #1
7th June MammaInTheMaking #1
12th June LadyGrace #1
12th June Rachyroodle #1
14th June tipp2chicago #1
14th June Warlin #1 Boy
15th June ceeej #1 Girl
15th June Miniangel #1
16th June Fireflies #1
16th June HelssjBells #1
16th June crackersncheese #1 Boy
18th June Millyv #1 Girl!
19th June SeriouslyStrongCheddar #1 Boy
19th June MorningHasBroken #1
21st June TeaandHobnobs #1 Boy
21st June ChateauMargot #1 Girl
21st June Florin #1 Boy
23rd June Emblosion #1
23rd June AmethystMoon #1
23rd June SpecialJK #1
23rd June MonkeyJr #1
26th June Itchyfootedlady #1
27th June exBrightonBell #1
28th June honeybee23 #1
30th June PinkPepper #1

2nd timers Excited but scared because this time we KNOW!
5th June Kveta #2 Girl
6th June Novmama #2
6th June justwantscheese #2 Girl
6th June Fubble #2
13th June Rrrrayray #2 Boy
15th June Jubble #2
15th June ffnorm#2 girl
16th June Thedogwalker (TDW) #2 Boy
17th June Fluffymitchell #2
19th June violets #2
21st June SarahBumbarer #2
20th June rhibutterfly#2 Girl
22nd June bemybebe #2
23rd June Ellybett #2
26th June callmemamma #2

3rd plus timers Excited but a bit Meh!
6th June mrsshears #3
6th June Dalrymps #3 Boy
9th June Starlight #3
10th June BlueAndRedMakePurple #4 Boy
12th June Greengoose #3
15 June Ecstatica # 4
20th June CathFin #3
21st June Kayzr #3 Girl
?? June Boysrstupid #3

TheLittleMe · 07/02/2012 06:15

Adding myself to the stats:
1st timers in wonder
1st June MrsKitchen #1
6th June HorseyGirl #1
7th June MammaInTheMaking #1
12th June LadyGrace #1
12th June Rachyroodle #1
14th June tipp2chicago #1
14th June Warlin #1 Boy
15th June ceeej #1 Girl
15th June Miniangel #1
16th June Fireflies #1
16th June HelssjBells #1
16th June crackersncheese #1 Boy
18th June Millyv #1 Girl!
19th June SeriouslyStrongCheddar #1 Boy
19th June MorningHasBroken #1
21st June TeaandHobnobs #1 Boy
21st June ChateauMargot #1 Girl
21st June Florin #1 Boy
23rd June Emblosion #1
23rd June AmethystMoon #1
23rd June SpecialJK #1
23rd June MonkeyJr #1
26th June Itchyfootedlady #1
27th June exBrightonBell #1
28th June honeybee23 #1
30th June PinkPepper #1

2nd timers Excited but scared because this time we KNOW!
5th June Kveta #2 Girl
6th June Novmama #2
6th June justwantscheese #2 Girl
6th June Fubble #2
13th June Rrrrayray #2 Boy
15th June Jubble #2
15th June ffnorm#2 girl
16th June Thedogwalker (TDW) #2 Boy
17th June Fluffymitchell #2
19th June violets #2
19th June TheLittleMe #2 Girl
21st June SarahBumbarer #2
20th June rhibutterfly#2 Girl
22nd June bemybebe #2
23rd June Ellybett #2
26th June callmemamma #2

3rd plus timers Excited but a bit Meh!
6th June mrsshears #3
6th June Dalrymps #3 Boy
9th June Starlight #3
10th June BlueAndRedMakePurple #4 Boy
12th June Greengoose #3
15 June Ecstatica # 4
20th June CathFin #3
21st June Kayzr #3 Girl
?? June Boysrstupid #3

FluffyMitchell · 07/02/2012 07:16

Hi everyone, glad to hear about all the scans. I had mine yesterday - it was amazing, as everything was so clear, even the little mouth swallowing and little arms moving around. The radiographer (or sonographer?) was 99% sure it's a girl. Am so happy as now my DS will have a little sister.
I also found out that I am due on 16th, not the 17th after all, so have updated my stats:
Adding myself to the stats:
1st timers in wonder
1st June MrsKitchen #1
6th June HorseyGirl #1
7th June MammaInTheMaking #1
12th June LadyGrace #1
12th June Rachyroodle #1
14th June tipp2chicago #1
14th June Warlin #1 Boy
15th June ceeej #1 Girl
15th June Miniangel #1
16th June Fireflies #1
16th June HelssjBells #1
16th June crackersncheese #1 Boy
18th June Millyv #1 Girl!
19th June SeriouslyStrongCheddar #1 Boy
19th June MorningHasBroken #1
21st June TeaandHobnobs #1 Boy
21st June ChateauMargot #1 Girl
21st June Florin #1 Boy
23rd June Emblosion #1
23rd June AmethystMoon #1
23rd June SpecialJK #1
23rd June MonkeyJr #1
26th June Itchyfootedlady #1
27th June exBrightonBell #1
28th June honeybee23 #1
30th June PinkPepper #1

2nd timers Excited but scared because this time we KNOW!
5th June Kveta #2 Girl
6th June Novmama #2
6th June justwantscheese #2 Girl
6th June Fubble #2
13th June Rrrrayray #2 Boy
15th June Jubble #2
15th June ffnorm#2 girl
16th June Thedogwalker (TDW) #2 Boy
16th June Fluffymitchell #2 Girl
19th June violets #2
19th June TheLittleMe #2 Girl
21st June SarahBumbarer #2
20th June rhibutterfly#2 Girl
22nd June bemybebe #2
23rd June Ellybett #2
26th June callmemamma #2

3rd plus timers Excited but a bit Meh!
6th June mrsshears #3
6th June Dalrymps #3 Boy
9th June Starlight #3
10th June BlueAndRedMakePurple #4 Boy
12th June Greengoose #3
15 June Ecstatica # 4
20th June CathFin #3
21st June Kayzr #3 Girl
?? June Boysrstupid #3

CathFin · 07/02/2012 07:38

Ellybet - hope you feel a bit better about it today - I would probably complain if I were you. I didn't second time around which meant this time I was much more stressed about going for my scans. Luckily this time my sonographer was a delight!

My second one is on Thursday - this week is going very slowly!

Seriously Its very odd about the water drinking thing - here they don't want you have a full bladder and she was going to make me go for a wee at my last scan.

Great that all the scans are going well - can't keep up with all the news!

ThePicKvickPapers · 07/02/2012 09:30

yay to all the little girls and boys and generally the healthy babies - can't believe how real it's all seeming now! I have 4 months to go, which seems like ages, but obviously is nothing! Good luck to all those with scans today!

Don't have time to name check I'm afraid, as for once I am actually working (who'd have thought it?!), and have had some sleep after a few awful nights, so am a bit sleep-drunk and delerious. DS has slept amazingly the past few nights, so DH and I are making the most of it :o

Baby is kicking like mad at fairly regular intervals, she is still keen on booting me in the bladder, but with an occasional thump to the front. Insomnia still generally present, nausea coming and going, but not been throwing up too much. wish it would just go once and for all! Um, nothing else to report, excpet the snow is melting, so DS is disappointed - he has LOVED the snow, which we think explains the sudden sleeping.

have a lovely tuesday everyone!

ThePicKvickPapers · 07/02/2012 09:30

oh, 'tis Kveta btw, namechanged for the dickens comp...

Warlin · 07/02/2012 10:47

Morning all

Congrats on your little boy ssc, I'm also in the blue club :) And congrats on your girl fluffy Also gald that the home birth is looking like a strong possibility. Reassuring when you seem to have no issues...mind you I'm sure you want to plan a bit before 36 weeks!

There is so much happening on this thread that it's hard to keep up!

kveta love the new name....my baby is kicking my bladder constantly too...dying to go but when I do it's just a trickle :( not pleasant.

Welcome bemy...we are not telling anyone else the sex either but fellow mumsnetters don't count Grin. We are having a heart scan done in 2 weeks. Not for any reason, just part of the package we have. I was told they couldn't accurately do it before 24 weeks. Fingers crossed all is ok and looking forward to seeing LO again.

Good luck to all with scans today!! My baby brain can't remember who you all are but I can't wait to hear the news later.

Hi to everyone else..who mentioned the chocolate muffin and the kitkat chunky (dying to try the orange ones)...mmmmmm....

Dalrymps · 07/02/2012 12:00

Hi allSmile

Congrats to all those who had scans yesterday and good luck to those who have scans todaySmile (hard to name check on my phone)

elly sorry your scan wasn't what you expected. How annoying! Hopefully Friday's will be greatSmile

Sorry not been on much, had a super busy few days. Had to finish OU assignment on sat then first shift back at work on sun followed by typing up minutes for Breastfeeding committee meeting then I had said committee meeting last night from 8-10.30pm. I have basically felt exhausted since Saturday Sad

My shift at work went fine but it was a lot more tiring than I remember now I'm further along in my pregnancy. It really took it out of me and my sciatica was really bothering me when I got home. Back in tonight. Sorry to moan, I don't want to moan to dh too much as we need the money and I'm worried I won't be able to keep it up. I'm gonna have to thoughConfused Just wish I had a desk job working the same hours but where I live jobs are rubbish anyway never mind in the current climate.

Warlin · 07/02/2012 12:57

daryl glad to hear that you were well enough to go back to work but it sounds tough. Are you on your feet all day? And is the job physical? I'm lucky that mine is a desk job so I can put my feet up for a bit while doing it!

Have you spoken to your employer about it as they have to make adjustments to your job to suit your needs...you shouldn't have to leave. Could you ask for more breaks or is there another role you could transfer to.

I need to work up as far as possible as I don't get any mat pay so DH will have to cover the bills! I am worried though as my job is very demanding and stressful and I'm worried I won't be able to keep up...my pregnancy brain is already starting to kick in :)

AmethystMoon · 07/02/2012 13:11

Welcome rachyroodle :)

Congratulations on your boy Seriously, your bladder skills are awesome, no way I'd have kept 2 pints in thatlong!

Congratulations on your gilr Fluffy :)

Hope your back doens't hurt you too much Dalrymps, it's rubbish having to work when you feel like that but so hard when you need the money...and let's face it little ones aren't cheap are they.

Me and mini have our scans tomorrow...can't concentrate at work today...way too 'cited Grin

itchyfootedlady · 07/02/2012 13:34

tis probably, most likely, almost definitely a girl... and she was beautifully behaved and i am over the moon as i secretly hoped it might be :) DH has been convinced its a girl from day one so he's very happy... and a little bit smug. I love all of this scan news - they are actual babies now!

Dalry i'm sorry your job is so pants, not toooo long to go now. I am practically counting down the days until i can leave. Warlin my job is pretty stressful too, but same deal with the maternity pay so going to work as long as possible. I'm really not sure i will want to come back after the baby as the job requires a fair amount of stress and i can't imagine being out of the house from 8-7 followed by evenings of worrying when i could be enjoying life with the LO. I guess we'll see what we can afford and what else i could do.

Thanks for all of the lovely messages after my last crying episode. TDW, Warlin elly i really appreciated the support. Had another mental moment last night... had minor disagreement with DH about choir... very minor... wouldn't normally warrant a discussion even... and ended up crying and sobbing for about an hour uncontrollably, worrying about everything imagineable! Bit scary actually, think i may actually be going mad. Hope its not prenatal depression or anything and that it passes soon as its exhausting getting so worked up for no real reason! Might mention it to midwife next time if it doesn't improve by 24 weeks.

Should try and concentrate on work now... but might look at little girl things online instead. yay!

itchyfootedlady · 07/02/2012 13:35

oh and good luck mini and amethyst on scans... and love the new name Kayzr

Florin · 07/02/2012 14:41

Back from holiday. Travelling was knackering and still feeling so tired but back to work today. Lovely hearing all the scan news and all the girls and boys being revealed. I haven't got mine until Monday, it had to be put back due to an important meeting dh had at work. However as we had scan at 18 weeks that has kept me going!
itchy I wouldn't worry sounds like normal pregnancy hormones to me. I was trying to cover up the tears on the plane as during turbulence I realised that if dh and i died during it no one would know that the baby was a little boy or his name so he wouldn't be remembered properly. If I could of I would of called my sister right then to tell her but I couldn't. Luckily dh was asleep so was unaware of my emotional moment. I get upset over such stupid things!
My bump is definitely there now, nothing really hides it and complete strangers were saying congratulations on being pregnant to me when I was on holiday so must be pretty obvious to everyone else too! I am so hungry all the time now, trying to eat reasonably healthy food but when I am starving it is hard! I haven't had to guts to weigh myself, I was a size 10 before but wonder if I will ever be that size again I feel massive! My sister who is just under 3 weeks behind me has only gained 200g! I am sure baby weighs more than that so keep trying to tell myself that she is the one not normal rather than me feeling like a whale! We are all different.

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